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Posted: 14 years ago
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well i think now on lets just give our concentration on Abhay Raichand rather than Vivian D'sena...
what matter us is abhay-piya....nothing....if vivian wants to lie abt his personal life that is his business...but this should not affect abhay raichand or the entire show...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ka7eela


i am not a fan of his anymore, i hate liars and hypocrites, sure i will watch the show but don't know till when!

and you know now why many actors loose their fans!!😊

good to know then you are not a fan at all of anyone from entertainment industry👍🏼
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tani91

good to know then you are not a fan at all of anyone from entertainment industry👍🏼

i am a fan of good story...concept...chemistry....and whoever creates it i respect them with my full heart...as long for being a fan of an certain actors and makes them a almighty...i am out of that....they are humans.....so are we....so can never be fans....
but yes i appreciate their works.....talent...the effort they put in to bring lifeless characters to life and make us all love them....thats the limit.....more than than no ways....never ever.....
i always intend to draw a lines between actors and characters...and for me i love characters because thats what i see.....not the actors whom i have never met before
for example.....i love abhay raichand...and appraciate vivian's talent in making and bringing life into abhay raichand....well thats what i see....vivian brough abhay raichand to life and make me love him...but for vivian i don't even know him at all personally so how to like him....but i will respect him for what he have in him...i admire those qualities of him
as for harshad....its the same....i love him more than anything....but thats all come for his talent...his hard work and effort.....as a person i respect him alot.....but still he is a human...he can't be my role model.....i have never met him to make a role model...but i will always respect...love and admire for the person he is...for his talent and effort in work......
its better we become no fans of them as a person....just be a fan of their work.....
i am a fan great fan of their work...not as a person....
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Posted: 14 years ago
#34
Fans should also understand the difference between real n reel life..

What matters 2 me is luv story of sidchi n abhiya..in real life,whom vivian is dating,.that shouldnt b my bothering..n vahbhiz is pretty n nice n they luk cute together too..so,where wats the problem ? If my abhay n panchi r happy,.then I am double happy 4 them n I wish their relationship to go a long way..

N about hiding it earlier,.thats nt such a big deal..may be they were nt ready 2 accept it b4 media..or there can b many reasons...n its nt new in the glamour world !
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Posted: 14 years ago
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isnt is SO convinent that when Abhay lies🤔...everyone is like "OMG how cute he's lying to protect Piya"

going by the logic of we-cant-stand-liars then how come you accept Abhay,Edward,Stefan,Damon,Bill etc lies???
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I meant how people on this forum are saying how they cant stand hypocrites and liars....yet they fully support characters like Abhay,Edward,Stefan.Damon etc....who have lied plenty of times🥱 so going by their own logic shouldnt they not stand those characters as well😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tani91

I meant how people on this forum are saying how they cant stand hypocrites and liars....yet they fully support characters like Abhay,Edward,Stefan.Damon etc....who have lied plenty of times🥱 so going by their own logic shouldnt they not stand those characters as well😕


Exactly the point !
Sometimes I feel,either they love the actors so very much or I am nt even a loyal fan..majority of people know vivian bcoz of abhay raichand only..and when they have accepted his every decision or doings with open hands,y cant they digest it in real life !
Suppose,vivian didnt play the role of abhay,.then I am 101% sure no1 would be having a single problem with his relationship with vahbhiz..so just because he is cast opposite 2 piya,.all these problems arise ? Strange !
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chinky_RPattz


Exactly the point !
Sometimes I feel,either they love the actors so very much or I am nt even a loyal fan..majority of people know vivian bcoz of abhay raichand only..and when they have accepted his every decision or doings with open hands,y cant they digest it in real life !
Suppose,vivian didnt play the role of abhay,.then I am 101% sure no1 would be having a single problem with his relationship with vahbhiz..so just because he is cast opposite 2 piya,.all these problems arise ? Strange !

thats what i call truly obsessed and mixing reel life with real life...well we can't blame those die-hard fans too because indeed ViSu looks made for each other heavenly couple....those romantic scenes they have done till date are so natural...with no fakeness...or acting it out...they were purest through their soul to enact that scenes.....it was so beautiful...one will definetly feel that indeed there is something brewing between the couples.....the scenes itself is a evident....i myself get tricked sometimes....i am honest abt it...sometimes i see it as ViSu and not AbhiYa....they act it with so much ease for such passionate and intimate scenes.....anyone can get trick.....they get obsessed with it...and think that its for real...so they couldn't digest the fact that ViSu are not together...but with different people.....
well i blame the scenes for that....it was so professionally done....but then it made it look so personal.....we can't blame the fans if they are obsessed.....ViSu have done a great job that have made them obsessed and make them think such odd ways.....
they forgot in the end its only reel life...not real life.....if destiny kisses on them the reel life might turn into real life...we have lots of examples of couples whose reel life turned into real life...mostly ekta couples......but then in ViSu case its always reel life....can't expect more.....
people like us knows how to see it in difference because we are obsessed with the characters rather than the actors....but then people who are really obsessed with ViSu and mixing reel with real will react such a way....
none are to be blamed....its just that they need to come out from the fantasy world and smell the coffee of the real world
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Posted: 14 years ago
#39
Well I am not a viewer of this show but saw this post tagged and I guess you could say my curiosity compelled me to read it...

