Asad's unacceptable behavior

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Please no bashing this is purely my opinion which am entitled to

Yesterday am member of our Qubool hai parivaar pointed out Asad's unacceptable behavior and many of us who read the post agreed with her.
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/qubool-hai/3498366/new-lows

Ever since zoya stepped foot in Asad's house he has done nothing but insult her and and jump to conclusion when something goes wrong (e.g Dilshad's shooting). and not forgetting the slap scene which many of us forgot even before the episode ended i know i did. I only remembered it when one of the QH members made a post yesterday. I never once thought that the slap was unacceptable i just thought about later how romantic it would be when he finds out he was wrong and would be moving mountains to make it up to zoya. Just think about if you were a guest staying in the house of someone like Asad and that they aways insulted and misunderstood you. Would you stay? I know that i would leave ASAP and hope i never have to see that person ever again. And to make matters worst Asad's behavior does not seem to be improving at all. He told zoya that she does not deserve a family knowing full well that her mother is dead and she does not know who her father is. Do you think that was wrong? No matter how angry i am at a person i would never say such a cruel and heartless thing to them. He know zoya does not have a mother and a father then why is her saying this.

At first i thought that this show is written by men who are clearly still living in the dark ages but i was wrong i was very surprised to know it was written by a woman. I missed zoya's old character who would not put up with anything wrong now she is being portrayed as an abused damsel in distress. Asad has already physically abused her (the slapping) and now he is emotionally abusing her (telling zoya she does not deserve a family). Ask yourself if the man you love is treating you like this will you remain quiet? will you put up with him just because you have feeling for him?

We all need to stop justifying Asad's cruel behavior and let CV know that this is unacceptable i don't believe nor have faith that he will change anytime soon. No matter how badly he treats zoya we all just forget about it. The slap was completely forgotten after the Teri Meri dance. I know if zoya was behaving like this many people will call her a lot of names. But does it make it okay that a man is behaving like this. We cant forget this is abuse and think of it as romance i know i use to but now i have opened my eyes and realized that this is wrong. We need to stop forgetting and justifying his behavior and CV needs to stop brainwashing us into forgetting his behavior and looking at is as romantic. They needs to know that its teenage girls and young women who are yet the experience the world who are watching the show they know that QH is like oxygen for us cant live without it. I use to thing to myself how lucky i would be to have a man just like Asad in my life but now opening my eyes i don't think i want a man just like him. KSG needs to tell the writers of this show that the way Asad is being portrayed is wrong and disrespectful to women. I think Asad needs to stop feeling sorry for himself and get a grip zoya has the same pain as him but you don't see her feeling sorry for her self and taking out her anger on other people. At the moment i think Asad is being selfish. Many of us who watched IPKKND know that we had CV tightly within our grip they never did anything that would upset that fans and give them low TRP i have noticed with QH people are crossing they fingers and hoping the day that i show ends will never come I like Asad don't get me wrong but i dislike his behavior even i have no faith left but i still hope for my for the sake of my QH parivaar her changes soon and my faith will be restored😃

Please comment and share your opinions 😛

This is purely my opinion which i am entitled to

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/qubool-hai/3498366/new-lows

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oneofthegirls thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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please dont just read and click the like button i want some comments whether people agree or disagree
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I absolutely agree!!

If ksg refuses to do intimate romantic scenes,then. He she have refused to do the slap scene as well. It is not okay for any man to slap a woman no matter how much he loves her etc.. I wild have slapped asad back if I were zoya... I really hated that slap... It does not matter that he said sorry later

