Asad and Zoya in the 'NOW' moment! :)

I know that it is a very long post but please take time and read it!!! It might just help you! Thanks! :)

So I wrote a topic a few days back but I thought about editing and reposting it after noticing too much negativity, and unhealthy attachment with Qubool Hai on this forum. I love India Forum but lately it's just been a mess..everyone making posts about what could happen and what should not happen..nothing against that..but it's really getting a little too much...a little too much of tension and worry on the forum..and I am genuinely concerned about all the fans of Qubool Hai who are having a very hard time because of the things that haven't even happened yet and very possibly may not even happen! Some of Qubool Hai fans on this forum are very much devastated (you could totally sense their state through their posts) because of the spoilers!!! Not trying to be rude but it's kinda pathetic!

Also reposting the comment that I made on another post..it might help y'all worried people out there as well.

So here's the comment that I made a few days back on a post:

"Not worried at all about what's gonna happen!!!! I just know that whatever happens is gonna help Asad and Zoya grow in love for each other! The show has been going on since October and the couple still hasn't confessed their love...Whatever route the show may take..it eventually has to come to the point where the confession happens..Every next moment is just bringing them closer and closer to the confession. I actually like the pace..people don't just fall in love so easily especially when they have lives like Asad and Zoya!"

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Below is the post that I wrote on the weekend..Its called Carpe Diem..Just wanted to share it with y'all again:

""Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy." ~Leo Buscaglia

"Carpe Diem" is what I have to remind myself all the time. It's a Latin phrase for "seize the moment"! And ever since I have heard of this phrase, it has been my motto for life. Many times I tend to focus so much on the past and the future that I miss out on the present. So just wanted to suggest y'all..PLEASE don't worry about the future!!!

I know that I should be writing about "Qubool Hai" and I am not directly writing anything about the show but India Forum is kinda like a family now so I thought about sharing with y'all a real life principle that can help y'all on daily basis. I have just noticed and felt the hurt that y'all are going through unnecessarily by living in the future.

I wanna quote a couple of scriptures from the Bible that can help you not just while watching Qubool Hai but in your life NOW and in the FUTURE...
Jesus says, "Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?" (Matthew 6:27)
"So do not worry or be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will have worries and anxieties of its own. Sufficient for each day is its own trouble." (Matthew 6:34)

Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don't get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes! :)

For a real life scenario, Carpe Diem doesn't mean that you don't plan for the future..yes, you need to plan for the future but don't start living there. You gotta live in the present and make the most of it.
In relation to Qubool Hai..you can't really plan the future..you can't really change anything..you are not the writer of the story..so what's the point of stressing out? Constantly thinking about what wrong can happen in the future is only spoiling your today, your mood, making you worried, giving you headaches, panic and anxiety attacks and you can't do anything about it...TV is for the entertainment..Yes, we do get involved with the characters, story, actors emotionally..I understand that..but don't let it effect your mind and soul so much that you are having problems with your health. I am not exaggerating..I read a few people mention that they are stressed out, frustrated, and even having blood pressure problems because of the show. How can you allow a TV show to have so much grip on you? Don't take me wrong, I have been a Karan Singh Grover fan since DMG and now an AsYa fan and I do get pretty attached to the characters too but friends..don't get so intense..life is much more than a TV soap..AsYa's love story is not the end of the world..You matter, your life matters, your health matters, your day matters, your mood matters..When you are having a rough day, it effects everyone around you..and some of you are having a rough weekend and its only because of a TV show..that's just sad! I am pretty sure that God has a better plan for your life than being depressed because of a TV show!!!

Friends, Carpe Diem, chillax, and get ready to enjoy the upcoming AsYa scene because KSG is gonna be at his romantic best! ;) and Mr. Asad Ahmed Khan who is super orthodox is gonna be as filmy as anyone can get and its gonna be EPIC!!! "Mitwa Ishq Pe Zor Nahin!"

Love y'all and have a wonderful week!"

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Friends, TV is supposed to be fun..India Forum is supposed to be fun too..I understand the sentiments but please don't get too serious..At the end of the day, Qubool Hai isn't any REALITY..so don't let it effect y'all so much. I am totally in love with AsYa too but PLEASE don't allow a TV show to impact you in any negative way. Love is beautiful..and us girls love watching love stories and we start to idealize the characters that create the magic (love onscreen)..but with daily soaps..we really have to make a conscious effort to draw a line of how much we can allow it to get a hold of us..Daily soaps obviously have tendency to keep us hooked and become a part of our lives deeply and that's because we watch them everyday unlike movies...we really have to guard our hearts or else we can definitely get a little too much attached with the show where it can start to hurt us in every way..emotionally and mentally!!!!

Hopefully my post can help people look at the show a little differently and..the bigger picture..look at their lives a little differently and not worry!

P.S. It's proven that most of the things that people worry about and fear in life don't even happen!

I'm not at all worried about the future and its not making me tensed at all...I actually like having so many topics being made about the show and I'm just thinking of these posts as a way to increase forum activity 😃

thank you for writing this post.. hope everyone listens to your advice.. A Tv show is a Tv show.. It's not reality and in no way connected to our life in reality.. we see it as a mechanism of de-stressing.. not to give further stress to our selves...To an extent , Its fun to speculate, wonder and predict.. but it should not go beyond a limit.😃

Thank you for such a lovely post. Much needed! The spoilers are driving us crazy 😆 But yes, predicting, theorising and wondering about the upcoming track is something we all like to do but then it shouldn't be to the extent of stressing ourselves over it.

Originally posted by: LoveAsYa222

I'm not at all worried about the futureand its not making me tensed at all...I actually like having so many topics being made about the showand I'm just thinking of these posts as a way to increase forum activity😃

Well, there's one positive response..forum activity..hunn..that's another way to look at it...but I would still say that predictions, tensions etc are going a little out of proportion on this forum!!! Glad to know that you aren't being effected with the spoilers and are not tensed but some people are...people are actually, literally very worried..unhealthy obsession with the show!!! So just wanted to somehow help those people cheer up a little! :)

Originally posted by: friendsall

wll said!!!

Thanks dear! Just trying to help the India Forum family! People really need to calm down and relax!

Originally posted by: sumaiya14

well said

Hey thanks!!! Just wanna help people enjoy the moment!!! Yesterday's episode was sooo good but people couldn't enjoy it too much because they were constantly thinking about the future track! Sad!

Originally posted by: kaussar

thank you for writing this post.. hope everyone listens to your advice.. A Tv show is a Tv show.. It's not reality and in no way connected to our life in reality.. we see it as a mechanism of de-stressing.. not to give further stress to our selves...To an extent , Its fun to speculate, wonder and predict.. but it should not go beyond a limit.😃

You are so welcome! We are on the same page!!! We don't need unnecessary stress in our lives!!! I love the show but some people are going crazy! Too much thinking...they could use their energy in something productive rather than on a TV show!

Originally posted by: s120

Thank you for such a lovely post. Much needed! The spoilers are driving us crazy😆But yes, predicting, theorising and wondering about the upcoming track is something we all like to do but then it shouldn't be to the extent of stressing ourselves over it.

You are welcome! Predicting is fun..the forum is created so we can discuss the show...but excess of everything is bad!!! Glad you understand! :)