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Posted: 13 years ago
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After the less than satisfactory episode on Monday, we got a blockbuster yesterday. Good dialogues and good performances all around.

In my late teens, my chachi's father one day pointed to my parents and said to me "that is a perfect marriage. One falls sick, the other needs to take medicine".

Therein lies the definition of marriage - respect, trust, responsibility, care, cherishing, hopes and dreams, laughter and tears, ups and downs, dependability, nurturing, love - all mutual, all together, all as one, till you reach a stage where its two bodies but one entity. It takes a life time to achieve - but its the belief that it exists and is achievable that gets things off to a good start. It is what Pankhudi believes in and Adi does not.

So to the episode - Shivam is being pleaded with and Adi blamed for ruining Pankhudi's life. He then does the only thing he can think of to handle the situation, shut everyone up and protect his friend. We got the cliched maang me sindoor, but what followed was terrific.

Starting with a stinging slap, Pankhudi questions his motives. She tries to explain that he has taken their friendship to another level. Badgered on all sides, he protests his care for friend, he would do anything for her and their friendship. He discounts responsibility and says they are individuals who will continue to look after themselves. Almost unforgivably, he says he never wanted to marry Pankhudi, if he wanted to he would have done so long ago.

Ambika then voices the fear that everyone is probably feeling - what he calls handling the situation today, will be a mistake tomorrow. Finally, dadaji steps in and begins to reconcile everyone, including Pankhudi and Adi, to what happened.

Interestingly, at this stage in the Paya relationship, they respect and trust each other, they care for each other, they protest any pointing of fingers at the other, they are willing to go the extra mile for each other. This is the pinnacle of friendship, but only the foundation of a good marriage. Long road ahead before they reach the stage where one falls ill and the other needs to take medicine.

Random thoughts

Mami thinking something is wrong - good instincts 😃

Close ups of Pankhudi's dad - they could have at least given the close up a couple of dialogues

Naman, Shivam and clan - accusing the Guptas of staging the whole thing to make Adi their son in law. Seriously, wasn't it you people who pursued Pankhudi even after she told Shivam she could not marry him? 😡

Precap

Latika trying to spill the beans to Avantika. You have been a great Cupid Latika, now do us all a favor and fade away.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Excellent Analysis Santhi

Adi's reaction was very different from what we expected...I was surprised..Happy 2 see Dadaji got full belief in Adi😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: slmu

Random thoughts

Mami thinking something is wrong - good instincts 😃

Close ups of Pankhudi's dad - they could have at least given the close up a couple of dialogues

Naman, Shivam and clan - accusing the Guptas of staging the whole thing to make Adi their son in law. Seriously, wasn't it you people who pursued Pankhudi even after she told Shivam she could not marry him? 😡

Precap

Latika trying to spill the beans to Avantika. You have been a great Cupid Latika, now do us all a favor and fade away.




@ bold...dat was a blooper I thnk..He was not there in mandap...😆 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: anusha.cochin

Excellent Analysis Santhi

Adi's reaction was very different from what we expected...I was surprised..Happy 2 see Dadaji got full belief in Adi😊


Thanks Anu..

Did you notice, Adi was loud when talking to others, but was pleading in a soft voice to Pankhudi 😃... knew dadaji would support
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: anusha.cochin



@ bold...dat was a blooper I thnk..He was not there in mandap...😆 😆


It wasn't a blooper. They had to close ups to make up for his absence.. they should have given him a couple of dialogues as well.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: slmu


It wasn't a blooper. They had to close ups to make up for his absence.. they should have given him a couple of dialogues as well.



yup...editing was not perfect...and Shivam and family suddenly diappeared while Adi putng Sindhoor on Pankhu...I was waitying 2 see Shivam's reaction ( I knw he will stay Robot..😆 still)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: anusha.cochin



yup...editing was not perfect...and Shivam and family suddenly diappeared while Adi putng Sindhoor on Pankhu...I was waitying 2 see Shivam's reaction ( I knw he will stay Robot..😆 still)


I know, they reappeared suddenly at the end.. it was ridiculous..😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: slmu


I know, they reappeared suddenly at the end.. it was ridiculous..😆



exactly...They vanished suddenly and re-appeared😆...btwn Naman s better n acting than robo Shivam
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exactly...They vanished suddenly and re-appeared😆...btwn Naman s better n acting than robo Shivam


definitely. and the old Neha was better...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Terrific post Shanti!!!👏

Esp the quote about marriage..so true! Adi has a long way to go in learning all that but I have faith in him..his intentions are right and he is a good person at heart and even loves Pankhu but buuddu hai thoda time lagega!..😆

I never expected the sindoor thing...totally filmy and dramatic...I liked all the other reactions later..Pankhudis mums concern, dadu's convincing points, even Mamaji's gussa was in a way true...and most of all Pankhudi's..she understands Adi very well...she exactly knows what he feels..but is worried for their future! But Dadu being the experienced saw the light ahead of the tunnel and assured Pankhudi!👏

I totally didnt like Shivam and family reaction...totally illogical and assumptive! Gosh their assumptions are like IF members superlative always!😆 But good in a way...it did the best for Paya!

Adi acted very well today...his desperation at proving his belifs and unable to get what others are able to convey..well done!

Latika is the hell bent on settling Paya!😆

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