Originally posted by: ilovepyaar
Yeah sometimes you might have to go through different things in life - like not getting married to someone you love because you have to have an arranged marriage. But soon, with time, you'll learn to get feelings for that person too (realistically), having lived with them under the same roof for years, you'll develop feelings of at least care towards them. Does that mean that your first love was not true? No that's completely false. You loved them at one point in your life, and at that point in life your love for them was a hundred percent pure.
In RaVya's case, their love was true, and is still true. Nobody should be denying that. But people change, their feelings change, life changes around them and circumstances change. Having been apart for ten years, Raj's feelings towards Divya were more of him holding on to her, never getting a proper closure. It was actually extremely unrealistic that this was dragged for ten years without him even looking at Sarita, but I see that the CVs are rectifying their mistake now. Eventually, even if someone means the world to you at one point in time, there is no guarantee that they'll mean that to you many years later.
yes I totally agree,marriage is a huge institution,it's not cause of the customs all r done,bt it helps u to have a partner for lifetime,when this happens it becomes more real than any other relation,coz arrange or love in any marriage u get to learn the person & develop feelings for him/her..& love marriage is also the same for me coz maybe u have spent few more days extra with that person bt sill it becomes the same when u have to adjust,that's when it becomes real & u need to have that patience for ur partner,if u have that patince then u can love that person for rest of ur life bt that doesn't man u do not love others :)
& also not only hubby-wifey or bf-gf love,love keeps changing in everyway,one day we didn't go without our parents & then one day wil come when ur child wil become more important to u no matter how much u loved ur parents,so that means u never loved ur parents??
yes i can get that,well raj never loved her like physically & mentally both bt when Sarita said that he never disrespected her,was justified coz Sarita also held onto her marriage knowing abt his love interest,so it takes both to make a marriage successful or unsuccessful.now when both have realized their parts,i hope soon they can be together coz yah i agree they deserve each other :)