Yesterday am member of our Qubool hai parivaar pointed out Asad's unacceptable behavior and many of us who read the post agreed with her.
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/qubool-hai/3498366/new-lows
Ever since zoya stepped foot in Asad's house he has done nothing but insult her and and jump to conclusion when something goes wrong (e.g Dilshad's shooting). and not forgetting the slap scene which many of us forgot even before the episode ended i know i did. I only remembered it when one of the QH members made a post yesterday. I never once thought that the slap was unacceptable i just thought about later how romantic it would be when he finds out he was wrong and would be moving mountains to make it up to zoya. Just think about if you were a guest staying in the house of someone like Asad and that they aways insulted and misunderstood you. Would you stay? I know that i would leave ASAP and hope i never have to see that person ever again. And to make matters worst Asad's behavior does not seem to be improving at all. He told zoya that she does not deserve a family knowing full well that her mother is dead and she does not know who her father is. Do you think that was wrong? No matter how angry i am at a person i would never say such a cruel and heartless thing to them. He know zoya does not have a mother and a father then why is her saying this.
At first i thought that this show is written by men who are clearly still living in the dark ages but i was wrong i was very surprised to know it was written by a woman. I missed zoya's old character who would not put up with anything wrong now she is being portrayed as an abused damsel in distress. Asad has already physically abused her (the slapping) and now he is emotionally abusing her (telling zoya she does not deserve a family). Ask yourself if the man you love is treating you like this will you remain quiet? will you put up with him just because you have feeling for him?
We all need to stop justifying Asad's cruel behavior and let CV know that this is unacceptable i don't believe nor have faith that he will change anytime soon. No matter how badly he treats zoya we all just forget about it. The slap was completely forgotten after the Teri Meri dance. I know if zoya was behaving like this many people will call her a lot of names. But does it make it okay that a man is behaving like this. We cant forget this is abuse and think of it as romance i know i use to but now i have opened my eyes and realized that this is wrong. We need to stop forgetting and justifying his behavior and CV needs to stop brainwashing us into forgetting his behavior and looking at is as romantic. They needs to know that its teenage girls and young women who are yet the experience the world who are watching the show they know that QH is like oxygen for us cant live without it. I use to thing to myself how lucky i would be to have a man just like Asad in my life but now opening my eyes i don't think i want a man just like him. KSG needs to tell the writers of this show that the way Asad is being portrayed is wrong and disrespectful to women. I think Asad needs to stop feeling sorry for himself and get a grip zoya has the same pain as him but you don't see her feeling sorry for her self and taking out her anger on other people. At the moment i think Asad is being selfish. Many of us who watched IPKKND know that we had CV tightly within our grip they never did anything that would upset that fans and give them low TRP i have noticed with QH people are crossing they fingers and hoping the day that i show ends will never come I like Asad don't get me wrong but i dislike his behavior even i have no faith left but i still hope for my for the sake of my QH parivaar her changes soon and my faith will be restored😃
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This is purely my opinion which i am entitled to
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/qubool-hai/3498366/new-lows