Why is the mother giving 'wrong' advices?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Before you start attacking me, let me tell you that I may not be 100% right but please let me express my opinion!
So far, Prateeksha and Aziz have been in a such a situation where they didn't know what to do next and the mother's atma came and told them what to do.
When Shashank confessed his love to Prateeksha, Prateeksha was in the biggest dilemma of her life between Shashank and Prashant! Then her mother said "Always choose the option where you can stop someone from doing the BAD" meaning that Prateeksha had to stop Shashank from breaking his engagement with Suhani.
However, tell me
What is Shashank doing good in marrying Suhani while he'll be thinking day and night about Prateeksha?
What is Shashank doing good in marrying Suhani while his soul will always consider Prateeksha as his wife?
What is Shashank doing good in marrying Suhani while he will smile only when Prateeksha is happy and be sad when Prateeksha will be tensed?
What is Shashank doing good in marrying Suhani while he will always want to stay near Prateeksha?
What is Prateeksha doing good in selling her self-respect such as her life savings and her mother's love so that she can stop Shashank from doing bad to Suhani?
When Aziz found out that Prateeksha is his real sister, the mother stopped him from telling this truth to Prateeksha but adviced him to tell her what's right and wrong and stop Prateeksha from doing wrong. I mean, weren't 15 years enough for Aziz to be separated from Prateeksha? Wasn't it the mother's last wish that the siblings reunite again in life?
Prateeksha is not a kid who needs to know what's right and wrong. She just needs someone to support her and had she found out that Aziz is her real brother, she would have distanced herself from Shashank right away.
I just don't understand how Aziz could mistake Shashank and Prateeksha's relationship without knowing in which circumstances all this happened between them? Just because he sees Shashank caressing Prateeksha's face passionately, it doesn't mean that they have crossed their limits. I really wish Aziz finds out how cheap is Prashant and as a brother, how can he want his sister to be married to him?
Also, Aziz found those bangles... Why didn't he ask Prateeksha why did she have to sell them? What was Prateeksha's helplessness in selling her mother's love? For whom? That greedy Prashant?
I guess it's my fault that I am trying to find some common sense in Ekta's drama but I just wonder why can't the mother give the advice "Speak the truth and stand up for the truth!" Truth always hurt but at least, it can save many lives from getting ruined, no?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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The mother's advice is a little hatke...in the wrong direction...i'm still trying to make sense of it! Especially yesterday's....i mean like you said, had Aziz told Prats he was her brother, she would have left the WORLD for him, even if it meant leaving Shanks....what good is it if Aziz said he's "like" her brother...might as well have said he "is" her brother, she would have complete blind trust in him and he could have made sure that her and Shanks would stay away from each other and have gotten his sister's love for him at the same time!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shockalot

The mother's advice is a little hatke...in the wrong direction...i'm still trying to make sense of it! Especially yesterday's....i mean like you said, had Aziz told Prats he was her brother, she would have left the WORLD for him, even if it meant leaving Shanks....what good is it if Aziz said he's "like" her brother...might as well have said he "is" her brother, she would have complete blind trust in him and he could have made sure that her and Shanks would stay away from each other and have gotten his sister's love for him at the same time!

That's exactly what I meant! Prateeksha has been waiting to find her siblings and just getting Aziz's support, it would mean the whole world for her!
I am not saying that the mother's advices are all wrong but none of the advices are close to "Speak the truth!"
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Posted: 15 years ago
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exactly the atmas in this show are too weird
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Posted: 15 years ago
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LOL the entire family is messed up in the head, I tell you.....and this mother's aatma popping up in random places and giving this mahaan 'advice' to her kids is so hilariously senseless :S lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nureat01

LOL the entire family is messed up in the head, I tell you.....and this mother's aatma popping up in random places and giving this mahaan 'advice' to her kids is so hilariously senseless :S lol

I guess you're right!! So far, only Shashank's character is realistic to me!! 😳 All the rest are lacking some human characteristic 😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I'm seriously watching this for Shanks now...oh and i can't help but like his and Prats' chemistry haha - but yes, Shanks is a major pull factor for this show!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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What is Shashank doing good in marrying Suhani while he'll be thinking day and night about Prateeksha? Totally right! That's being unfair to both Prateeksha and Suhani. It would be like an affair..just not a physical one! physical or mental..in my opinion they're both bad. You know that saying.."marry the person that loves you, not the one that you love."That phrase should be applied here, for all three of them(Shanks, Pratz, and Suhani) Prateeshka and Aziz should be smacked in the head! maybe then they won't have those stupid illusions of the mother!!
LOL..I only commented on that because I'm kind of in a hurry right now. But I will come back later and edit this! pakka promise! =)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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HAHAAA..SO TRUEEE..ALL THE ADVICES OF THE MOTHER ARE USELESS..AND YEA IF SASHANKK MARRIES SUHANII THEN HE IS RUININGG THE LIFE OF SUHANI ASWELL..AND ITS TRUE THAT SUHANI IS OBSESSED WITH HIMM. AOTHER THINGG IS THAT AZIZ SHOULD ACTUALLY FINDD OUT MORE ABOUTT PRASHANTT..AND ASKK PRATIKSHAA>>Y SHE SOLDD HER MOTHERS LOVE.( AS SAIDD EARLIERR):)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think you are definately right when i was watching the scene with aziz and pratz thing her mom pooped up and saids stuff
but my mom pointed out that it was wrong to do that
and pratz doesnt understand that staying away from shashank is not helping her but ruining two lives whereas going with him will only ruin one(sumo...well maybe cause shes too young to get married)
thnx

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