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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bua is a bit older and all alone. Plus she is being so cruel towards Aarti without any good reason other than the fact that she did not get to remarry whilst Aarti and Yash get to remarry. Of course she is unbearable. She has nothing in her mind to keep her busy and occupied other than being cruel to Aarti whom she is jealous of and whose happiness she wants to destroy and put an end to. Of course she is unbearable. And that Meri Bhaagwan ki kasam that's becoming old and boring.

Meanwhile, Paridi is doing a lot of mistakes here but she is constantly being imprisoned by her in-laws and her husband can do nothing to help her. She is like Aarti a newly married girl and perhaps she hasn't really adjusted to her married life nor to her in laws. But she is also being constantly compared to Aarti and anybody in her position will be irritated as she is. Plus, she was and is always an independent strong kind of woman and now all of a sudden those independence were taken away from her. Prateek didn't make it any better by just giving all his attention to his Yash Bhaiya and Aarti Bhabhi in every conversation with Paridhi. I'm not trying to justify Paridhi's behavior but I can understand why she is acting out because she is out of place and feels like nobody is by her side and that everybody is against her.

Paridhi even say it herself that those strangers in her life who is not her family has the ability to understand her and her own husband doesn't even give a little care to her as his energies and focus were all spent in his Yash Bhaiya and Aarti Bhabhi. So she may be unbearable but her actions are understandable who she did such a thing.

And also Prateek really need to change his behavior towards Paridhi as well. Before you can help other you really need to be able to help yourself. Prateek is like a sinking ship and yet he is trying to help Yash Bhaiya and Aarti Bhabhi get back together and proof that their love and marriage can be saved. Yet, he himself is sinking as there is some problems between Paridhi and himself. He really needs to spend more times and think about his wife first before thinking about other people. It is really no wonder why Paridhi acts the way she acts because she feels that the husband that she loves. That she left everything to be with had not given an ounce of care towards her.
Edited by rogna - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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for me prateek is more to blame than paridi for her this behavior pari is his wife she should be his 1st priority more than yash & arti..yes paridi is selfish but any careerist woman in her position would feel neglected the same if her husband won't b concerned for her career .and in laws don't allow her to work outside..
Edited by aru_86 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: jojo1986


it is not a stupid job it is her dream and when you have dream you will do your best to Achieve it ,Prateik and Paridhi don't deserve each other the two of them came from another background so they can't be happy together she have her won dreams and he also,love is not everything in marriage there is many other things

" Love is not everything in marriage there is many other things "

Yes, responsibility has to be one amongst them. This seems to be lacking in both the characters (Paridhi as well as Prateik). Prateik can never stand up to his dad and say, decision of Paridhi's career will be taken by the couple and there is no need for other family members to intervene. (Compare this with Yash's attitude. When Aarti wanted to bring her kid home on the wedding day, he stood with her against his mother's wishes).

As far Paridhi, she still acts like a school kid who wants her dress, her lunch box to be ready by the time she leaves for her job. She needs to realise family members are not her servants. Her career may be her dream. To achieve that, it is she who needs to work harder; not others.

Basically two immature souls who got into wedlock just because they were in love and nothing else. As you said, marriage is much more than that.

Edited by usrfan - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well, they are two individuals who are very young and jumped into marriage because they thought they are deeply in love with each other and highly believe that love marriage will have a high successful rate than arranged marriage. They are still young and supposed to date first or be engaged with one another first before jumping into marriage. Paridhi didn't even finish her college education when she married Prateek. They should have thought about it first or wait until they feel they are ready to get married.

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