I think shows shld eradicate slapping woman scenes.. It's just stupid
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with you.It is so well-know that people in India think so low of woman. I had so many high hopes from te show. Being a Hindu. I hoped the show would show how modern muslims are. And they should not be stereotyped. But the total opposite is happening. Being so modern raised, I though Zoya would be an inspiration to a lot of girls. About selfrespect, standing up for yourself. A lot of youngs watch the show, I am turning 15 myself. But what is shown is just disappointing. Zoya, a well-outspoken girl, living in the house of a man who physically and mentallly tries to break her. And even worse... eventually falling in love with that man. While she knows that she is independent and shouldn't be staying there. She has the choice to move out of that house, but she stays and lately she stopped saying things back to Asad.Choices. I don't why the CVs always go for the wrong one. Just like Asad.Asad has the choice between talking and especially listening to Zoya rather than jump to conclusions and humiliate her or slap her. But he goes for the second one. Only to know he was wrong and than say sorry with bitter coffee while everyone ahws at it. It is sick. I know a lot of people tried to defence Asad. But there is no way you can. A lot of people say that his mother was on the death bed and he thought Zoya was at fault. Still he could have talked ans solved it out. He would have known Zoya wasn't at fault. I don't even get why he didn't want to help Miriam. Wwasn't she family. She really needed the help badly. And he knew. Didn't he care. Like a lot of Indian guys don't care about the life of girls. The slapthing, I really think something went wrong in the family. I even think Rashid's attempt on strangling Raziya was wrong. Though I do understand the circumstance he was in. She just framed him in a murdercase, and it was no jumping to conclusions. After all those years of blackmailing the man hadn't thought of something worse. And than BOOM! She framed him and made him a murderer.There is a lot wrong in the show. And the chemistry of the lead-couple has covered the mistakes for a lot of viewers. But I just can't watch the show, knowing how much I wish I never get that unlucky with marrying a man like Asad.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with you,the slap scene was too much..
It wasn't romantic at all,if a man ever slaps me I would never ever even look at his face again.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I just want to state...
He never TOLD Zoya that she doesn't deserve a family. He TOLD Tanveer that she is a misfit for any family. Zoya happened to overhear. THAT is not his fault...It was just bad luck and timing on her part. I don't however agree with that statement he made while talking to his FRIEND.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

I just want to state...
He never TOLD Zoya that she doesn't deserve a family. He TOLD Tanveer that she is a misfit for any family. Zoya happened to overhear. THAT is not his fault...It was just bad luck and timing on her part. I don't however agree with that statement he made while talking to his FRIEND.


I think you are talking about the wrong scene. She was talking about the scene where Asad tells her that that is why god didn't give her a mother, directly to Zoya.
And I am against gossiping. If you can't say something good, you shouldn't say anything at all, especially if it is behinds the person's back. That is just dirty. He has no right to say something like that about her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with all the comments, but do not agree with the writers trying to put Muslim women down. These days women, be it Muslim or otherwise are all self-reliant and working women, office or otherwise and will not accept these kind of abuses from a man. Asad (the character not KSG) has to reliase that his mother was also self reliant and did a good job bringing the two siblings up. He should stop hating everybody and that is the only way he will move ahead
These are my views only
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree as well as disagree with you.
Some of ur points of urs are right in my eyes and others are not.
At the end of the show,I would like to say that Asad has been shown behaving rudely with Zoe since day 1.
I don't understand that why all of a sudden this blaming system has started.
His character has been shown as judgemental and his actions are in line with his character from day 1.
Ok I agree Asad should not insult Zoe all the time but then Asad does not do it without a reason.He always has a reason to shout at Zoe.Why are we not questioning Zoe's character?
I feel that it's Zoe's character which needs to be improved more than that of Asad's.
Zoe has been showing melting towards zille ilahi's sitam since a long time.Earlier she used to retort but now she only cries.
I want her to say enough jahanpanah six packs,just becoz I live in ur house does not mean that u can shout at me and say anything to me.
I really want this outburst from Zoe's side and I'm sure this is soon going to happen in the show.
I'm sure we'll see Asad regretting the insults he has thrown at Zoe in future once he realizes that he is in love with her.
Regarding the slap issu-I beg u not to start it again.you have no idea what mess it has created on the forum.
Please Please forget about it.
You have made a very nice and in-depth post dear.
I really enjoyed reading your POV.
Kindly keep coming up with such amazing write-ups.
Take care!
PS-No offense intended to anyone.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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👏 100% agree with you...

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