Raj To Propose To Divya in PV-ENU - Page 3

Originally posted by: karsuh

Why did the cvs have do make his character fall in love with Sarita in first place 😕 It really doesn't make sense at all with what they did and also the 10 years leap was just too much 😔

Originally posted by: -Surma-

I was hoping he would stay alone and spend times to reflect what he has done in the past years as I was hoping Sarita will unite with Raj as she loves him dearly.

I don't like this Vikrant and Sarita marriage and sarita's effort to adjust in Vikrant's house. Even though I am old fashioned person but I don't like forced black mailed marriage. The show is sending wrong message that if you are married even if it is forced , you should take as destiny and accept it. It shows that women have no escape route one they get married , they have to stay it with or without reasons.

Originally posted by: deepthis

Sorry for asking

But which woman in her right senses will stay with a person for 10 yrs when she is not even treated as a human being that hav a life.

Raj hadn't spoke to her for 10 long yrs. But still she stayed with him. So u r implying that a girl should wait for 10 or more yrs for her husband to consider her as a living being with feelings. And if he doesn't, then she should die waiting for him. But I hav a different notion altogether. If I was in Sarita's position, even if I love my husband like hell...I would have gone back to my maayka in 1 to 2 yrs after giving it a try and would hav atleast tried to forget him and would hav made a career for myself...I wouldn't hav wasted 10 yrs of my precious life waiting for a person to love me when he clearly said that he loves other woman.

If a woman can be portrayed in this way, I don't see any wrong in portraying her to be a wife out of compulsion. This doesn't mean i agree with the forced marriage thing, but this serial didn't make sense right from the beginning. So just don't find faults in just one track as u guys don't like ViSa. The soap itself is a mishap right from the beginning. Just enjoy. Because this show doesn't hav a logic to begin with. Who knows she may again go back to Raj. This show has the record of doing things which normal people couldn't understand or relate to it in any way.

Originally posted by: -Surma-

Well I am talking about the Freedom of choice . Before she had choice to leave or stay , she was not forced . But she opted for staying ( we guess she had low self esteem that's why ) . But now she might have high self esteem but she is lacking one thing that is she doesn't have the option to chose for herself. She has no freedom of her own . If she wants to leave this marriage , she wouldn't be allowed . To me , freedom of choice /speech is as important as self esteem. Both are complementary to each other . One is not substitute for the other. So, from Sarita's perspective, she had been miserable , and she is still miserable , nothing changed . But she had ray of hope for a new better life when Raj confessed her ( overlooking the awkward circumstancin ) , but for Vikrant she doesn't know when he will get softer or become less control freak and stop taking everything as business deal , and she might have to spend her whole life just to work on that. So, do u think she gained anything by this remarriage ?

Ignoring the red part as I don't like anybody tell me what I should do or not do :)