Originally posted by: lighteningbuzz
I totally agree with majority of the people in here. I have also seen many pictures of Vivian where he is always shown drinking which does make it out to be that he probably drinks a lot in real life. But, many people pointed out that he smokes too, now I didn't know that! To me, men who drink too much or smoke are a major turn off. I certainly didn't expect him to be like this as from his interviews and answers he seemed like a very grounded guy who you wouldn't expect to indulge in bad habits like smoking or drinking.😕
To all the people who say that there is nothing wrong with drinking as long as you are drinking with moderation: I disagree completely. Because coming from personal experience, I can say that it is not true at all becuz, moderation suddenly turns into extreme as your brain and body become dependant on its stimulating properties.
I had a group of friends in high school. One of my friend in our group was a guy who was extremely intelligent. Me and my friends used to ask his help on homework and exams as he was just very bright. In one of the guy's birthday party, he drank for the first time a little due to persuasion of his friends and from that point onward he started drinking but, only in special occasions. It got to the point that he would even go to his friend's house just so that he could drink. I remember, whenever I would see him, his face would be like washed out and eyes blood red. He would be confused in class when doing his homework and he would tell us that he drinks only in moderation. What started off as a little sip in a party and in moderation turned into addiction later on in senior year.
He turned into a complete different person and would rely on drinking to escape any stress and moreover becuz, he said, it makes him feel good about himself and life. Not only did his academic performance suffered but, his face looked swollen and puffed up eyes.🤓
So, I ask you that why do people drink??? Do they drink with the awareness that its good or bad for them! Hell no! They drink becuz, it makes them feel high and they feel good. In this sense, a person's emotional willpower becomes weak becuz, even when they are depressed about something they start relying on alcohol to stimulant their senses as means to escape their problems.
In school, we were taught that its better to not smoke at all. Becuz, even one cigarette can turn into a whole pack as its so addictive. I have seen my friends' boyfriends who drink in moderation but, yet they say that they have seen times where their boyfriends had drank so much enough to become totally drunk and pass out.
Btw, I don't even know why people are bringing up wine in here as this topic isn't even about wine as clearly Vivian is not drinking wine..............so, we are talking about beer! 🤔
Also, I know its Vivian's personal life and we can't really tell him how to live his life. But, being his fans and the fact that he is so handsome and talented, he shouldn't waste it on something small like alcohol. Life is about big things and not everyone is gifted with good looks like he is, so he should make the most of it.
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