Qualities in a Queen... - Page 3

She hardly enjoyed her LIFE much,Minnie 😆

Originally posted by: lime ice

She hardly enjoyed her LIFE much,Minnie 😆

Why r u laughing tuhi😕?

Originally posted by: lime ice

She hardly enjoyed her LIFE much,Minnie 😆

who didn't enjoy her life much.....Sita or Jhansi ki Rani

Actually neither enjoyed life......😭

But you see very seldom are the people who enjoy their life remembered or praised so much👏

I am not laughing at any of them,Arshit.. I am not dis-respectable to ppl like this

I'd say a perfect women ⭐️ would make a perfect queen as is easy to gather after reading most of the convincing replies like those of Keteki, Lashy, dee,Saswati

And the ideas of a perfect queen differs ......
Like I can never identify with the queens of those days(Sagar's version) 😕 ,
I mean just playing second fiddle to "King the great"
is not my idea of a great life. If you ask me, their
absence would never be missed by anyone except the king.

Now my idea :
A women who is the very epitome of beauty and grace. ⭐️
to sit beside the king she needs to make a perfect picture,almost one of awe!!

Someone who has "tact" and tact here is in no way synonymus with cunningness.....it means the "wisdom of heart", so she can make decisions without being biased and not forgetting the human element

Best qualities of human nature like kindness and helpfulness are indespensible for a queen. 😊

displaying resolve that could oscillate between determination and stubborness at times

She should be endearing, aloof and distant; all at the same time!

last and most important, in the male oriented world of those days, she should be persistent and smart enough to let the people around, royal or commoners, get a view of all the above mentioned qualities that she posseses. i.e. she should be able to steal the lime light, in the most subtle manner.

And that's not all.......I'll be back with more
Cool topic Manasi....just after my own heart 👏

NICELYYYY worded,Minnie.. Have nothinggg to contribute to this topic.. So,leaving comments on U ppl's posts 😆 😛

Originally posted by: minnie2308

who didn't enjoy her life much.....Sita or Jhansi ki Rani

Actually neither enjoyed life......😭

But you see very seldom are the people who enjoy their life remembered or praised so much👏

actually enjoyment in life is not always being the queen of a kingdom...enjoyment is doing what you please....I think that sita was happy with being with her husband in the forest...she would have rather lived with her husband then be the queen without him with her....and I believe that laxmibai also enjoyed her life because she fought for the nation and this is the highest deed you can do for your country....i would love to fight for my country, it would be a dream come true for me. 😊

Originally posted by: miraclemun

actually enjoyment in life is not always being the queen of a kingdom...enjoyment is doing what you please....I think that sita was happy with being with her husband in the forest...she would have rather lived with her husband then be the queen without him with her....and I believe that laxmibai also enjoyed her life because she fought for the nation and this is the highest deed you can do for your country....i would love to fight for my country, it would be a dream come true for me. 😊

Yes. It all depends on your personal definition for enjoyment......When I talked about Sita being unhappy, I was refering to the time she had to spend at Sage Valmiki's Ashram single-parenting Luv-Kush!😭

Agreed even Rani LaxmiBai would have been happier fighting for her independence 👍🏼rather than accept british supremacy and stay in their gilded cage😡

As someone said....... to be a perfect queen, one should be a perfect women (its a prerequisite) and a nice human (kind hearted, duty first etc).

So qualities for ideal queen from my point of view:

1] Matured enough to make wise decisions and should be complementary to her husband.

2] Should know 'Art of politics'. She should not be innocent, otherwise people will take disadvantage of it. Eg: Kunti

3] Should be ready to face anything worst, ready to sacrifice, be prepared to die and to bear that death. Eg: Rani Lakshmi bai

4] Off course Attitude toh chahiye hi......... no one should take her for granted. Eg: Draupadi

5] She should not be emotionally attached with anyone near her..... (servant, children, even husband) Eg: Kamalavati, Rani Lakshmi bai...... I mean agar unhe kuch ho gaya toh woh depression mein nahi jani chahiye.....

Originally posted by: ppiyu

As someone said....... to be a perfect queen, one should be a perfect women (its a prerequisite) and a nice human (kind hearted, duty first etc).

So qualities for ideal queen from my point of view:

1] Matured enough to make wise decisions and should be complementary to her husband.

2] Should know 'Art of politics'. She should not be innocent, otherwise people will take disadvantage of it. Eg: Kunti

3] Should be ready to face anything worst, ready to sacrifice, be prepared to die and to bear that death. Eg: Rani Lakshmi bai

4] Off course Attitude toh chahiye hi......... no one should take her for granted. Eg: Draupadi

5] She should not be emotionally attached with anyone near her..... (servant, children, even husband) Eg: Kamalavati, Rani Lakshmi bai...... I mean agar unhe kuch ho gaya toh woh depression mein nahi jani chahiye.....

very important.. she shld be able to handle to kingdom.. if anything happens to the king.. n fall ill like sagar's sanyo