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.Shiva.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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oh ok gn. well that depends if i am depress i will leave IF and if it's ok ok i will stick here. see you later

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Mandy

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Posted: 11 years ago

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OK first n foremost age unless ur well over 21 isn too old if ur ready n if ur heart tells u its the right kinda guy. This age factor is seriously something I don't understand unless ur minor or u haven't settled into ur profession. Bani 26 isn too young either n I am saying this thinking on practical grounds. See I can tell u one advantage of getting married from a practical POV. U will defo get time to understand ur partner before u get settled n have kids. Would u want to get married really late n then rush into having kids? See post 30, from ur health perspective also ur health will begin to take a setback. 8/10 women have problems conceiving these days n I am not saying this to scare u. I have married friends myself. So I know. If u hurry into having kids, u will never get the space u need with ur spouse n u will seriously feel more unhappy.

Please don't take me wrong. I was just trying to advise u as a friend. If ur mind isn ready for marriage then reconsider ur decision. But plz don't think that getting married at 26 is a mistake if u feel ok abt marriage. Its a ridiculous theory. Getting married at 30 will have its own cons.

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.Shiva.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: ..mandy..
OK first n foremost age unless ur well over 21 isn too old if ur ready n if ur heart tells u its the right kinda guy. This age factor is seriously something I don't understand unless ur minor or u haven't settled into ur profession. Bani 26 isn too young either n I am saying this thinking on practical grounds. See I can tell u one advantage of getting married from a practical POV. U will defo get time to understand ur partner before u get settled n have kids. Would u want to get married really late n then rush into having kids? See post 30, from ur health perspective also ur health will begin to take a setback. 8/10 women have problems conceiving these days n I am not saying this to scare u. I have married friends myself. So I know. If u hurry into having kids, u will never get the space u need with ur spouse n u will seriously feel more unhappy.

Please don't take me wrong. I was just trying to advise u as a friend. If ur mind isn ready for marriage then reconsider ur decision. But plz don't think that getting married at 26 is a mistake if u feel ok abt marriage. Its a ridiculous theory. Getting married at 30 will have its own cons.

yes that is another issue of women. i have seen few of my friends having this issue to. the thing is mandy i cannot commit to anyone. i am the only child and i have lived my life all alone. it does not mean i don't have crush on people i do but do i want someone in my life 24/7 nope. i dream as your dream have a small house, work and either i adopt a kid or have a pet. the thing is our parent's won't understand this and i am tired of explaining it to them. oh i am.

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.Shiva.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: forever.alon
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don't mind us we are talking about random stuff😆

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.Shiva.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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peehu i am online in FB ok

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Mandy

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Oh ok then. Then ur uneasiness is perfectly justified. Sorry for getting it wrong. I thought ur freaked out coz of age. I have heard some of them run away from marriage coz they feel they r too young n getting married before 25 is a crime 😵 which is ridiculous. They r ready for marriage but r immature to understand this simple fact. For all those who think they will get married post 30, I honestly pity them. They r ready for marriage but they r carried away with ridiculous daydreams. They think life ends after marriage n they cant do the things they want to. If u get the right life partner, then ur life will still be blissful n they wont know the full impact of their decisions until they r late.

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.Shiva.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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no problem. some husbands are very strick mandy and they put rules for the women which is nuts. my friend got married at 18 yrs and she was pissed thinking her husband might be not right but he is really good and i even now him. the thing is i am immature for sure, the marriage things does not work well for me. i cannot commit that is the thing and i am not wife type more like gf type who get's bored easily so will breakup but marriage means forever na.

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.Shiva.

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.Shiva.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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another things bothers me is that after marriage i might be distance from my mom b/c my husband will be there. we won't be able to chill out like before b/c i have chill with him. me and my mom watches movie in my room maybe we won't be able to do that either b/c he will be in my room.everything will be different

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Mandy

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Yes Bani This is one major issue I have n the prob like I said say I get married, how much of time will I get for myself? Lets assume I get a good minded guy who will give me my space etc etc but what abt the families? They will put the pressure on me n I have my own issues. Its horrible to deal with this mess 😵

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