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DMGFan-2b-not2b

@DMGFan-2b-not2b

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

Jusr read the article about Vivian vahbbiz being a couple and being forced to come out into the ope becuase of vituperative fans who were too caught up, I assume , in the Abhay-Piya fantasy to accept them as a couple and let them be!

Vivian expresses "There has been a lot of chaos earlier after which we have been getting many unpleasant comments from fans. I would like to tell them that, there is a difference between reel life and real life and if they really love me, I would be happy if they respect our relationship."

This is not the first time I have heard this - it seems to be a common refrain of all male TV stars (except for good ol KSG who never came out in defense of his wife, though I can see why since he was busy playing ring-a-ring-a- roses with Nicole)! Be it KSG (Shradha was a problem), Gurmeet (Debina was a problem) and now poor Vivian (Vahabbiz is a problem)!

Its tragic that these stars have had to come out and ask fans to lay off and point out that there is a difference between reel and real life.. it must be quite creepy to have people like these as your fans! Instead of loving you, and being happy for you, they try their level best to curse your relationships/ wish ill for the one thing thats the most important to you, that makes you happy!

More than that, it speaks volumes for the lack of a real life that these fans must have - lots of people fantasize about stars and their favourite telly jodis, but taking it so far so as to criticise their real relationships in favour of their reel ones, is not only delusional, its downright mental!

Ironically, it seems to be only the male stars who seem to have this problem, by tragic inference, its the female population that is weird!! 😉

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Nishita Rao

@Nishitarao

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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree😆.. fans shouldn't interfere in actor's personal life ..at least not to this extent.. It really creeps me just to think about it😆
Having said that, I think actors should stop defending their relationship and not care about what these people think of their relationship.. I know it is easier said than done..but if you are a public figure, you should really learn to take only the constructive criticism and ignore the rest. It is hard to change the mind set of 100s of fans, but you can definitely train yourself to stop bothering about such comments. :)

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

hmm fans should respect actors personal choice, i am really happy for both of them

i just want abhiya in the show and i am getting that, so no problem

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Mages

@Mages

Elite

+ 7

Posted: 14 years ago

what matters me is reel not real...whatever they want to do in their own life its their business....its none of my concern...as long it doesn't affect the show i am fine with it....

i only love the characters they play...the emotions they bring into a lifeless characters...not their personal life or them as a person....

they are humans just like us....not idols or gods.....

they earn for a living...we get entertain by them for time-pass....

but what i wish...they should give an honest interview...a real self interview...not a fake one....

well we just don't care who they date and whom...but at least when comes to interview...give a real honest one because interview are meant for the fans to know their fav celebrities more abt the real nature....but i can't expect this from glamour world....they are never honest except for 1 %....99 % are all fake...

for me AbhiYa and SidChi matters.....vivian-vahbiz or suks and her bf doesn't make a difference to me...

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Kaheela

@ka7eela

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

its not about reel and real in this issue of vivian, the issue is he lied time and time again!!

and i for one believed him as i thought he was an honest genuine and gem of a guy! (from whatever i saw of him in his interviews )

but how wrong i was!! and there are many who felt the same way too

actors who lie and pretend are fake!!

if they are in relationship why dont they admit it?! and why pretend to be something they are not?😕

why lie and pretend? this is pure hypocrisy 🤢

an actor should be honest and real to himself and to his fans as well!!

what did he think?! that things like these will be kept a secret forever!

and here i remember a famous quote by Abraham Lincoln:

"You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time"

Edited by ka7eela - 14 years ago

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Anamika

@AnamikaSJain

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

Very True! The Fans need to understand that Celebrities too have their personal life's and preferences.They are human beings too and deserve every bit of freedom as their fans!

Edited by Anamika1570 - 14 years ago

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DMGFan-2b-not2b

@DMGFan-2b-not2b

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Nishitarao
I agree😆.. fans shouldn't interfere in actor's personal life ..at least not to this extent.. It really creeps me just to think about it😆
Having said that, I think actors should stop defending their relationship and not care about what these people think of their relationship.. I know it is easier said than done..but if you are a public figure, you should really learn to take only the constructive criticism and ignore the rest. It is hard to change the mind set of 100s of fans, but you can definitely train yourself to stop bothering about such comments. :)

Well said, but I guess at the end of the day they are human and most of us would react this way... But thats what makes me wonder, people are really that messed up in their head that they cant understand the difference between real and reel life?

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DMGFan-2b-not2b

@DMGFan-2b-not2b

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: intruderfast

hmm fans should respect actors personal choice, i am really happy for both of them

i just want abhiya in the show and i am getting that, so no problem

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DMGFan-2b-not2b

@DMGFan-2b-not2b

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Mages
what matters me is reel not real...whatever they want to do in their own life its their business....its none of my concern...as long it doesn't affect the show i am fine with it....

i only love the characters they play...the emotions they bring into a lifeless characters...not their personal life or them as a person....

they are humans just like us....not idols or gods.....

they earn for a living...we get entertain by them for time-pass....

but what i wish...they should give an honest interview...a real self interview...not a fake one....

well we just don't care who they date and whom...but at least when comes to interview...give a real honest one because interview are meant for the fans to know their fav celebrities more abt the real nature....but i can't expect this from glamour world....they are never honest except for 1 %....99 % are all fake...

for me AbhiYa and SidChi matters.....vivian-vahbiz or suks and her bf doesn't make a difference to me...

Fair point but I for one take every interview with a fistful (not a pinch 😆) of salt... they are celebraties, and like a marketing company uses advertising to push their products, actors use interviews to push their own brand...not everything that an ad claims is true, similarly you cant expect a celebrity to be honest!

Much of what they say is well rehearsed and thought through and intended to have a certain effect - if he / she really said what they really were, most of us wont even read the interviews cos they wont be interesting enough! So dont place any store by anything that you read 😊

Edited by DMGFan-2b-not2b - 14 years ago

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DMGFan-2b-not2b

@DMGFan-2b-not2b

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: ka7eela
its not about reel and real in this issue of vivian, the issue is he lied time and time again!!

and i for one believed him as i thought he was an honest genuine and gem of a guy! (from whatever i saw of him in his interviews )

but how wrong i was!! and there are many who felt the same way too

actors who lie and pretend are fake!!

if they are in relationship why dont they admit it?! and why pretend to be something they are not?😕

why lie and pretend? this is pure hypocrisy 🤢

an actor should be honest and real to himself and to his fans as well!!

what did he think?! that things like these will be kept a secret forever!

and here i remember a famous quote by Abraham Lincoln:

"You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time"

I must disagree! 😃

While an actor is doomed to not have a real private life, that doesn't take away the right from him to want one or try and protect the right to have one...

Sure a fan may want to know everything from what an actor ate, what he wore, what his night clothes look like, how he brushes his teeth to how he completes his morning abulations, but it is the actor's right to reveal as much as he / she wishes to...

As for relationships, I dont think its being hypocritical. Most of us take time settling into a relationship before revealing it to even our friends.. you need to be comfortable with each other, confident of your relationship before you want the world to take a peek and comment on it! And thats so much more ture of stars / actors than regular people.. and fans' reactions to Vivian Vahhabiz's relationship just proves the point!

...and why does he owe it to his fans to feed them every little detail of his love life or who the love of his life is? Fans may want to know but he may not want them to know. It is his life and his choice and fans must chose to like or hate him based on how he acts / emotes rather than who he dates / whether he reveals all or not!!😆

As for the interviews, my two paisa bit on that is already stated above! lol!

Edited by DMGFan-2b-not2b - 14 years ago

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