Do u believe in 2nd time love??

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Soni Malhotra

@soni2004

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

I believe true love can happen as many times as an individual lets it.

when you fall in love you don't plan to fall out of love or plan for something to go wrong, but when it does god forbid and then if someone has the strength to make themselves to vulnerable to someone again -- it can happen, but only if they have resolved their feelings for the person they fell in love with before.

Love is different from Lust...Love can only happen only once at given time!

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Julie

@JulieD

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Posted: 12 years ago

#32

I believe that true love does not happen only once. It is possible to be completely in love with a person and let's say they die in an accident. The person could fall in love once again and be completely in love with new person. It does not mean that the love for the first person was not true. It is just circumstances and the individual itself and how you grow as a person.

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Kesha_H.

@Kesha_H.

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Posted: 12 years ago

#33

i agree true love happens once but u have to fall in love many times to actually find ur 1 true love if u r lucky u will find u true love in your 1st try but I do not believe in falling in love only once u can fall in hundreds of times but u can only find true love once

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@-Sanjana-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: Priyamvada

so u believe u plot/ do some planning so that ppl fall in lovee??🥱 love jus happens.. it cant be plotted/forced
mere opinion🥱

No, but the way I look at it, the planning they did was not for Raj to fall in love with Sarita. The planning was done so that Raj would at least take notice of Sarita's existence. He needs to realize that she is also a person with feelings and emotions first, on the humanitarian level, before any kind of love even takes place.

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deepthi choudary

@deepthis

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Posted: 12 years ago

#35

For me true love happens only once...

Just like Parent's love, Sibling's love,...these r some kind of bonds which we cant share with anyone else

Falling out of true love is never easy...It takes away one's life to actually get over it...so falling for other person is very hard but not impossible.

But sometimes, like in PV-1 second love can happen.

Saying that, if a person falls out from the first love and starts feeling for other person then it is def not termed as true love

In this show, I cant see true love between SaRa and RavYa also. There was a time when i thought RavYa's love is true. Even though they stayed away from each other for 10 yrs they had the same feelings and either of them couldn't forget the other. And Raj never even thought about Sarita in those 10 yrs. He didnt even treat her as a human with feelings before.

And suddenly just because Divya told him that Sarita is gonna die, he started noticing her when he didnt even care to bid her a farewelll when she decided to go to her maayka.

If they would hav shown that Raj had accepted Sarita as a fnd over these 10 yrs and if they would hav gradually proceeded to show SaRa falling for each other then it would hav been believable. But ri8 now, the show isn't making any sense to me. Because I cant connect with either Sarita's char or Raj's char.

Edited by deepthis - 12 years ago

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917494

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Posted: 12 years ago

#36

though im a sara fan ... i truely believe in 1st love...2nd love is not the same //

coz i was a dmg fan ... a big armman riddhima fan😃

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ChandniAdvay

@ChandniAdvay

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Posted: 12 years ago

#37

I believe in true love. But is divya raj true love? Like hum dil.. Whn aish though her true love was salman khan but end she finds out that ajay is her true love.

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_innocent_

@_innocent_

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Posted: 12 years ago

#38

Of course thats your POV! But if one was to go by your logic, those who end up becoming a widow at an earlier age should never seek to find love again, those who were abused and want a fresh start ought never to find love again, since love happens only once😆😆😆

Sometimes when we were young, we feel the world is against us and feel adamant that our childhood sweethearts are our real soulmates, only to find down years later how stupid we once were. (this is a general reference) Raj was stubborn that he only loved Divya but in reality when he started to realise he was about to lose the woman who stood by his side for 10 years when his family insulted her and he insulted her himself, he realised what he truly feels! (You only know the importance of something or someone when you are about to lose that thing or person, and a similar situation is occuring here) Raj may have thought divya was his soul mate but that was oly because his teenage hormones were suppressed by him and he felt betrayed by his family when they forced him to marry Sarita via emotional blackmail! And he was rebelling like a silly teenager!😆😆

But now his eyes opened! And like Marja explained in the above comment, this is a bit similar to hum dil DCS!😳

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ruchisahay

@ruchisahay

Navigator

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Posted: 12 years ago

#39

Do I believe in 2nd time love? Well, I don't know as I haven't needed it so far in my life (fingers crossed 😊)

But love itself is so different for different people that getting a general consensus on such a topic would be difficult . Here's what I feel about it 😃.

Love should never be the "be-all and end-all" of one's life. I read in a book long back that when you say "I love you" to someone, "I" comes before "love". So, one should definitely love believing it to be their one final love and give it all to make it succeed, without compromising on the person one is (i.e. without giving up your "I"). There's no harm in believing in One True Love, as long as it does not constraint your life. If despite trying hard, the relationship fails then let it be. And maybe when one is ready, one can try for a second (or third ...) shot at love. Hope I made sense 😊.

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ChandniAdvay

@ChandniAdvay

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: _innocent_
Of course thats your POV! But if one was to go by your logic, those who end up becoming a widow at an earlier age should never seek to find love again, those who were abused and want a fresh start ought never to find love again, since love happens only once😆😆😆

Sometimes when we were young, we feel the world is against us and feel adamant that our childhood sweethearts are our real soulmates, only to find down years later how stupid we once were. (this is a general reference) Raj was stubborn that he only loved Divya but in reality when he started to realise he was about to lose the woman who stood by his side for 10 years when his family insulted her and he insulted her himself, he realised what he truly feels! (You only know the importance of something or someone when you are about to lose that thing or person, and a similar situation is occuring here) Raj may have thought divya was his soul mate but that was oly because his teenage hormones were suppressed by him and he felt betrayed by his family when they forced him to marry Sarita via emotional blackmail! And he was rebelling like a silly teenager!😆😆

But now his eyes opened! And like Marja explained in the above comment, this is a bit similar to hum dil DCS!😳

agee with u!!!

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