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Posted: 14 years ago

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remosalsa

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Posted: 14 years ago

Neethi, i agree with ur POV😊, the reaction was normal frm Pia, 😊, i guess, if we were in her place, we would react the same way she did

but as we r attached to Abhay's character also, we feel bad for him😭, & it was sad for him too, with Pia😭

But, in college also unknowingly, she scribbled his name😳, but was later regretting doing it😭, means that, she still loves him , but is unable to accept him, cause she got to know abt his reality😭

now we just have to wait, how the story goes forward

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Neetz

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Posted: 14 years ago

Ashu, I am not against people sympathising with Abhay. His agony has the potential to move even the stones to tears, but how will blaming Pia and abusing her solve anything?

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amail1601

@amail1601

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Posted: 14 years ago

seriously yaar! good post!

It is always so easy to sit and watch others and talk about what a person should or should not say or do...easy to laugh or crib about another person's behaviour...but when God forbid, you are put in the same situation.....it is not all that simple!

I admit, I was cribbing about Pia in my CC, but I was cribbing about her language....as far as her reaction is concerned, I think it is all 'natural'. We are watching this cute guy putting on fake fangs n looking cuter on tv...but if you think about it as a real incident...vampires (especially in their vampirical avatar) are supposed to look quite horrible (@everyone..before you bash me, please refer to any article about vampires and you will know what I am talking about). Obviously, a seventeen year old girl, especially one who has grown up in a convent, is bound to be scared.

I especially raise the point about her upbringing though I don't know if the CVs have kept that in mind or not, but while researching an article, I asked a Christian friend about his views on vampires. He told me that as such they don't believe in vampires, but if you really force the issue, they consider them to be the work of the Devil. So....obviously she IS going to be horrified.

Once she gets over her shock, she WILL realise that her love for Abhay is stronger than her disgust and anger.

It is one thing to talk of acceptance, and another thing to actually do it. Accepting someone's flaws and living with them willingly is not easy, and is not a very common thing. However, Pia does have the strength and courage, and the right amount of love for Abhay to do it...but only when she gets over the shock.

As far as the comparison of pain goes, for me the loss of my dog was the most painful thing, for my dog, it was the loss of his favourite toy, and for my classmate, a broken nail. The level of pain is a relative concept - you cannot measure it in kilos or litres, and even if you can, it is not some standard product that will have the same meaning or impact or cause for everyone. To compare anyone's pain with another's is downright ridiculous (I am not bashing anyone. I don't know and don't want to know who is saying what. It is just a general thing.).

Pia needs one more thing Neethi - better dialogue writers. ;)

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remosalsa

@remosalsa

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Chill_Out
Ashu, I am not against people sympathising with Abhay. His agony has the potential to move even the stones to tears, but how will blaming Pia and abusing her solve anything?

yaa, thats for sure😃😃

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sush

@sushups

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Posted: 14 years ago

reserving my post dear actually i am tired of attnding calls today from my family and freinds from the midnight so dont have strenth to write now but will unreserve it once i get back in morning
btw i am with pia and abhay...i will xplain soon
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ok i am sorry for being late but getting calls all night for my b day so had a bad sleep so got up late
anyways i wanna qoute what i wrote in pocos post and then continue more:

"everything i mean everything about pia was so......................i dont know what to say but it was unbearable
i know this is one side of the coin
one side is her mind and other side of the coin is the soul/heart
now the mind is in charge and playing games
we just need to wait till the heart takes over
all the time in the class room were she was hating him her heart was trying to show that abhay is going no were from her heart/soul by making pia unkowingly scribble abhays name on the desk
later seeing the heart is trying to ruin the game the mind once again takes over and makes pia rub off the name with nail plish and reminding her that she has to take him out of her system

and what she does to do so

she tries running away

she is not facing the situation but running away so that abhay moves out of life

now we need to know how will heart win from the mind"

i understand the episode was very heartbreaking
i felt extremely bad for abhay and disappointed with pia
but when she said that why did he let me come close
i realized this girl needs a wack in the head because her mind is actually palying games because her heart know that abhay always resisted from being close to her
she likes or hates it but she is madly and insanely in love with this cute vampire which driving her mind crazy that how come she fall for a monster
she is unable to handle it
and therefore blaming him
pia is trulely running away so that she is saved from the insanity

but most important fact is that she is a human
and 17
a girl who has been in unprotected all her life and knows there is no one to look forward to when she needs help
now tell me if she wouldnt love abhay then like any other person she would have straight away told someone like misha the truth..................
but she loves him so she didnt say it
she just needs time to deal with this truth and someone or something to actually make her understand that she can never take out abhay and cannot live without him as know he has become important to her as air which she breathes
now what will bring her love resurface is what we need to watch out for
because we all know that abhay and piya r meant to be together anyhow

i hope i am speaking sense because seeing abhay in the terrible state has sent my mind in i dont know which zone
i just hope the dont drag this

Edited by sushups - 14 years ago

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monsoonlove

@monsoonlove

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Posted: 14 years ago

Chillz....i am sooo glad you made this topic...🤗

one word...EXACTLY!!!!

u know i told you..the forum's going to be filled with posts against piya..and it did...and i hated it...made me sad again...

i won't write much..i have a big lab report to finish tht's due tonight...bt i absoulately agree with every single word you said...i loved line where you said no one would have risked their life to know abhay's truth...so that she can pull him out of the dark...completely agree with it...

actually i agree with every thing you have said...i have nothing to add to it..

it is really disheartening to see people losing faith in piya and jump to the conclusion...the dark love story has just begun...there is long way to go...if piya is dealt with patience..it will really be interesting to see how she realizes her love and breaks all the barriers and runs back to abhay who has stepped back into the dark again...and this time wen piya will go in the dark to pull abhay out again..she aint leaving his hand in midway....😊

Edited by kiranni - 14 years ago

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Neetz

@.Jane..

