What fault does Arnav possess?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Pkyek-ians and my dear friends.
I do not know whether my post will be liked by you all or not, but still I am here to put across my opinion. I shall try my best to express my opinion clearly, with facts reasonably stated and evaluating my point :)

I have been going through many such posts which concludes with ''Arnav is mad'', ''Arnav is confused'', ''Arnav should get out of the show''.
For once and all, leaving he supports JiYa or AbhiYa, have one thought he is a FATHER?
He is a genuine father, amazing friend and true guide light.
He does not has a son, but his daughters are his life. He has given his daughter's the most luxurious life and most importantly, has given them freedom.
Do you really want a dad like Shashank from DMG, who got mad hearing about armaan-riddhina? I mean Shashank was also right on his place, because whatever he did was for his daughter, but Arnav here has given his daughters freedom of life. He has never restricted them to do anything.
Like 'Ghar se baahar math jaon'', ''larkon se baat nahin karni'', etc etc.
Can't we appreciate him for that?
Just because he wants Jay-Piya together, he is wrong?
I am sorry he is not :) He is a father, and want to see Piya's good future, and to him Jay seems a perfect guy, so why shall he step back?
He has seen how Jay-Piya interact with each other with their own charm, so thinking them as a couple is not a very bad idea or a dramatic major sin?

He does not see his son-in-law in Abhay because Abhay has vanished since long, so then being a father, he shall wait for Abhay's come back? Surely, he shares amazing rapport with Abhay, and they look really good together in their conversations but Abhay has vanished for him into some anonymous land where his arrival is rather very hard for him.
The other question which is continuously raised up is how can he not sense werewolves and how he has now got the vampire catching instrument.

His daughter's life has been destructed with the presence of Vampires in her life, how can he take the step to ruin it again? For he knows Vampires are back, how can he let another non-human touch his daughter? He is NOT even aware whether werewolves exist or not, how can he recognize them?

One ridiculous blunder which he has done until now is marrying Panchi off with Neel in one go. That REALLY shouldn't have been done, but then after getting betrayed from two people, and after a girl's name being spoiled with two guys, hardly and barely another marriage proposal comes, and Arnav believed God and agreed to it. But poor him again his daughter's name going to be spoiled the third time. Hope they resist this worse times also :)

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Regarding yesterday's scene where he sents Jay to Piya's room.
As I said he is a very open-minded and broad-minded dad, he likes Jay-Piya, and most probably he didn't find any grudge or any sin for Jay to enter Piya's room. He is among those father's who believes in openness and freedom.And plus, he likes Jay genuinely, he likes jay and piya as couple too, so sending him off wasn't like really a big sin.

Total my opinion. I have put forth my opinion in a very lenient, calm and reasonable way, hence, I wish for such replies in return.😃


Thanks for reading and commenting.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Mahi it's completely your opinion and i respect that 😳
Even i used to love arnab but now he has started acting dumb😕 It is completely not because he likes Jiya or if he used to like Kapi and not Abhiya, it's his choice.
But like yesterday when he knew that his daughters were changing in the room he sent a boy to their room and he just saw jay-piya interacting that day and uske man mein shahanayi bajne lagi😕😆
Plus he was so worried about panchhi yet he got her engaged to a random guy without inquiry and in a drunken state😕

I don't doubt his love...infact i never did and neither do i hate him...it's just that he should become a bit more practical because it's his fault if misha is drinking so much. He should be cool but not irresponsible.
I love Misha but don't like the way she drinks in each and every party infront of arnab and he doesn't react or scold her...🤓

MY POV completely...😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well mahi as I quoted in some other post I will quote samething here FATHER, he alws thinks abt his saughters. A father will never want his daughter to marry a Vampire or warewolf. They will always want a hapy normal human lihe.
Arnav is no exception to it. He just wants happiness thats it. He found Jay and sid Perfect at some point of time but when he cane to know abot the SID's reality he was frst one to go against it..
And about freedom only they can understand that part better who face such thing so offcourse he is TRUE frirnd what a good parent needs to be.
Well I can write an essay on father as its my fav topic
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: chakku

