Why is the mother giving 'wrong' advices? - Page 3

Originally posted by: eleniel83

Amazing post dear, you have given words to our thoughts. I totally agree with all of your points. First of all Aziz's sacrifice is totally nonsense. I dont understand how in the world without telling prats that he is her brother would make any difference in Prats decision to distance herself from shanky. In one of my other post also i had said that if Aziz had told prats that he is her brother she would have done anything in the world for him. Telling the truth would have made more impact than hiding it. Aziz doesnt know that prats is already trying to stop shanky coming close to her, he only got the impression that they are having an affair and in such a situation telling the truth wud have had more impact. Otherwise why would a girl who is in love with someone wudl listen to a guy who says that main aap ke bhai jaisa hoon. As the situation is Aziz thinks that they are having an affair and prats is letting it go forward and didnt want to distance herself from shanky, in such a situation if Aziz had told her about their relationship she wud have listened to Aziz at any cost. For Aziz's sake she would have sacrificed her love. So you see hiding the truth was the most ridiculous and senseless thing to do.

In my view mother's advises are not wrong but Aziz & prats interpreation of those advises are wrong. They interpret it accoring to their thoughts.

I also agree that by marrying suhani shanky wudnt be able to do justice to his relationship. In all the love triangle movies I have always been of the view that where the 2 love each other shoud be married b/c then out of 3 atleast 2 will be happy but if the 2 unloved marrys then all three would be unhappy and that is more bad. I know people think that if they will tell the truth they will break their friends heart (coincedenally in all the stories the love triangle is b/w friends due to which the lover decides to sacrifice) and will be seen as mean. But in my view it is not meanness but assertiveness. Aik baar ke liye sach bolo aur sari umar ke jhoot se bach jao. Aik baar kisi ka dil zaroor dukhe ga per wo us dukh se behtar ho ga jo shadi ke baad pata chalne per mile ga.

I just hope Aziz get some sense and try to discuss this issue with prats and dont make wrong judgements due to a few unclear observations. How could he doubt her only b/c shanky's kangan was hanging with her dupatta. And why didnt prats cleared it in front of him instead of going away like a culprit????

Originally posted by: eleniel83

You are absolutely right even I dont like when Aziz doubts prats. Doesnt he know what kind of a girl she is. And let me tell you one thing I can surely tell you that sumo & shanky marriage will not happen b/c you see i think you also know that it is Ekta's way of showing some incidents happening again and again which would make the hero & heroine gulity in front of other people and this time she is doing this with prats in front of Aziz. This clearly indicates that Aziz's shak (doubt) will continue that prats is not stopping herself and something will happen on 5th Jan due to which atleast the marriage will definitely break but it might also be possible that due to some unavoidable circumstances shanky wud need to marry prats and then Aziz's misunderstanding will go on top and then their would be a rift b/w them and he wil become determined not to tell prats that he is her real brother. I can predict this b/c the prats-aziz sequence is going very much like Ektaish way.......