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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: ekta-avinafan

Acc to Divya ,sarita is doing this from starting and not only with her MIL but husband too .and sarita's manner didn't suggest that she is giving answers back first time.so Divya was not wrong.

I don't know why such a simple thing is not being...


Okay...maybe, I did not understand it...
Thanks
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: sia_lovely

For me, Divya was hurt and heart broken when she saw the events unfolding in front of her at Raj's house. May be she felt shocked on seeing Sarita responding so badly to her MIL and plus Divya is unaware of what Sarita is going through. Kamla treated Divya well and spoke rudely only to Sarita. At first Divya did cringe when Kamla used abusive words for Sarita...but then when she saw Sarita responding in the same manner, she was stumped and inadvertently made assumption that MIL was mistreating the DIL because DIL was such bad mouthed person! (An exact opposite one!) What Divya didn't know was the hell Sarita was going through every day and night. For Divya, it seemed like Sarita had everything, most importantly a loving husband---- who could have been her's!

And after coming back home, she had only negative things to say about Sarita...because of this impression and also may be because of her hurt and jealousy. Because this lady Sarita has her Raj! Acc. to Divya, Sarita must have spent 10 wonderful years of husband and wife with Raj, and that stung her. and hence she found faults unknowingly with only Sarita. Her brother pointed out very well and she accepted to that atlast...that her problem was not that Raj got married to such an ill-mannered girl but because he got married to someone else other than her!


Thank you for your amazing reply...
Wonderful post...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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well yeah divya left raj, but it wasnt for no reason, she was being a good sister and had to take care of her younger ones👏, family always come first you know, i really respect her for that sacrifice she did for her family👍🏼, but yeah then since it was her choice i really dont know why she is so mad at raj for getting married without waiting for her🤔 coming to sarita, ofcourse us viewers know how sarita has been treated, so we understand why she acts like that, and it shows that she is really strong👏 i love that about her👍🏼 but just imagine you just entering that house and witnessing what happened, of course even if you saw how the mother was talking to her you wouldnt expect the D I L to talk back like that react like sarita did, any person who doesnt know what she has been going through will find her rude and not a fit DIL... well what i'm trying to say is that yes, it is not fair to sarita, and she has all rights to stand up for herself...but divya judging her just from this is also understandable, she is just talking from what she has witnessed, that doesnt make her a weak character, infact i love her character because it shows that she is a normal person in real life not all i'm so perfect...i do think both of them have strong characters😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sallybaby

well yeah divya left raj, but it wasnt for no reason, she was being a good sister and had to take care of her younger ones👏, family always come first you know, i really respect her for that sacrifice she did for her family👍🏼, but yeah then since it was her choice i really dont know why she is so mad at raj for getting married without waiting for her🤔 coming to sarita, ofcourse us viewers know how sarita has been treated, so we understand why she acts like that, and it shows that she is really strong👏 i love that about her👍🏼 but just imagine you just entering that house and witnessing what happened, of course even if you saw how the mother was talking to her you wouldnt expect the D I L to talk back like that react like sarita did, any person who doesnt know what she has been going through will find her rude and not a fit DIL... well what i'm trying to say is that yes, it is not fair to sarita, and she has all rights to stand up for herself...but divya judging her just from this is also understandable, she is just talking from what she has witnessed, that doesnt make her a weak character, infact i love her character because it shows that she is a normal person in real life not all i'm so perfect...i do think both of them have strong characters😃


Agree..both acted well and are strong...
Waiting for more Raj scenes to make it more clear about their past..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I was feeling d same dear,I got hurted too.It doesnt matter that Div doesn't know bout Sari's past.problem is Sari's mil scolded her too much in front of div,so why sari talked back,isn't it d right thing? But div said she was mannerless,did she tought a girl who keep silent 4 so called sanskar is a mannerful bahu?
Urghh...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I totally agree with u, so far i really like Sarita, she is going through a really hard time with a really mean MIL.
I totally agreed with her statement "tit for tat", so far Raj's mom has been nothing but constantly mean to her (from what i have seen), if they treated her like that for 10 years, then she has every right to represent herself rather than take everything quietly like some so called mannerful bahu.
Also whether Divya knows about Sarita's problem or not, in my opinion she made some totally unjustified conclusions like saying Sarita is a horrible person, am... wasn't she there seeing the way Raj's mom treated poor Sarita.
All i am saying is Sarita is so far the strongest character and i really like her.
She stands up for her self respect and her rights.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Maybe Divya is still being in character of "Choti Bahu" and hence judged Sarita by that yard stick😆.
The fact that Raj married someone else would be a black mark against Sarita in Divya's eyes and the fact that she stood up for herself would only be viewed in a negative light.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Just want to say we should never judge a person for what he\she is because every saint has a past and every sinner has a future..the most funniest thing in the earth is being judge by a person who never know how and what ur life is going trough..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't think sarita is strong I think if she was that strong of a character then why stick around for 10 yrs its not like she is from a poor family --that she does not to be bhoj on her family
Why take all that crap from that kamla and her 2 chamchies

As For divya I think once knows what sarita is going through she will change her mind and will support sarita and eventually both will become good friends
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think we have seen the one side of divya..her past has nt reaveled,so i request wait before reaching conclusions!

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