Mahi it's completely your opinion and i respect that 😳
Thank you.😃
Even i used to love arnab but now he has started acting dumb😕 It is completely not because he likes Jiya or if he used to like Kapi and not Abhiya, it's his choice.
Exactly. Its his choice. But his this choice influences his decisions.
But like yesterday when he knew that his daughters were changing in the room he sent a boy to their room and he just saw jay-piya interacting that day and uske man mein shahanayi bajne lagi😕😆
Chakku, Jay is not some boy, he is Jay Khurana, his samdhi's younger son. I know he does not know his samdhis so well, but still he treats Jay as his family member.
Of course, you cannnot make one a couple with just one conversation, but I am sure he has seen kabir-piya talking but never acted like 'ye dono couple banne chahiye', etc etc. But if he saw a couple in Jay-Piya , there might be a reason, or maybe the charm they had. Might be there no charm according to you in Jay-Piya but according to him, there gestures were cute, adorable to watch. To him, they really possessed the charm and thus, that's why he thought of them as couple. Like he wants them as couple, he never claimed that they ARE a couple currently.
And regarding sending jay in the room. For him, Misha-Kabir interactions are normal, likewise, Jay-Piya interactions are also common to him. If Kabir would come, and he would have told him to go to their room, that really wouldn't be a bad idea? Likewise, this also isn't a bad idea then.😉 Because he treats Jay as a family member, and I am sure family member can have the permission to enter one's room. Regarding the dressing, his daughters aren't 2-year old kids that they wont lock up their room before dressing, or they would let Jay enter their room while they are changing.

Plus he was so worried about panchhi yet he got her engaged to a random guy without inquiry and in a drunken state😕

To me that seems a blunder by him. But you know HOW Indian society is. His daughter name has been spoiled by two guys before, and in this case, a marriage proposal coming is quite a non-expecting thought. He felt relieved that still there is SOMEONE who actually does not care about Panchi's past and wants to accept her as her daughter-in-law.

I don't doubt his love...infact i never did and neither do i hate him...it's just that he should become a bit more practical because it's his fault if misha is drinking so much. He should be cool but not irresponsible.
I love Misha but don't like the way she drinks in each and every party infront of arnab and he doesn't react or scold her...🤓

I agree about Misha's drinking. But he is practical, no father shall be SO open-minded and broad-minded like him. Misha is like the spoilt girl of him.
All mistakes of the ''apple-of-eyes'' are either forgiven or ignored, that's what he's doing with Misha. And of course, he restricted her to go near the bar, and did scold her before also but never like got too serious about it since she is his most best laadli.


MY POV completely...😊

Edited by Princezz22 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: --sunshine--

Well mahi as I quoted in some other post I will quote samething here FATHER, he alws thinks abt his saughters. A father will never want his daughter to marry a Vampire or warewolf. They will always want a hapy normal human lihe.

Exactly. One should think he is a father before disliking him for his choices.
Whatever he has done till to date is for his daughter's. His daughters are his soul, and he shall never do such thing which shall harm them.
When they do mistakes, he either forgives or ignores it just because he does not has disagreement with his daughters and they never feel like 'Prisoners'.

Arnav is no exception to it. He just wants happiness thats it. He found Jay and sid Perfect at some point of time but when he cane to know abot the SID's reality he was frst one to go against it..

Exactly, I see no issue stating that Arnav recognized Sid and cannot recognize Jay.
In the initial, he never recognized Sid, history repeats, he has not recognized Jay too.
But when he knew Sid is vampire, he broke the engagement. Likewise, if he gets to Know Jay is a werewolf, the idea of getting piya married to Jay would vanish in itself.

And about freedom only they can understand that part better who face such thing so offcourse he is TRUE frirnd what a good parent needs to be.
Well I can write an essay on father as its my fav topic

Sanju, I have never been attached to a senior citizen character up-to-date.

But to me Arnav seems amazing father. He is so open-minded, broad-minded, just like an ideal father. I wish all fathers are like him, so open-minded and putting his daughters on his head.😳Raising them with so much laad pyaar.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I saw thousands bashing him, and not one justifying it.🤔😵

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