Loved reading everyone's thoughts😃
I've decided I"m gonna talk about ansh/aarti/parenting a lot more 😆 and it will be on this thread...now this is simply my view/take on things and alot of times it will simply be to vent about things 😆
Today I just loved ansh...once again he proves why he is simply the best...it was clear that the talk he had with his mother, her defending him when he had been humiliated and yelled at by his superhero was more than enough for him to get his act in gear...he didnt NEED the sorry, he was asking about cause after all we are taught that when we do something wrong we need to apologize and ansh never got his apology...although i guess he never gave his either 😆...And then later when he saw the P hiding the uniforms...he didnt just straight up yell "hey what are you doin?? why are you hiding it?" no he simply watched and waited. He only spoke up when he realized something wrong was going on. WHen aarti turned around all confused and politley asked P where could the uniforms be? Ansh did what he always does...he spoke the truth. He didnt add any bratty tongue sticking out nor did he gloat he simply stated the facts they are under the pillow where P hid them...thats what i love about this kid his blunt honesty...he speaks the truth whether it gets him in trouble or not...and lets not forget hte best part...when he was told to leave the room and get ready by himself ansh simply nodded his head and went off...no tantrums no badmaashi...(which one would totally expect given that to date aarti has not only gotten him ready but has even had to cajole him into clothes...with aarti ansh is learning that for some things to be gained (naya papa) some things need to be let go (aarti's vigilance)
And i abosolutely loved aarti's parenting tactics today...it was clear that aarti understands kids, especially stubborn kids, way better than most think...today by simply TALKING with PP instead of yelling or getting angry or demanding she simply asked and then when she got some resistance she forged on ahead as if nothing was wrong...and the key of cousre was post badmaashi P aarti didnt yell like PP expected but simply smiled as if the joke was actually funny for her too...its clear that PP have lived under the sindhiya parampara chains for far too long and simply dont know how to let go and have some fun...and aarti and ansh will be sure to cure that of them...
and yash...now plz dont attack...i know hes a good dad...heck its obvi esp when a man marries only for the happiness of his kids...but one thing yash needs to learn or relearn (if he forgot post arpi death) is that kids are NOT adults... i know we all know yash is a good man and that he puts up with ansh's badmaashi fairly patiently...and hell yes he stands up for ansh when its needed...but these things arent what a child needs...a child needs reassurance and unfortunately words are the only way it sinks in...yash could put up with ansh as terror problem child, he could stop DM and bua from causing havoc, he could save aarti...but unless ansh is a witness to this, and unless ansh HEARS the words unfortunately they are lost in translation...now i'm not faulting yash it can be easy growin up with DD and DM as your mom, and a household where the men are NOT the primary caretakers of children (we see it in the need for him to fight his family about a new mom pre marriage)...but in the process of trying to do it all he has so clearly become overwhelemed that he doesnt know how to spend QUALITY time with his kids...both PP and now ansh...yes i know it will come with time...but when you are blending to pre made families you dont necessarily have the time or comfort to let things progress (lets not forget the alienating grandmother)
as for DM...this lady needs a reality check asap...i for one am glad Pari is taken it upon herself to manipulate the master manipulator 😆...but its whack that she thinks its cool for ansh to not only b late but to skip school all togehter...i kno i'm forward...but i hope aarti body checks DM and uses yash's credit card to buy a scooter and drops ansh herself 🤣...besdies DM you guys are izzadar log right? shandhan ? then i'm pretty sure you got more than one driver...send 2 cars...😡 thats all that woman is worth 🤣
Naagin 7
Health and Fitness
Anupamaa
Bade Acche Lagte Hai 3
