23/5 Dragon Club: 'I blame myself. ' :'(

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Indu Ghosh

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Posted: 13 years ago

#191

@Red: Superb.⭐️ Bua has her own beaming communication system with her Bhagwan..."Beam me over to Aarti's house, bhagwanji...beam me down to Scindia House, bhagwanji."😆

@Zetter: <<<I love the way that Shobha is doing everything in her power to make sure that her daughter & grandson are happy...she is the voice of reason when Dr Dubey wants to break AarYa's marriage but poor Yash the guy doesn't have his parents to guide him in the right the direction instead they are misleading him>>>

Good point there. Aarti has a great guide in Shobha, where Yash has none...yet the end result is same: they are apart. This only proves that guide or no-guide till they communicate properly with each other, misconceptions will keep on piling and distance increasing. They have to walk the last mile toward each other...themselves.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Done reading most of the takes, one point seems to be common in most of them. It is making me love punar vivah even more. The first show which seeks to show that at time parents can be wrong and children or the youth can be right. I mean you don't see this every day in a lot of Indian serials. You actually see the exact opposite. We are yet to decide whether or not it holds true. This show makes it appear as if parents are sometimes just like corrupt government leaders just because they hold power doesn't mean their always right.

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Indu Ghosh

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Posted: 13 years ago

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@Kirthi: Loved your thoughts pal...superb. Especially that part where you say Yash is unhappy not because Aarti opted out but because he feels he fell short of her approval. You are so right...our Yashbabu is long gone. He wants to be her Mr Right so badly...and this need is causing this turmoil in him. And like you said, they need to find each other to let the past go. Prashaant and Arpita will rest at peace in their hearts only when their hearts join and their souls travel together. God...these two will be the death of us...they are such beautiful people, so in tune with each other...if only *sigh*...

@Borna: Oh...I absolutely loved your analysis today. For me, at this point of time it doesn't matter whether Aarti or Kratika...both are just superlative. I found "sabh kuch pehele jaisa ho jayega" lines to be very loaded with meaning...Yash didn't specify, did he? He may mean "before Aarti," but does his heart???? 😍

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angake

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Posted: 13 years ago

#194

Before I sign off for the night wanted to post few more thoughts. It is never ending isn't it. 😃

I was struck by the difference in the Dubey house and Scindia house. In the Scindia house the daughter in law dutifully brings chai for everyone and she is berated for her lapse of concentration when she forgot to bring her FIL coffee instead of tea. On the other hand, you have Shobha in the Dubey house who brings chai/coffee for her DIL. Miles of difference in the way people are treated in both households.

Another difference: the difference in blood tie and a relationship based on pure unconditional love.

Gayatri and Prashant showed time and again that blood tie doesn't necessarily mean that you only want good for the people tied to you. Their disregard for their children is appalling.😡

On the other hand, you have Shobha and Yash who have shown that you don't have to biologically give birth to love someone unconditionally. 👏

On that note my lovely friends, meet you all tomorrow...😃

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kriti07

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Bua is like the Shakuni of the Mahabharata I guess not to that extreme of destroying the Scindia family yet but becoz she didnt get her happiness she doesnt want Yash to enjoy it too. We can sympathise with her for that but she has become downright evil taking Gods name at will.

About the GenY these days I knows the sons/ DILs participate more in decision making but guess there are still the typical orthodox families too where the parents are respected too much and going against them instantly is considered disrespectful so whatever reaction/ action will come in gradually.

My Mother inlaw used to tell me horrid incidents of her mother in laws and the joint family she lived in when on the due date of delivery too just for the sake of some visiting some relatives for haldi kumkum she made her walk 2 km on a upward sloppy road and the sons couldnt do a thing, she used to give heavy work of grinding the dals in the traditional stone type in the final days or pregnancy and my fil couldnt say anything when the mother used to go out for some work he used to help out my MIL else could do nothing.

