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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: VictoriaHot


Thanks for your straight forward response , Jojo. Agreed. We all will always have different POVs and its OKAY. But its only when criticism turns to rigid bashing and fandom turns to fanaticism, things go awry. I have seen the pre emptive warnings and that stops healthy debates , but sometimes i think , maybe its for the better. It blocks exchange of ideas but avoids ugly fights as well.



I don't know Vicky, even without the ugly fights, this mighty hill-top attitude of 'you infants don't know how shows are made, wait wait wait' is suffocating. I'm fine when it remains confined to the TM's thread because I can avoid reading it but when it unnecessarily infiltrates others' simple, well-meaning, neutral threads, it becomes unbearable. Oh well. They say choose your battles and so, I will.

I'm just going to say thank you to those members (I don't know anyone here personally, btw) who are always well-balanced in their responses even when expressing dissent and stay away from snide insinuations on a regular basis.

All sorts of people have the right to exist and express on a forum- whether they are fan girls gushing about AAK, whether they are intellectuals wanting a literature-worthy discussion, or whether they are bored tv-watchers who just want some paisa-wasool entertainment. Apni apni marzi hai. I just hope members do some self-introspection, step off the throne, and leave out their extreme, cutting, condescending responses and behave in a civil manner conducive to discussion, not war. This request applies to fanatics and bashers alike.

Anyway. I look forward to your analysis tomorrow. 😃

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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Blueflames. ( your pretty name please?)

I know that i may have come across as rude and rigid in my post , but if someone has an objective view, they will understand what i was trying to say.😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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We needed this. Thank you soo much for posting. And i second you. This is indeed true. Its a total work of Fiction, and perception differs i do accept. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, and we should rather appreciate the hard work rather than criticizing even in those places where it is flawless. The forum is a place where we can discuss and share about our different viewpoints.

Thank you again for posting this.

Sorry, if i hurt anyone. it was done totally unintentionally. i just expressed what i had felt. Thank you.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: shanakyasharan

jhoote mat marna laila but u giving criticism is absolutely fine but thoda sa aur polite hokar karo toh kisika kya jaata hai😳...thodasa linient😊


to me shows r for entertainment.only if it gets too bizaree will i say its going down d drains but right now qubool hai is just fine n doing gud...



Arre? Kis mein itni himmat hai ki tumhe yahaan aake haath bhi lagaaye?😆... lets enjoy QH as long as it lasts and be a little easy on the show and each-other. 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: VictoriaHot

@Blueflames. ( your pretty name please?)


I know that i may have come across as rude and rigid in my post , but if someone has an objective view, they will understand what i was trying to say.😊


I am Saba.
anything that is offending to anyone becomes rude and offensive, because everybody perceive things they want to. that's where human nature and ideas/ thoughts clash and such interesting posts come into being.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: princessjojo



I don't know Vicky, even without the ugly fights, this mighty hill-top attitude of 'you infants don't know how shows are made, wait wait wait' is suffocating. I'm fine when it remains confined to the TM's thread because I can avoid reading it but when it unnecessarily infiltrates others' simple, well-meaning, neutral threads, it becomes unbearable. Oh well. They say choose your battles and so, I will.

I'm just going to say thank you to those members (I don't know anyone here personally, btw) who are always well-balanced in their responses even when expressing dissent and stay away from snide insinuations on a regular basis.

All sorts of people have the right to exist and express on a forum- whether they are fan girls gushing about AAK, whether they are intellectuals wanting a literature-worthy discussion, or whether they are bored tv-watchers who just want some paisa-wasool entertainment. Apni apni marzi hai. I just hope members do some self-introspection, step off the throne, and leave out their extreme, cutting, condescending responses and behave in a civil manner conducive to discussion, not war. This request applies to fanatics and bashers alike.


Anyway. I look forward to your analysis tomorrow. 😃


If that much happened here, this forum will be paradise. That is why i mentioned in the post that e need to keep a fine line between bashing and criticism, blind fanaticism and cute awwing. That is the balance that we need to strike. If we cannot appreciate an effort, we have no right to thrash it either. Do drop in to my post tomorrow, Jojo. 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

We needed this. Thank you soo much for posting. And i second you. This is indeed true. Its a total work of Fiction, and perception differs i do accept. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, and we should rather appreciate the hard work rather than criticizing even in those places where it is flawless. The forum is a place where we can discuss and share about our different viewpoints.


Thank you again for posting this.

Sorry, if i hurt anyone. it was done totally unintentionally. i just expressed what i had felt. Thank you.


Arre! My little Humpty Dumpty, so glad that you came here!😆... don't be sorry for what you express honestly, no matter how it is received. You are right. We just need to control the tone of our expression.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: blueflames


I am Saba.
anything that is offending to anyone becomes rude and offensive, because everybody perceive things they want to. that's where human nature and ideas/ thoughts clash and such interesting posts come into being.


Good to know your name, Saba.😳... i agree that we need to control how we perceive and how we express..😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessjojo



I don't know Vicky, even without the ugly fights, this mighty hill-top attitude of 'you infants don't know how shows are made, wait wait wait' is suffocating. I'm fine when it remains confined to the TM's thread because I can avoid reading it but when it unnecessarily infiltrates others' simple, well-meaning, neutral threads, it becomes unbearable. Oh well. They say choose your battles and so, I will.

I'm just going to say thank you to those members (I don't know anyone here personally, btw) who are always well-balanced in their responses even when expressing dissent and stay away from snide insinuations on a regular basis.

All sorts of people have the right to exist and express on a forum- whether they are fan girls gushing about AAK, whether they are intellectuals wanting a literature-worthy discussion, or whether they are bored tv-watchers who just want some paisa-wasool entertainment. Apni apni marzi hai. I just hope members do some self-introspection, step off the throne, and leave out their extreme, cutting, condescending responses and behave in a civil manner conducive to discussion, not war. This request applies to fanatics and bashers alike.

Anyway. I look forward to your analysis tomorrow. 😃



@bold .. This

its the actual thing im looking for to any topic maker.. the terms you used is all i care for .. I disliked most when ppl throw attitude in posts.. why cant u disagree with little bit of respect .. I hate this type of behavior .. which lead me to stop visiting some topic makers post for ever .. :)

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: godhuli_4_Sarun



@bold .. This

its the actual thing im looking for to any topic maker.. the terms you used is all i care for .. I disliked most when ppl throw attitude in posts.. why cant u disagree with little bit of respect .. I hate this type of behavior .. which lead me to stop visiting some topic makers post for ever .. :)


True. Someone even told me to spare her the horrors of opening my mouth. 🤣...uff! Kitni hurt hui thi main, ki 2 chocolate muffins khaa daale.😆

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