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A.hemalatha.kini

@TOTAL-ROMANTIC

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

As you all know I am a insane ABHIYA maniac & VISU admirer/Fanatic...from day one this show has come into my life..and this forum, PKYEK forum..has been a place where my heart lies since I became active with my madness posts & hyper excited posts of ABHIYa..(VISU)..

well seriously I dont know how much have I been able to effect everyone here but I know many of my friends have encouraged & given me love & respect which I can cherish for a lifetime..and I am thankful forever for that..

BUT OFFLATE..since say about 2 or 3 weeks...I am getting a very uneasy feeling..a bad Vibe ..which is not letting me bath in the love & happiness !!

Now I dont want to go deep..all I want to say..is..CAN YOU ALL EACH & EVERY ONE in this forum..for once forget & forgive everyone & form a UNITY..for the sake of this..SHOW..can we please stop ridiculing any actor or any character..just to make your friends hurt..?? in the bargain..do you know you all are unnecessarily going through such horrible vibes in your body soul & mind..which is just so not required..all this is totally unnecessary..

Should I fall at anyones feet..I can do that..if its going to bring me back my forum...I know..I know..now please nobody give me a BHASHAN on why it is called a forum & how everyone can express their veiws..& all that..

Yes you can express your views..but in a positive way..why be negative..?? why hurt anyone on the bargain..we just know each other through our writings..why should anyone be personnal in their remarks..let it be for actors also..?? I seriously dont understand..what happiness will anyone get by talking BAD about a particular actor or a character..& hurting that actors/characters fans..!!

NEVER NEVER write any anti post..& never use words like HATE..etc etc..WHY..use it..its such a strong word..if you dont like a particular actor or a character dont talk about him..simple..why write bad..!!!

If I by any chance have told anything wrong or bad at any character or actor..I seriosuly ask my appology..though I dont think I have ever done..except yes once or twice.. I was rude to vahbiz..& i ask a open apology for that..I also feel that this POLL making comparison posts are creating all these unnecessary talks..How I wish it is stopped..!!COMPLETELY..!!

PLEASE..please..please..maintain LOVE & PEACE..& HAPPINESS..only these things matter..nothing else..I swear..all of us know that so why not do it & be a example to all the other forums..that PKYEK is the best show & forum..too..!!

PLEASE..forgive me..if I have hurt anyone by this post..I seriously felt I should..as I never go to any AT's or comaprison threads ever..I dont know whats happening..but off late I did go through..some & was shocked..& actually hurt so much that I just cannot express..!! .😭

All I can say is..please dont try to insult anyone...I mean anyone...no actor or character..because they visit here..& I SO DONT WANT ANYONE TO GET HURT..so sad..!!If you dont like something express it in a soft way not by ridiculing. and dont use abusive language

..I seriously dont know whether I did a right thing by doing this post..or not..But I finally listened.. what my heart felt..like..!!

And I am not siding anyone..I MEAN this for any character or ACTOR..lead or second lead..or side lead..whatever..!!

NOTE..PLEASE READ BELOW..!!

And dear friends..I am adding what I feel the best ever writer in this history of forum India forum I mean..POCAHONTAS my dearest friend has to say & I so agree with it..!!READ IT..!!below..!!!

All i can say is that if people have created divisions and divided the forum into 'US' & 'THEM', then, let it be. The best thing is to stay in your camps and maintain mutual respect from a distance. Or else the best and the safest solution is just cut all communication. If you don't talk to each-other , there will be no fights , no bad blood and no hurt feelings.

People will be just people and you might as well learn to live with the reality that not all are going to be white doves.

Edited by TOTAL-ROMANTIC - 14 years ago

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@SilverBell

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+ 14

Posted: 14 years ago

Hema Sweety You Are So Right. But Daring I Have Some News For Join My Group For Rithivk Dhanjani. You Will Know. Sweety. You Will Be Very Happy. Just Word: Vivian Desena. (:

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ShinSegi

@Befikre

Trailblazer

+ 7

Posted: 14 years ago

hey hema do u knw wat...even i used to be very excited for visiting pkyek forum in my initial days but frm past few days i don't feel like coming into d forum just because of groupism here...
even i thought of making a peace post (infact i have made many in past) but den ppl start calling u peacemaker or cop...so i did not...
nd yeah it is pkyek forum nd simply not abhay or jay or any other character's forum...so ppl shud appreciate everyone's work in d show because they put in a lot of effort nd hardwork to give us d entertainment of half n hour...😳
thank u for dis lovely and much needed post...luv ya🤗