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: amail1601
seriously yaar! good post!

It is always so easy to sit and watch others and talk about what a person should or should not say or do...easy to laugh or crib about another person's behaviour...but when God forbid, you are put in the same situation.....it is not all that simple!

I admit, I was cribbing about Pia in my CC, but I was cribbing about her language....as far as her reaction is concerned, I think it is all 'natural'. We are watching this cute guy putting on fake fangs n looking cuter on tv...but if you think about it as a real incident...vampires (especially in their vampirical avatar) are supposed to look quite horrible (@everyone..before you bash me, please refer to any article about vampires and you will know what I am talking about). Obviously, a seventeen year old girl, especially one who has grown up in a convent, is bound to be scared.

I especially raise the point about her upbringing though I don't know if the CVs have kept that in mind or not, but while researching an article, I asked a Christian friend about his views on vampires. He told me that as such they don't believe in vampires, but if you really force the issue, they consider them to be the work of the Devil. So....obviously she IS going to be horrified.

Once she gets over her shock, she WILL realise that her love for Abhay is stronger than her disgust and anger.

It is one thing to talk of acceptance, and another thing to actually do it. Accepting someone's flaws and living with them willingly is not easy, and is not a very common thing. However, Pia does have the strength and courage, and the right amount of love for Abhay to do it...but only when she gets over the shock.

As far as the comparison of pain goes, for me the loss of my dog was the most painful thing, for my dog, it was the loss of his favourite toy, and for my classmate, a broken nail. The level of pain is a relative concept - you cannot measure it in kilos or litres, and even if you can, it is not some standard product that will have the same meaning or impact or cause for everyone. To compare anyone's pain with another's is downright ridiculous (I am not bashing anyone. I don't know and don't want to know who is saying what. It is just a general thing.).

Pia needs one more thing Neethi - better dialogue writers. ;)

:P

Thanks, Adi! Lol! The writers need to do something! I mean, Pia is fine because that's what she read in the books but those definitions were so yuck! "Shaatir darinda jo doosron ka khoon peeta hai" "Chalte phirte murde" Ugh!🤢

And they use so much of English, WHY could they not use 'monster' instead of 'darinda'? But frankly, we can't call it 'abusing' because he is one no matter how much we deny. If we call a dog 'dog', are we abusing it?

I like your point about the upbringing. Considering the amount of loopholes in the show, I really doubt the CVs kept that in mind though.

Thanks for your lovely reply!🤗

@Ashu: I hope your health is fine now!

@sushups: Please unrejerve asap! 😆 But take full rest😊

@kiranni: Thanks for agreeing! What made me sad was not posts against Pia, but the fact that people absolutely REFUSED to see her PoV!😕 Like you said, this is just the beginning of their dark love story! We need patience, we can't be so fidgety and judgmental! Thanks for replying and all the best for your lab report👍🏼

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asena

@asena

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Posted: 14 years ago

thank you for your post. i hope everyone who are right now very mad at Piya reads your post. its really worth reading

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amail1601

@amail1601

Sparkler

Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: Chill_Out

Thanks, Adi! Lol! The writers need to do something! I mean, Pia is fine because that's what she read in the books but those definitions were so yuck! "Shaatir darinda jo doosron ka khoon peeta hai" "Chalte phirte murde" Ugh!🤢

And they use so much of English, WHY could they not use 'monster' instead of 'darinda'? But frankly, we can't call it 'abusing' because he is one no matter how much we deny. If we call a dog 'dog', are we abusing it?

I like your point about the upbringing. Considering the amount of loopholes in the show, I really doubt the CVs kept that in mind though.

Thanks for your lovely reply!🤗

🤣🤣🤣 seriously!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There was a time in school when people used to laugh at me for using a lot of English words in a normal Hindi sentence....but now it seems so weird to hear those bombastic words like 'mohabbat' and 'darinda' coming from a 17-year old!!!!!!!

When they were showing those definitions na, the book that Pia was reading had completely different text written in it - no relation to those darindas and murdas!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🤣🤣

Of course, Abhay IS a vampire....but still...'darinda' reminds me of those 'sansani' kinda guys on Hindi news channels with slicked back hair and beards and moochhies and evil eyes shouting about khooni darinde and God knows what!!!!!! 🤣🤣

Hey wait...did I just describe Chaand?? Hmmm...naah....he's more polished and refined and better-looking!! 😛

Commented on a serious topic after soo long! 😆🤗🤗