Iss Jackass Jahapanah ka kya karen?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Please read on. This is not a justification of Asad's actions, but a simple analysis of the characterisations that seem to be bang on.

Asad is typical Asad. He thinks only about himself. It is all about 'me', 'my family', 'my friend' and 'my feelings'.

Zoya is typical Zoya. It is all about everyone else, even if 'apni hadhe nazar hi nahi aate'.

Asad exploding: He falls back onbhis first impression on Zoya, every time he feels she has taken him for a ride. He simply thought she was playing a joke on him and the stupidity of the joke and the 'rishton ki na- kadarness' irked him.


Basically he is saying that she is irresponsible - BECAUSE THAT HURTS HIM A LOT. She is his. And when he calls her his, there is a level of maturity he expects from her. With all the history she has- esp the way she went to Ayan's engagement - he can never accept the consequences of that action, whatever her reasons were- because she ended up hurting too many people. That is that. Your intentions may have been good, or innocent(in this incident, where he thought she was playing an insensitive joke.)- but you are responsible for the consequences.

At the end of the day, Asad asks only one question: How could you do this to me? Aapko meri bhi kadar nahi hai? (Haiyeee...He expects her to treat him like a jahapanah...reserve your rubbish for everyone else, your best, you give it to me. I want your best!)



Zoya: Going by the precap, she once again tries to teach Mr. Khan 'The Power Of Reasoning'- a subject he woefully fails in again and again ...and again.😉

A good teacher never gives up...Zoya does not give up on her pet project either. She is out to make Mr. Khan a reasonable man for His sake, His Ammi's sake, His sister's sake and finally for the sake of the (UN?)lucky girl who is destined for him- which she suspects is ...ahem...ahem...

So in effect she is doing herself a favour...she is taming the shrew!😆

As for the dream sequence, going by the intensity, it must be Asad's...thats what KSG implied too- it is the same push n pull n tug of war...

Can't say I am sorry.😭
Can't say I love you..😭

Can only dream of holding you in my arms...
How I wish all this was Asli and not Nakli...😭


😆


And Zoya knows that right now he is so emotionally challenged that he will only sit and pine if she walks out on him...the trait is going to remain the same. So she foolishly tries to rectify the worst student she has come across...it is futile, Zoya. You have to go the Mangalpur way that Ankie screams for...and you will end up doing it, I guess, unknowingly much much later. Asad will have to lose you one day to realise your true worth. That day will come...when he will bawl and taer himself apart..the Mangalpuri Asad. There will be no going back after that.😉


On Tanveer: Probably she confesses to him that she did it out of her fear for doctors and goes on to burn the saree or whatever.😡

Let it be...Catalyst apni kaam kar rahi hai. She choked another dream sequence out of him, and probably the saugat will be given with better feelings than were intended before...who knows?😆


Finally this one is for Asad from the QH forum:


"Dread remorse when you are tempted to err, Miss Eyre; remorse is the poison of life."
Charlotte Bront, Jane Eyre

Remorse, Mr. Khan!

As you judge and convict Zoya, in all your blindness...know this: You will have to repent one day. You'll regret your words. 😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great post. I love the way you explained.

Though Asya have come closer and has all these feelings but they havent changed one bit
Asad - still thinks from mind than heart
Zoya - still thinks from heart than mind

Even when asad is scolding her left right and tanu adding salt to wound, she is so concerned about tanu.

I think soon after or before marraige, their big separation will come and Asad can only regret then



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well explained 👍🏼 I was looking forward to your take on it and I am glad you made a post about it.

The blood test report was just a small thing, the main reason for his outburst is of course, the turmoil that he is going through, the feelings that Zoya has incited in him, a man who had vowed never to love is now deeply in love with her. She broke that resolve of his. So, now what. She is the one who'll be the target of his outbursts? He saw the blood test fiasco as another excuse to distance himself from her and add to that, he was instigated by Billi. And you have Asad in the jerk mode again. That comment of his about not valuing relationships really put me off. How many more times do we have to listen to this. But on second thoughts, though that comment is still not justified but I feel it was directed at Zoe not because of Billi but because of her reluctance to accept that the engagement is real. He asked her twice if she wanted to marry him or if she would like to turn the fake engagement into real but failed to get a convincing answer out of her. That also, IMO was the reason behind that. He fears that for him, it is a serious commitment but what if she thinks otherwise. Zoya being Zoya will bounce back and today she's going to come with a proof. Then what, he realises his mistake and mumbles a sorry.