Edited by chakku - 14 years ago

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LittleImmortal

@LittleImmortal

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

VERY nyc post 👏dear u gave such a positive n nyc msg to everyone thanku for dat n i completely agree wid u we should be UNITED n should not bash eachother or any actor of PKYEK😳

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Disha

@FantasyFan_8

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 14 years ago

👏 beautiful Hema. PKYEK forum ahs become like a second home to me and it really pains me when members fight with each other unnecessarily. I only want to share one Mahatma Gandhi's quote with everyone : " An Eye for an Eye makes the Whole World Go Blind", so if somebody has attacked you or your fav. actor or character, it dosnt mean that u have to retaliate back. please ignore it. if u aim towards and even score, then nothing will ever be achieved and the fight will go on. So please learn to forgive and forget.

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sush

@sushups

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

hey hema
with u on this
i really dont support the groupism thing
because i have seen it breaks friendship in the forum...it has done it before in others and it can do it to us
i hope everyone here stop thinking negative
and hurting others
and hema if u find me doing soo
plz feel free to warn me and bring me back on right track

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Rumi007

@Rumi007

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

Thats so sweet of you Hema..🤗

I love this forum too much but felt hurt when saw people fighting each other..whats the use of these fighting? Donno...we should respect other people and actor..may be you are not his/her fan but no need to bash others...😔

I love this forum like my family..and don't wanna loose any of my family member...😳

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Resh

@SheDevil

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

Awesome post Hema.Evn I m upset coz of all dis drama.Some newbie come & made a post & v all start fighting among ourselves.How foolish v all r.V r allowing a newbie 2 create differences b/w us.I mean jst check all the post which cause fights r created by newbies.I too agree wid u hema v need 2 stop bashing any actor or character.Its high time.V all belong 2 1 family & i.e. PYEK forum😊

Edited by cuteshrishti - 14 years ago

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shewolf.

@shewolf

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

Hemu..a big..huge HUG..for making this post..

I seriously wanted someone to make a post like this..cus I'm a total dud when it comes to expressing my views with words!😆

and I've like seriously stopped visiting the MF cus I can't stand fights, seriously it hurts to see that same old peaceful forum turn into a battle ground in the name of fanaticism! First whenever I used to come I used to fell nice and warm as home, but now no more!

I mean we are all here to talk and enjoy this show and express our views WITHOUT hurting anyone. And as for fanaticism, well its a personal choice, I mean I'm no one to tell anyone who they should like etc. so if someone likes a character and that too one of your friends, you should be matured enough to respect their likes AND dislikes as well. And not that you treat them as crap or bash them just because their likes and dislike don't match with yours!

And your right the word 'HATE' though such a small one it sure has a powerful & everlasting impact! I mean you don't like the actor/character just stay away from the posts related to them, remain silent than posting hate comments, and spoiling yours as well as the people discussing the actor/character in that post!

well even I've been rude to Vahbbiz in a way, and I apologize for that, and yes these baseless topics created by the newbies. And the forum senior member's are nothing great! responding and fighting them! because of those topics I sometimes just shut the net down and go, cus when somebody gets on my nerves I can't control my temper! and I don't want to start, create or get into fights!

Now toh I've completely stopped visiting the main forum topics, I enter only if it is safe!😆 and yes it hurts it hurts here in my heart to see, people talk crap just to hurt others trying to show that their likes are superior!

Hemu..its not all the AT's some are nice and peaceful and fun to be too..trust me!😳 Well topics I seriously can't guarantee,😆 whether they are good or instigating one's!😆

Me too, I've never sided anyone, I mean for eg. I'm a fan of both AbhIya and Jiya and I've seriously never said anything against the other whatever the situation may be! I've always been open to everyone's choices then why on earth can't the others too!

well that's all I've to say! I'm gonna enter the MF only when things get better I can't see this place as a battle ground!

Thanks again for this post..🤗 and hope I made sense!😆 cus usually I don't!😆

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Rehanna aka Parri

@Black_Paradize

Inactive

+ 6

Posted: 14 years ago

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yeh exactly ...me too..i was also feeling very uncomfortable from so many days...ppl were just finding reasons to bash others in a decent way,,,,i experienced some bad things too...its just a forum so why shd be personal? its simple ...if u like a POV or post..do comment if u dun like it then stay away from the post. do not comment as it will hurt ur frnds only...and for GOOODDD sakeee no body shd use a word "High school" as it get me restless.😆..as i have seen this word so many times tht i just banged my head with walls...urrggghhh 😡.lagta hy abhay sid aur jay sy ziyada logo ko high school main intrest hy.

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