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Originally posted by: varshad

All T.V. shows are famous for their bloopers but something so uncalled for they would show. As has clutched Z's throat, thrown a phone at her or pretty darn close to her, pushed her against the wall, pointed a gun at her and of course twisted her arm several times. I kind of saw all that in name of plot and character development but did they have to show physical violence. I would have respected A and the CVs more if they had shown him controlling his slap last minute and breaking things all around her instead

And if the idea was to anger the people watching the violence and think it was wrong well then heck yeah A was wrong towards Z big time. 😲 But I don't think that is what the CVs were thinking.

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Check the voting on this thread here! And the comments supporting Asad and the sympathy he is getting. We even have people blaming Zoya - as if she deserved it. (Passing out in shock).

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3422290&PN=1&RN=1

Originally posted by: varshad

This is a show not reality that we all to be fair and see both the sides of the story. This is a show, shot on camera with written lines and conceived plots on paper. So as a director or creative I can very well control what I want to show. And as a woman and an educated one who I'm sure is very self respecting of herself and her needs I think it is irresponsible to show these kind of scenes which only support violence rather than condemn it. They should have simply not shown the slap, hit the wall near Z or if Z she tries to put a hand on his shoulder push her away. But forA to slap Z even if in reflex then show no immediate contrition does not bode well for a main lead/hero character which we all know he is. Believe me when I say I write intense scenes between my leads but I would never allow a main character of my books to cross a line. Fiction can be manipulated and as a creative I do that in my books to reflect my thoughts and assumptions. This is not a tirade I promise you just a putting forth of why entertainment needs to be more responsible.😊

Originally posted by: narangi314

you know i started watching this show from the mahasangam episode. I was impressed that they would deal with serious and topical issues like khap panchayats and attitudes to rape survivors...

Zoya's zero-tolerance for regressive attitudes was such a refreshing change to watch!

But the "hero"?

What with this slap and his seriously regressive attitude toward women in the name of "respect" and "tradition" - women should walk with their eyes lowered, not talk back to men, not wear clothes that will provoke men into harassing them etc...wishing Zoya will find a man who will "clip her wings" 😕

i really don;t know what this show is about anymore...

Originally posted by: cocco

I am sorry to hear about your mother :(, you are brave indeed, kudos!

By legal action I remembered that Asad is at fault too for not taking any legal action against dilwar mamu atleast for hurting him if not for Zoya, but he chose to downplay it! and the whole blame shifted towards Zoya.

Regarding slap if CVs are going to downplay it by making him apologize Zoya and realize his love for Zoya, and Zoya too forgiving him bla bla bla... then I will be totally disappointed, if their intension was to show the reality and show what is right then they have to really come up with a solid track.

Originally posted by: Rushitaa

I'm not surprised...remember the episode in which she helped him meet ayaan, he lashed out at her for that and said he would kill her if she interfered in his life again? maybe this is a part of his character?
but this is the reason women are abused, if it was not done/shown in televison, maybe it can help reduce the number of attacks...even gang rapes but this is just my opinion...

Originally posted by: narangi314

What is really obscene and disturbing about all this is how this cycle of abuse is being portrayed as romance! And people are actually celebrating it!

Originally posted by: _innocent_

If want me to justify my stance then simply quote me! No need to ask indirect questions! Both parties according to me was wrong, and placing myself in both their shoes, I see where they are coming from! Quite frankly the world wont revolve around people agreeing on the same stance! So I stated my POV! Just like everybody else did here!

Violence is not OK! Correct! Self defence justifies violence OK!But are you seriously telling me you would not use violence if you feel someone caused your mother to be lying on her death bed? I will hurt anyone who hurts my family! Whether they are a man or woman!..So I answered the question from my personal POV!.

This is clearly a touchy issue! so everyone will get all hyped up! quite evidently!But unless each invidiual is faced with such a situation according to me, whatever stance they take now has no weight! You cna judge me to a phan girl if you so wish, but I believe my perspective on this situationn is pretty realistic!

Originally posted by: eshasrk

I am so pissed about this... I feel no matter how emotional Asad was, but this is just not done...
He slapped her and it is justified ???? Another time he will just kill her and maybe it will be justified too...
This is so ridiculous 😡

And I will be even more pissed if they will show Zoya acting as if nothing happened at all 😡 😡

I am just wondering how in goodness name they will show Asad redeem himself, coz I for one I am totally disappointed and pissed at him for the time being. Maybe I should stop watching QH too for a while...

If Zoya has one bit of self respect left in her, she should leave as soon as this is over and Dilshaad is ok. I think it is time for Zoya to live somewhere else...and a simple " I am sorry " from Asad will just NOT be enough !!!! He has to repent big time
And I think it's about time that Zoya starts concentrating on the job she actually came for and stop getting involved in Asad Khan and his family...