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Posted: 13 years ago
I personally thought it was reasonable episode today, they just showed this with two perspective, Aarti and Gayatri. Gayatri as grandma and Aarti as mom.
Gayatri cannot think beyond her grandkids, she doesn't really hate her completely. She see her as sanskari, bit rigid actually pretty rigid but loving mom. So she just wants those qualities coming in her family. Which is wrong, but there are people like her everywhere. I am not advocating she is right but where she is coming from.
I didn't like Paylak's behaviour today, I have a feeling Aarti will go alone and without Ansh. And Yash will personally get him later, in doing so Aarti will lose more respect for Dubeys.
Sr. Scindia is real diplomat, he lets everything flow and then make his decision. He didn't oppose G but then didn't support her either again.
And as for Gayatri only one person can tame her, thats Mr Khanna. Hope he is frequent visitor of their home.
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Posted: 13 years ago
I really hate Gayatri.
On a side note, when will karan and shakti perform? Or did I miss it?
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Posted: 13 years ago
thanks for sharing...really interesting overview... I also hope Yash comes through.
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Posted: 13 years ago
thanks a lot for the update...
oh god wat a mess of things...
gayatri is full on saas mode...
i hate this separation of aarti and ansh yash u better oppose it...

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Posted: 13 years ago
about today's episode...
honestly I was too much disappointed to see Yash for barely 10mins n without any dialogues...
honestly to the makers of the show...
I can see what character you are trying to bring through Yash... like he's lost his interest in conversing much after Arpita's demise... but honestly... this just takes a toll on me... I mean ... the show is too much female oriented and the guy gets nothing to do till now...
I dunno what the makers have planned... but then they've got to give equivalent quality of a role to Yash... otherwise it's really gonna turn me off...

about the politics of the Scindia family...
by what I see... The egoistic males of the family(dats only papa Scindia) dominate the females of the house... they want the females to do as per his orders...
plus Gayatri is too proud to be a mother-in-law n she just wants to rule the entire existence of her daughter-in-laws...
She has problems with Aarti and even with Paridhi,,,
basically alll she can do is find faults and taunt her daughter-in-laws... uff...

okay... Shobha n Dubey..
Dubey is honestly irritating and frustrating me to bits... it looks as if he just wants to send Aarti away... it might be for a good reason.. but it comes out really negative... he is just ready to agree to any bloody condition of the Scindia's and willing to compromise anything even of its Aarti's happiness...
he thinks he's doing all for Aarti's happiness but in turn he's destroying his relation wid her...
Shobha.. I find her character very beautiful and strong... but sometimes.. Dubey dominates her n not let her speak the right n makes her take wrong decisions too...
I loved how she blasted on Dubey for agreeing to keep Ansh with them for 10-15 days... she was perfect to remind him that Aarti has married for Ansh n not for herself...

I found Aarti's sarcasm very well delivered...
I loved the way she made them realise that they had crushed all her willingless and desires...
if ever at the back of her mind, she had some willingness.. it's all crushed and all had turned into ashes...

for me the best moment of the episode was Prateek n Paridhi's moment... I loved how they are sooo free with each other... they have a very beautiful friendship in their relation... the part where Paridhi asks Prateek to pinch her was hillarious...!!!
but I wonder how Pari is gonna adjust in the Scindia house... she isnt realising that how different the environment is gonna be in her new home and she'll have to sacrifice or hold back a lot of her boldness and innocence to adjust to that new place...

I hope according to the precap... dey do make Yash enter this Ansh matter and take a step ahead and make Ansh with them during the bidaai...
I swear if they don't make Yash do something... I would really get pissed off from the makers... because I really want Yash's character to do something...

all in all... though the episode showed a lot of things .. bit of future also... but I was utterly disappointed with the female orientalist attitude...
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Posted: 13 years ago
Thanks for update.
Finger crossed, I have full trust on Yash for Ansh. Just hoping he don't let us down.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Missed the episode yesterday read all your lovely takes will catch up with the episode sometime today.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Mansi did good job on gandh bandhan😛, it didn't comeoff even when Aarti ran off
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Posted: 13 years ago
The Gayatri Mantras:
A little boy and his mother sharing moments on a railway platform...a vision of Madonna with her infant...a picture-perfect moment of bonding...This was Gayatri's first look of Aarti and Ansh, and this maternal side of Aarti is what made Gayatri decide in Aarti's favor. But, hold on, where you and I would have looked at this display of pure love, which is shared between only a mother and child, with lump in our throat, with misty eyes, with a smile to behold such a view, Gayatri's look was purely clinical..."This is perfect. This is what I want for my grand-daughters. This love." She looked at Aarti's love for Ansh as a commodity... a commodity that can be bought and traded with. Gayatri tried to push this belief forward when the marriage was still being negotiated, but failed, mainly due to Yash's conviction. Her belief took a backseat but didn't die. She would grumble about Aarti's love for her son now and then and was openly hostile to Ansh. In her eyes, Ansh's presence is a barrier to the welfare of her grand-daughters. And with the marriage over, she feels, she has earned the authority to play God and take a decision to separate the mother and son...that was her mantra to begin with, and she wants to follow it through now to its end. The bua only added fuel to the fire. The question is, What kind of maternal bone she has in her? It'll be only ironic when her own son negates her twisted thinking.

Another mantra was initiated today...play one bahu against the other. Gayatri is on home ground here. This is her sphere, where even her husband doesn't interfere. So, very conveniently, for a moment, Aarti becomes the favored one, and Pari, the pariah...Gayatri will constantly play this game...using one's strength/weakness against the other's. Isn't that how it has been done for like eternity? Isn't this how you continue to hold the baton in the family? She is only following this unwritten, unspoken mantra that is passed on from generations...She has such beautiful bahus, who are each individually different, yet are respectful and good human beings. She can so easily envelope them in her maternal fold and guide them and mold them into the family the right way...but no, she has to follow the mantra, you see...!!!!!

Aarti's Corner: A lonely corner. They are all conniving to snatch away her only life source, her son. What more has she to lose? Nothing. In that one moment, when she vent out her feelings, her pathos, her sense of betrayal, her agony, she stood alone...a beaten down, defeated version, a caricature, of a woman who, just yesterday, was a lively, spirited, vibrant human being. You knock the life out of a person and you expect that person to be happy, right ma & papa dubey? And you say you are doing all this for her happiness?😡You better set the wrong right now...with or without Yash's help.

That's it friends. I am really craving for some happy times now...😊 Have a nice day.
Edited by InduG64 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
I know we hate Dubey ji, but we forget when he did stand up for her many occasions.
Remember when Arti's hands were trembling to give shradhanjali to Prashant in ceremony, he came to gesture he is giving her permission. It must not be easy on any father. Also he was happy for her throughout her marriage, maybe he has no hidden agenda but just to see her married from his point of view. Why would he take so much loan, put his house on debt and all...
His harsh words, I am sure he repents it just came out. But I do feel deep down he loves her, I hope Aarti doesn't break her relation with them and realize their condition.
Getting a family like Scindia and guy like Yash, cannot be that easy. I mean there has to be some hidden truths in reality.

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