Her MIL even used to discriminate in respect to mangoes, all the good pieces to the sons and the side corner pieces to the dils. She used to be very bad with my MIL and her else SIL too. Only after the younger DILs started coming in who were not listening to her anymore and the sons started protesting then eventually after so many years of torture that she stopped.

My MIL and FIL have given horrid accounts of their mother that he has ensured my MIL to treat me like a daughter. He could never do anything then out of respect . Luckily they moved out becoz of jobs in other places..

But MIL never went against her and even in her old age took enough care of her. SO you can see these incidents in PV are not too much out of place they do exist/ existed in joint families.

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Indu Ghosh

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Posted: 13 years ago

#196

Originally posted by: Gurtiluv

Done reading most of the takes, one point seems to be common in most of them. It is making me love punar vivah even more. The first show which seeks to show that at time parents can be wrong and children or the youth can be right. I mean you don't see this every day in a lot of Indian serials. You actually see the exact opposite. We are yet to decide whether or not it holds true. This show makes it appear as if parents are sometimes just like corrupt government leaders just because they hold power doesn't mean their always right.

@Sonika: I echo your views regarding the show. I was never a Hindi soap buff...and never more than a serial at a time and that too not regularly. But PV has hooked me completely...I am totally in love with the concept and the way it's being dealt with, touching the present-day family issues...and in DC I have found my parallel residence. I love the friends I've made here, love the varied thoughts, love how accepting everyone is of each other's views, and love the to-and-fro discussions touching every nook and niche of an episode. 👍🏼

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pop77

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Posted: 13 years ago

#197

Bua ka Punar Vivah karake, Bhej do..I think Yash should talk to Arti, Why she left him..

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Indu Ghosh

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Posted: 13 years ago

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@Phal: Spot on. Our society is full of such semi-torture sagas of in-laws. Sadly, they carry on even today and even in the most educated families...regardless of which strata of society they belong to. It's sort of an unspoken legacy passed on from an MIL to a DIL...who when she becomes the MIL behaves in the same manner. The idea is to cling onto the son by keeping the DIL under the thumb and to retain the hold over grihasthi... it's entirely a "control" issue. But yes, they don't go about getting their sons divorced at the drop of a hat...😛 Scindia family is unique in many aspects.

@Mamita: Loved your short summation...👏 You are right...communication is the key, which is missing between Aarti and Yash...and once they find it, there's no stopping opening all the locked doors of the heart. Others are able to interfere because of this lack between them.

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Mamita

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Posted: 13 years ago

#199

@Borna : Sure, we all are waiting for that moment when we'll shift base to AarYa AT with bag and baggage! Let the monsoons come and we'll get AarYa moments raining on us! 😃

@Indu : Your takes are never scribblings, dear. You write very methodically and I love that (since I can't do that myself 😆). And the part I loved the most:

" In his heart, he was protecting both Aarti and Arpita by signing: one by giving her the desired freedom, and the other by proving that she holds the only place in his heart...In trying to protect the shadow of his past, he turned his back to the sun that had briefly lighted up his life. Poor Yash...he became a mere pawn because truth was hidden from him. "

@Bold : Perfect to the T! It sums up the whole situation in a single line! 👏
And yeah, I too am addicted to PV cuz of its concept and more because I get to discuss the epi here at DC which is brimming with good writers. 👏

@Kavi: Description of a mother : 🤣
And I kept nodding throughout your take (both out of agreement and laughter). I loved the coinage "Dumb Dodos". I'm gonna use it now.

@Kirthi : I so agree with every word of yours. Especially the part where you said that Aarti was certainly better off alone. She had no in-laws to impress or any expectations to reach upto. It was only Ansh and her - the perfect world for her.

@Phal : I am really apalled at this revelation. 😲 I didn't know such people actually existed...making a DIL work hard when she is heavily pregnant???

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Ahandu

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Posted: 13 years ago

#200

Ha! What did I miss? Bua is now a mythological character and she can travel at will! But she can't change her destiny with all this traveling🤣

So Bua is of the opinion , "If I can't have happiness, no one shall have it!"

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