It's interesting to note that similar situations keep repeating.. looks like history does repeat itself...

I posted in because I personally agree with you - that real and reel life are 2 entirely different worlds. Personally it doesn't matter to me who the actor is dating in real life. However, what I do dislike is very fake and unnecessary public display of affection in some cases over the top affection.

Here I have to mention that I was one of those people who was not entirely happy with Gurmeet and his now wife. I dont care who Gurmeet dates. I dont care if has multiple relationships or live-in relationship or gets married to someone. Why should I? Its his life and he can do what ever he wants with it. But unfortunately for him and his now wife - and I am not sure if it was the media, or his wife, or him or both or all - the way they behaved and the over exposure of their 'love-life' felt like they or her or him were trying to cash in on Geet's success. Cos surprisingly, apart from the reality show PPW and the very public proposal (which I dont agree with anyway) these 2 were never in so much limelight until Geet became a runaway success and Gurmeet became one of the most popular male actors. Yes he was popular with Ramayan but definitely not as popular as now.

When a show is successful people want to know more about the actors that are the face of this show. But in this case instead of Drashti, who is one of the main reason, along with Gurmeet, that the show is so successful, sharing the limelight, the fans would only see GC's wife everywhere. Again I would like to repeat that I dont know if this was a tactic by the media or GC or his wife or all of them, but what it did do is it managed to alienate a lot of GC - DD fans from Geet and from GC. Not only that the constant in the face PDA's didn't help the matter. Then there was a case of some very immaturish comments by his wife and him on television and other direct media (so no excuse of things being taken out of context there).

I totally agree that every actor has the right to live and love whoever they please in real life. But its ironic that their popularity and their saleability depends entirely on their reel-life and nothing on their real-life. And I personally believe that not only the fans but even the actors have a responsibility to keep these separate. For instance when there is an inauguration of a forum for their show they shouldn't be doing it with their real-life partner but someone from the show. It is entirely up to the actors how they handle the media and their PR. And frankly the sooner they learn this the better for them. Cos good contacts can only get them so far...

Unfortunately for them its their fans that make them what they are. And that and only that, my friend, it the reality of this reel-world.

NOTE: this post is not meant to offence any GC and his wife's fans. It is just a POV and hopefully will be taken in a friendly context.
Edited by kesha2412 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kesha2412

Well I am not a viewer of this show but saw this post tagged and I guess you could say my curiosity compelled me to read it...


It's interesting to note that similar situations keep repeating.. looks like history does repeat itself...

I posted in because I personally agree with you - that real and reel life are 2 entirely different worlds. Personally it doesn't matter to me who the actor is dating in real life. However, what I do dislike is very fake and unnecessary public display of affection in some cases over the top affection.

Here I have to mention that I was one of those people who was not entirely happy with Gurmeet and his now wife. I dont care who Gurmeet dates. I dont care if has multiple relationships or live-in relationship or gets married to someone. Why should I? Its his life and he can do what ever he wants with it. But unfortunately for him and his now wife - and I am not sure if it was the media, or his wife, or him or both or all - the way they behaved and the over exposure of their 'love-life' felt like they or her or him were trying to cash in on Geet's success. Cos surprisingly, apart from the reality show PPW and the very public proposal (which I dont agree with anyway) these 2 were never in so much limelight until Geet became a runaway success and Gurmeet became one of the most popular male actors. Yes he was popular with Ramayan but definitely not as popular as now.

When a show is successful people want to know more about the actors that are the face of this show. But in this case instead of Drashti, who is one of the main reason, along with Gurmeet, that the show is so successful, sharing the limelight, the fans would only see GC's wife everywhere. Again I would like to repeat that I dont know if this was a tactic by the media or GC or his wife or all of them, but what it did do is it managed to alienate a lot of GC - DD fans from Geet and from GC. Not only that the constant in the face PDA's didn't help the matter. Then there was a case of some very immaturish comments by his wife and him on television and other direct media (so no excuse of things being taken out of context there).

I totally agree that every actor has the right to live and love whoever they please in real life. But its ironic that their popularity and their saleability depends entirely on their reel-life and nothing on their real-life. And I personally believe that not only the fans but even the actors have a responsibility to keep these separate. For instance when there is an inauguration of a forum for their show they shouldn't be doing it with their real-life partner but someone from the show. It is entirely up to the actors how they handle the media and their PR. And frankly the sooner they learn this the better for them. Cos good contacts can only get them so far...

Unfortunately for them its their fans that make them what they are. And that and only that, my friend, it the reality of this reel-world.

NOTE: this post is not meant to offence any GC and his wife's fans. It is just a POV and hopefully will be taken in a friendly context.

well i completely agree with you...very well said👏👏👏👏👏

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