This cycle of MUs is getting a bit repetitive and I really want to see some development in their relatonship. Like both of them having a mature conversation. We haven't seen that happening. I want him to apologise properly this time but I guess it won't happen this soon. Probably after Tanveer's truth comes out, we can see some good amount of repentance from his side. And I hope it is Asad's dream, I can't fathom it being Zoya's especially after what happened yesterday. I would like to see a separation at this point of time and one of the ways that can happen is when Zoya is in danger. Only that is the time when that man truly realises her importance and how he can't let her go. She is a part of his life. I want to see him going crazy for her and bawling his eyes out while she fights for her life. No matter how sadistic I may seem saying this 😆 But this is the only way, Akdu always learns things the hard way.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hey nice title loved it n ya even I feel dat its his dream!! rem holi seq dey chgd it!!

I can only hope dat he understands her b4 its too late!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wonderful post... Asad must learn to control his tongue... When he bursts out in anger... My god he says what not... Poor zoya
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: viya.mallik4eva

Great post. I love the way you explained.

Though Asya have come closer and has all these feelings but they havent changed one bit
Asad - still thinks from mind than heart
Zoya - still thinks from heart than mind

Even when asad is scolding her left right and tanu adding salt to wound, she is so concerned about tanu.

I think soon after or before marraige, their big separation will come and Asad can only regret then




After marriage, I hope...for the spicing up!😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: s120

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Well explained 👍🏼 I was looking forward to your take on it and I am glad you made a post about it.

The blood test report was just a small thing, the main reason for his outburst is of course, the turmoil that he is going through, the feelings that Zoya has incited in him, a man who had vowed never to love is now deeply in love with her. She broke that resolve of his. So, now what. She is the one who'll be the target of his outbursts? He saw the blood test fiasco as another excuse to distance himself from her and add to that, he was instigated by Billi. And you have Asad in the jerk mode again. That comment of his about not valuing relationships really put me off. How many more times do we have to listen to this. But on second thoughts, though that comment is still not justified but I feel it was directed at Zoe not because of Billi but because of her reluctance to accept that the engagement is real. He asked her twice if she wanted to marry him or if she would like to turn the fake engagement into real but failed to get a convincing answer out of her. That also, IMO was the reason behind that. He fears that for him, it is a serious commitment but what if she thinks otherwise. Zoya being Zoya will bounce back and today she's going to come with a proof. Then what, he realises his mistake and mumbles a sorry.

This cycle of MUs is getting a bit repetitive and I really want to see some development in their relatonship. Like both of them having a mature conversation. We haven't seen that happening. I want him to apologise properly this time but I guess it won't happen this soon. Probably after Tanveer's truth comes out, we can see some good amount of repentance from his side. And I hope it is Asad's dream, I can't fathom it being Zoya's especially after what happened yesterday. I would like to see a separation at this point of time and one of the ways that can happen is when Zoya is in danger. Only that is the time when that man truly realises her importance and how he can't let her go. She is a part of his life. I want to see him going crazy for her and bawling his eyes out while she fights for her life. No matter how sadistic I may seem saying this 😆 But this is the only way, Akdu always learns things the hard way.


Shreya,
Thanks!😊

Leaving in a few minutes...

Mature convo: will come much later...who is mature among the two any way?😆

The reason is, once the MUs are all cleared, Zoya and asad will niot have major fights- they will have sweet nok- jhoks...so Gul will reserve the heart to heart talk for later... For now, they will battle out their feelings for each other...they both have an ego.

Asad disappointed:

That tear drop in his eye when he sees her in the engagement attire...Wish it was true...how I wish all this was not nakli. He is not waiting for an answer from her...he i staking things in his hand...making the decision for both of them...unfair, but all for her 'welfare'...

If she says Yes, I want thito be real...do you think he will go ahead and make it real?


Zoya has already replied in the affirmative - she has dared him to bare his feelings. That shows she does care...a lot. And that scares him to death.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup


Shreya,
Thanks!😊

Leaving in a few minutes...

Mature convo: will come much later...who is mature among the two any way?😆

The reason is, once the MUs are all cleared, Zoya and asad will niot have major fights- they will have sweet nok- jhoks...so Gul will reserve the heart to heart talk for later... For now, they will battle out their feelings for each other...they both have an ego.

Asad disappointed:

That tear drop in his eye when he sees her in the engagement attire...Wish it was true...how I wish all this was not nakli. He is not waiting for an answer from her...he i staking things in his hand...making the decision for both of them...unfair, but all for her 'welfare'...

If she says Yes, I want thito be real...do you think he will go ahead and make it real?


Zoya has already replied in the affirmative - she has dared him to bare his feelings. That shows she does care...a lot. And that scares him to death.


@ bold: True that 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I already miss you NOO :(
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome post, i find the quote you used is just perfect as an ending to your post and a message to asad.

"remorse is the poison of life" i just like it.

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