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Posted: 12 years ago
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I honestly don't know what the difference is between love and true love. Is there a fake love? If there is, then that was never love at all - it may have been lust or infatuation.

I am certain that you can fall in love over and over again with many different people. There are many ways to fall in love and just because it happens again doesn't make the previous one less true. There is a first love, where two people, very much in love will have the feelings of being in love. But that may not always work out - in fact, in most cases it doesn't. So what does someone do? Never think about looking at another person because they don't want to tarnish that "true love" image? No... they may find love again, and it won't be any more or any less true than the previous one. Even if you, say, move on from someone, when you were in that position, you were very much in love with them once. At one point in your life, your love for them brought you happiness, excitement, all those "in love" feelings, so that love wasn't false. I hope I'm making sense.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Raj-Sarita's love story was never true love. It was one sided love. But now I think Raj is more appreciative towards Sarita, so SARA jodi might happen, true love might happen.😃 So far the only true love I see here is Raj-Divya😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

I honestly don't know what the difference is between love and true love. Is there a fake love? If there is, then that was never love at all - it may have been lust or infatuation.

I am certain that you can fall in love over and over again with many different people. There are many ways to fall in love and just because it happens again doesn't make the previous one less true. There is a first love, where two people, very much in love will have the feelings of being in love. But that may not always work out - in fact, in most cases it doesn't. So what does someone do? Never think about looking at another person because they don't want to tarnish that "true love" image? No... they may find love again, and it won't be any more or any less true than the previous one. Even if you, say, move on from someone, when you were in that position, you were very much in love with them once. At one point in your life, your love for them brought you happiness, excitement, all those "in love" feelings, so that love wasn't false. I hope I'm making sense.

Cool DP U have there. Karanvir Bohra😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramkideewani23

Cool DP U have there. Karanvir Bohra😳



Thanks! I adore him! 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

I honestly don't know what the difference is between love and true love. Is there a fake love? If there is, then that was never love at all - it may have been lust or infatuation.

I am certain that you can fall in love over and over again with many different people. There are many ways to fall in love and just because it happens again doesn't make the previous one less true. There is a first love, where two people, very much in love will have the feelings of being in love. But that may not always work out - in fact, in most cases it doesn't. So what does someone do? Never think about looking at another person because they don't want to tarnish that "true love" image? No... they may find love again, and it won't be any more or any less true than the previous one. Even if you, say, move on from someone, when you were in that position, you were very much in love with them once. At one point in your life, your love for them brought you happiness, excitement, all those "in love" feelings, so that love wasn't false. I hope I'm making sense.


OMG!i can not agree more ⭐️ exactly what is false or fake Love?😆 the logic is things always doesn't work out,it doesn't make anything less important ..u can still respect the person whom u have loved nt it is not necessary to get tied with him/her unnecessarily .. love is always same bt it changes acc to our conditions & situations :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Jes...


OMG!i can not agree more ⭐️ exactly what is false or fake Love?😆 the logic is things always doesn't work out,it doesn't make anything less important ..u can still respect the person whom u have loved nt it is not necessary to get tied with him/her unnecessarily .. love is always same bt it changes acc to our conditions & situations :)



Yeah sometimes you might have to go through different things in life - like not getting married to someone you love because you have to have an arranged marriage. But soon, with time, you'll learn to get feelings for that person too (realistically), having lived with them under the same roof for years, you'll develop feelings of at least care towards them. Does that mean that your first love was not true? No that's completely false. You loved them at one point in your life, and at that point in life your love for them was a hundred percent pure.

In RaVya's case, their love was true, and is still true. Nobody should be denying that. But people change, their feelings change, life changes around them and circumstances change. Having been apart for ten years, Raj's feelings towards Divya were more of him holding on to her, never getting a proper closure. It was actually extremely unrealistic that this was dragged for ten years without him even looking at Sarita, but I see that the CVs are rectifying their mistake now. Eventually, even if someone means the world to you at one point in time, there is no guarantee that they'll mean that to you many years later.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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as for ravya or sara no one knows what can happen in the future as everyone knows here that cv are best in fooling the audience like it was shown at the beginning that it will be ravya love story but then it turn out to be sara maybe later ravya will again be seen together so its futile to predict true love in this show as we know that raj has waited 10 years for divya which is a very very long period and someone waited for such a long time for his beloved is someone a true lover then after some month raj started having feeling for sarita i mean its absolute nonsense for 10 years he didn't even love another but in just one or two month he began loving the other so we can expect in this show anything can happen
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovepyaar


Yeah sometimes you might have to go through different things in life - like not getting married to someone you love because you have to have an arranged marriage. But soon, with time, you'll learn to get feelings for that person too (realistically), having lived with them under the same roof for years, you'll develop feelings of at least care towards them. Does that mean that your first love was not true? No that's completely false. You loved them at one point in your life, and at that point in life your love for them was a hundred percent pure.

In RaVya's case, their love was true, and is still true. Nobody should be denying that. But people change, their feelings change, life changes around them and circumstances change. Having been apart for ten years, Raj's feelings towards Divya were more of him holding on to her, never getting a proper closure. It was actually extremely unrealistic that this was dragged for ten years without him even looking at Sarita, but I see that the CVs are rectifying their mistake now. Eventually, even if someone means the world to you at one point in time, there is no guarantee that they'll mean that to you many years later.


yes I totally agree,marriage is a huge institution,it's not cause of the customs all r done,bt it helps u to have a partner for lifetime,when this happens it becomes more real than any other relation,coz arrange or love in any marriage u get to learn the person & develop feelings for him/her..& love marriage is also the same for me coz maybe u have spent few more days extra with that person bt sill it becomes the same when u have to adjust,that's when it becomes real & u need to have that patience for ur partner,if u have that patince then u can love that person for rest of ur life bt that doesn't man u do not love others :)
& also not only hubby-wifey or bf-gf love,love keeps changing in everyway,one day we didn't go without our parents & then one day wil come when ur child wil become more important to u no matter how much u loved ur parents,so that means u never loved ur parents??
yes i can get that,well raj never loved her like physically & mentally both bt when Sarita said that he never disrespected her,was justified coz Sarita also held onto her marriage knowing abt his love interest,so it takes both to make a marriage successful or unsuccessful.now when both have realized their parts,i hope soon they can be together coz yah i agree they deserve each other :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Big No love happens onceee and you never forget yoour first Love 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I dont believed, love cant be twice, but if it about with friends, family or your fav then it will always change but only for special one who you want more then anything its only happen once. Forget about raj sarita or raj divya they r tv character they definitely will fall for anybody who knows all plan under cvs pen 😆 or their brain.tv show r like fantasy tale they dont have any reality at all.aj A se pyaar hua to kal B se or agar AB both gaya toh C will come within couple days 😆 .v shows love r all fake they loved thousand time they marry... dont know how many times,divorced, die n come back, sometime duplicate 😆. Real life love only happen one time and its my view and I believed it.

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