Paridhi is so...URGH! - Page 2

Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

I disagree. Pari made her dreams and ambitions clear to Prateek from the beginning. Prateek agreed that he would speak to his family for her. Her husband has no spine, that isn't her fault. She got frustrated that her husband can stick up for his bro and sister in law but not for his own wife. He constantly compares her to Aarti, and that's just irritating from her POV because she has different views, different goals, etc.

Yes, Paridhi is working night shifts, but she didn't exactly ask for Prateek's permission. He didn't ever really comment on it. He felt helpless in this scenario so he decided to keep quiet. And he did. Prateek just doesn't understand Pari's ambitions.

If I were Pari, I would act the exact same way.

i agree if i were her i will do the same

Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

I disagree. Pari made her dreams and ambitions clear to Prateek from the beginning. Prateek agreed that he would speak to his family for her. Her husband has no spine, that isn't her fault. She got frustrated that her husband can stick up for his bro and sister in law but not for his own wife. He constantly compares her to Aarti, and that's just irritating from her POV because she has different views, different goals, etc.

Yes, Paridhi is working night shifts, but she didn't exactly ask for Prateek's permission. He didn't ever really comment on it. He felt helpless in this scenario so he decided to keep quiet. And he did. Prateek just doesn't understand Pari's ambitions.

If I were Pari, I would act the exact same way.

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

I'm not saying Paridhi's ambitions are wrong, but her attitude problem in recent episodes is certainly wrong and she has no excuse for it. While Prateik may have been unfair to her in the beginning, I feel that he has improved a lot as a husband and made accomodations to let Paridhi achieve her dreams, but in return she's treating him like dirt, insulting his family members, and basically being a very self-centered person.

I hate her attitude, I don't hate her ambitions.

If Prateek really improved himself, he would confront his family about it. Instead, he's still the same spineless guy he was in the beginning of their marriage. And what can she do? She can't really say I love the old-fashioned thinking of this house. She's constantly being forced to work in the kitchen and act like a typical housewife (something she never bargained for). Instead of just walking out, she helps out. There have been a numerous amount of times where she hated it, but she still cooked, etc instead of flat out refusing.

Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

If Prateek really improved himself, he would confront his family about it. Instead, he's still the same spineless guy he was in the beginning of their marriage. And what can she do? She can't really say I love the old-fashioned thinking of this house. She's constantly being forced to work in the kitchen and act like a typical housewife (something she never bargained for). Instead of just walking out, she helps out. There have been a numerous amount of times where she hated it, but she still cooked, etc instead of flat out refusing.

agree👏

Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

If Prateek really improved himself, he would confront his family about it. Instead, he's still the same spineless guy he was in the beginning of their marriage. And what can she do? She can't really say I love the old-fashioned thinking of this house. She's constantly being forced to work in the kitchen and act like a typical housewife (something she never bargained for). Instead of just walking out, she helps out. There have been a numerous amount of times where she hated it, but she still cooked, etc instead of flat out refusing.

@JanakiRaghunath I agree that her behaviour comes off as rude, but she's under the impression that the whole family (Vidhi included) wants to make her feel oppressed in their house. That's why she was acting rudely to her. I also do agree that she believes she is better than them. It seems to her like they have no goals/ambitions and can't stand up for themselves in front of their husbands/motherinlaw/fatherinlaw (not like she could do much about her in-laws either, she kind of expected Prateek to do it for her). She's definitely a different flawed character which makes me love her!

Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

@JanakiRaghunath I agree that her behaviour comes off as rude, but she's under the impression that the whole family (Vidhi included) wants to make her feel oppressed in their house. That's why she was acting rudely to her. I also do agree that she believes she is better than them. It seems to her like they have no goals/ambitions and can't stand up for themselves in front of their husbands/motherinlaw/fatherinlaw (not like she could do much about her in-laws either, she kind of expected Prateek to do it for her). She's definitely a different flawed character which makes me love her!

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

If she was rude towards the elder Scindiyas I would understand, because they are oppressing her, but Vidhi has always been sweet and nice, accommodating Paridhi's ambitions as best as she could, so I felt it was really mean of Paridhi to be rude to her. As for them not having goals and ambitions, that's very judgmental of Paridhi because not all women have the same goals. Not all women want to work out of the house, because some genuinely enjoy the traditional role of women in the household. Vidhi and Aarti do not want to work out of the house but that does not mean they have no goals or ambitions. Career-oriented women should not be so quick to judge others like that, because the ambitions of housewives are different. They are in the realm of family life and there's nothing wrong with that, just as there's nothing wrong with having a career.

I would love her flawed character if she wasn't so rude nowadays, but I can't stand characters like her who look down on women who do not work or have the same education as them. Then what is the point of having education if you cannot behave in an educated or respectable manner? I've always had a major tiff with such women so maybe that's why I hate Paridhi right now.🤔 While she has the freedom to have a career, she should also understand that marriage comes with responsibilities and she cann leave the house 24/7 for her job. She should be with the family too or else relationships break apart.

Yeah, it seems to me like she's taking out her pent up frustration at the elder Scindhia's on everyone including Vidhi. I guess it all adds up overtime. It is judgmental of Pari, but if you step into her shoes, all the women in the house cook, clean, chase after their husbands/kids/inlaws. They seem to have no other role. I guess Pari doesn't understand that some people might be happy doing this stuff, so she thinks that they're very oppressed and that makes her feel like she's better than them? If many people were in Paridhi's situation (having the same personality that Pari has) I think that they would actually do the same thing. So as annoying as Paridhi might get to some people, you have to admit her character is very realistic.

It's quite interesting to see some contrasting views from two people who live in the same house. Paridhi believes that women should be independent, should have a job and should be able to support themselves, whereas Gayatri thinks that women should be a typical stay at home housewife.

It also has a lot to do with how they're brought up. Pari was brought up in a laid back house where she grew up with high expectations. Gayatri's been living her whole life as a housewife (I have no idea how she was prior to her marriage), so she believes that women should stay at home and work.

I will say only that, Paridhi was right to say that Yash must let go of arpita memories and accepts Arti as he married her now or otherwise he should let her go what is she doing in the Scindiyas' house.

we cant call her selfish...like she said "chasing her dreams" is not being selfish...its prateiks fault that he bfore marriage agreed to her working n then spinelessly denied after his marriage bcause of his family...he should have cleared abt his family n their traditions earlier itself...n i HATE the comparisons that prateik bring in bet aarti n pari...he is so stupid...aarti n pari are all together diff characters...their lives have been different...n that shapes a person's character...if pari is behaving rudely to scindia parivaar...its just out of the frustration of hewr dreams being crushed...but am not saying pari is an angel...she is a normal human being...