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Posted: 13 years ago
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Arti should have questioned yash yeah not infront of everyone else but in private. she has taken care of ansh for the last 5 years. Even if the other school is better, Yash should have at least asked. Yeah he did for the good, but changing a child's school is a really big deal. His mom was there every step of the way, and then all of a sudden Yash just makes that decision for her?

How about the time when aarti just told yash that there should be a little more fun in the girls life and they are too strict with them. The whole sindhya family got booty hurt.

I think Yash was completely wrong for not consulting arti about this matter.

Would love to hear your opinions.

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RACHA90 thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you...He should have discussed it with her first
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yash is not wrong, he wait 4 arti so he can tell her, but she ran away from him. even he didn't ans in front of his family, due to he grew that way,and his mom n dad he knew creat problem,so he talk her alone. even arti argue like he killed some1
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Posted: 13 years ago
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true that. It should be a collective decision making process. About the girls, even Aarti put forth the request to take care of the girls but they denied it. here, he just made the decision and executed it without telling him. This in a subtle way shows that they are somehow blaming the school-middle-class, no computer lessons, far from home. but have they ever wondered if the child will be happy in the new school or whether the boy was willing to change.

I want to see yash go an extra mile, take him to school etc, not make life easier by putting him in the girls school. And the girls school was a convent, so how did Ansh get enrolled in it?
And the girls going to start complaining about Ansh more now, as they will put him in trouble.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: solesole

true that. It should be a collective decision making process. About the girls, even Aarti put forth the request to take care of the girls but they denied it. here, he just made the decision and executed it without telling him. This in a subtle way shows that they are somehow blaming the school-middle-class, no computer lessons, far from home. but have they ever wondered if the child will be happy in the new school or whether the boy was willing to change.


I want to see yash go an extra mile, take him to school etc, not make life easier by putting him in the girls school. And the girls school was a convent, so how did Ansh get enrolled in it?
And the girls going to start complaining about Ansh more now, as they will put him in trouble.


what does a convent hv to do with it? I studies in a co-ed convent...convents r not meant only for girls. Yash was wrong in not discussing with aarti..only that.aoart from that, his decision was perrfect. he did it for ansh's better future. iit was totally unfair that his daughters went to a better school while ansh didn't. and initially the girls will resent, but they will get along.and this is the best option-spending time together.
Aarti's arguements didn't make sense yesterday. she did not argue on the point she should have and instead chose wrong ones! she actually could not counter any of Yash's arguements because what she was saying was most impractical, and then she just remained silent, because she knows within that Yash was right in his arguements. what aarti should hv confronted Yash with was why he did not discuss with her! But she just asked it once,and then deviated!
about Yash taking ansh to school, he took him and brought him- did both. But if aarti behaves as possessively as she does, i don't think yash will or should do it again.Aarti is over possessive about ansh. Yash is not like that. and Yash never objected to giving Payal and Palak's responsibility to aarti, he objected to the parvarish thing that she had said, that too in front of all. If u remember, when aarti told the principal that she would take payal and palak's responsibility, yash was looking at her with admiration, pleasure and relief. so he definitely doesn't have problem sharing responsibilities.That is aarti's weak point. she feels the need to do everything for ansh herself. and thats the reason she was angry yesterday. aarti has to learn to share ansh's responsibility with others just as yash needs to learn that he can't take decisions by himself even if he thinks they r right without consulting aarti. Both hv to learn a lot of things. So for me, in yesterday's episode, both yash and aarti were wrong!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think both should ease up and talk about kids. They both look at the kids from different prespective and come from different background so , it will be in favor of kids if mompa consult each other . we know in end they are both trying to find right solution.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The only wrong yash did was he should have asked or at least informed arti regarding this. that was his mistake according to arti. but the way he was brought up was, that only male's at home will be taking decision. so does he took decision alone.
Yash should have not changed ansh's school in the middle of curricular. he can also teach computer basics at home too. for that reason he shouldnt have changed the school.
Arti was bit over reacting to this, what yash did was for the betterment of ansh only. she could have understood him.
In total Arti desnt want yash to take ansh's responsibility.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree that Yash should hv discussed the issue with Aarti before taking such a big decision of changing Ansh's school because being a husband-wife such type of matters need to b jointly discussed first
But I guess Yash comes from a family where only men decide like his father said and so he does not feel the need to discuss it with Aarti and assumes she will b fine like rest of the women in his family who r always fine with whatever their hubbies decide 😆
But now Yash realised Aarti is not like those typical women of his family and mayb now from here on he wont take decisions alone without discussing it with Aarti ...😳
Also coming to Aarti I feel her ego is hurt here since till now she took every decision for Ansh but first time someone else took a decision ...both needs to realise that a joint effort is needed rather than doing this you or me ..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes I agree Yash shouldve discussed this matter with Aarti before taking the decision. He should realize he's not alone anymore and can make his own decisions.

But Aarti shouldve said that to Yash in private not in front of everyone making herself look bad :(
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes, Yash was wrong that he took the decision alone.

But Arati shouldn't have questioned him in front of all other family members

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