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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: narangi_77

Count me in! Team Ansh all the way baby!

Ansh is a darling. I love his spirit, his confidence and his cracker of a smile.

Yes, Ansh has some behavioral problems...but they can only be sorted out gradually, with loads of patience, understanding and tons & tons of love and affection...

What will not work: threats, physical violence, ultimatums, emotional blackmail...

Let the children be children and let the adults be adults here...

So GO TEAM ANSH !!!!!

& thank you so much for this lovely thread...👏



Ansh is a sweety...you kno the one thing i find absolutely precious in this kid is his need to know and speak the truth...he doesnt talk out of turn to be rude, he does it either b/c he's justified (callin dadi a cheater during ring game) or because he doesnt understand why he's been told to do or rather NOT do something (with wanting to sit with yash)

he is a chip off the old block of aarti where he cant keep his mouth shut in the face of injustice
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: arp04srocks



Ansh is a sweety...you kno the one thing i find absolutely precious in this kid is his need to know and speak the truth...he doesnt talk out of turn to be rude, he does it either b/c he's justified (callin dadi a cheater during ring game) or because he doesnt understand why he's been told to do or rather NOT do something (with wanting to sit with yash)

he is a chip off the old block of aarti where he cant keep his mouth shut in the face of injustice


same here! he calls it like he sees it...there's no nakhra or artifice about him...he's too too precious for words. I am a total deewani of this holy terror!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Count me in too, please. Go team Ansh! He certainly has behavioral issues but in most situations the only thing that works is talking to them in a language they understand and that language is not putting them down or comparing them to other kids who are seemingly well behaved like what Gayatri did. 😡

When they act up they usually have valid reasons. Try understanding those reasons and validating the child's feelings and you will be able to achieve so much more in terms of positive disciplining them rather than an authoritarian approach.

I too have both Indian and non Indian family and the difference in the way children are looked at is amazing.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i really felt for the child in yesterday's episode... he was feeling alienated at the breakfast table and i really couldn't blame him for his behavior...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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this is just a serial and everyone knows serials are never logical.

i dont see the point in people making comments related to their personal lives and making remarks comparing one race's upbringing to anothers😳.


Edited by sahil70 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gosh there is so much ansh hate on this site talking about how he is a brat or he's spoiled. He is a 5 year old boy! He has been pulled from the only world he knows to live in a completely different world and from the get go he has regarded Yash as his hero who sadly kind of disappoints. I am totally team Ansh.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yaha per to sabhi psychologist aur analyzers n criticizers ho gaye hai...main bolungi t sabi mujhe bhaga dengay so better is to read what u all think 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lol I've been saying the exact same thing in another thread.
So totally agree with you here. Great post! I am totally on team ansh here. Aarti did nothing wrong with how she handled him. Poor boy was heartbroken, and people expect her to lecture him further???
Yash, you are a very "naughty boy". And no, I don't mean that in a good way.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Charishma


Yash, you are a very "naughty boy". And no, I don't mean that in a good way.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sahil70



what do u mean by that????😕



Nothing offensive i promise it's just that my sister in law is white and when her daughter does something wrong rather then immediately yelling at her, or ignoring her, she stops her and gently tells her "no, that is wrong we dont do that because..." while my mom woulda whooped me one 😆 and been like dont do it again😡...i wasnt a badly behaved kid, i'm simply sayin tht approaches to parenting are changing and now with the implemtation of this almost school/teacher like role i've seen with my sis-in law i have noticed that it is as effective if not more so than the old school way my parents and alot of my indian cousins still do of smack bottom (not too hard and there's a diaper i know) and sayin "no"...

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