why are bedis hiding stuff from hetal? - Page 6

Originally posted by: muktha_cute

then bedis must doesnt even want hetals child too
then bedis should not include hetal baby in their lives too
when they never want hetal 2 b part of the family then they should not even want her child also 2 b part of the family

The Child that Hetal is about to bring into this world is both hers and Karan's. Therefore, The Bedi's cannot say that they do not want that child as its their son's child as much as it is Hetal's child.

Hetal choose not to part of that family. They never asked her not to be part of that family. Hetal was treat with respect from that family and do not forget her Mother in law Chayji was even by her side and Hetal used her to separate that happy and loving family. So whatever Hetal is facing now is a result of her own actions and her own wishes.

even bedi family has no say in hetals family's life and hetals baby life

You are absolutely correct here with regards to Hetal's family life and dont forget the baby is both Karan's and Hetal's

when they made hetal outsider in her own sausral then hetals baby is also an outsiders baby 2 bedis and they dont have any rights on baby

Hetal made herself an outsider in her sasural. we all know the details so I wont harp on them and I already made the point regarding teh baby

they has no right to whine or complain about hetal not gifting her baby

Hetal did not oppose her husband when he volunteered THEIR baby to Sweety although she had numerous chances to refuse.

hetal is fed up and annoyed with everyone including Mona,vimmy and sweety.

She is even fed up with her own mother muchless to say... and vice versa

so especially sweety,parmeet,vimmy,mona should stay away from hetal and her child .

Everyone has a right to that child since they will be the child's aunts and uncles related by blood. There is nothing anyone can do to change this.

hetal is tense, she don't need some one like sweety a baby snatcher to make things worse and rob her baby away from her

Sweety is not a baby snatcher as she was offered the baby by her brother and sister in law since her sister in law never object to giving her the baby. Therefore, It is very unfair to call sweety a baby snatcher.

I somewhat did not want to reply to this post but I must clear up a few things here as my conscience wont allow me to overlook it.

Originally posted by: vcoolwater

Isn't Hetal getting what she wants? She never wanted to be part of this family. She never informs them of her decisions. So why should they inform her? Why include her? She made it clear she doesn't want them in her life. Why should they include her in their lives?

In fact I happy the Bedi family are catching on. They not including Hetal in big decisions. She has made herself clear that Bedi family stay out of her life. It is a two way street. Then Hetal has no say in Bedi family's life .

She has only herself to blame. She made herself an outsider in her own sausral. She has no right to whine or complain about it.

Everyone including Mona are fed up with her. Even Karan is annoyed with her. It was only a matter of time. I can't blame them. Everyone is tense, they don't need somelike Hetal to make things worse.

I agree with you totally. Its only a matter of time before Karan give up on Hetal. She is not seeing this and when this happens if it does, she will find someone to blame for it and not herself. In reality a man will never stay with a woman who is nagging and hates his family beyond reconciliation. Everyone is human and will react. Blood thicker than water as the old people will say.

Originally posted by: Luv4games

Please SHERMA does not seem to be interested in fighting and does not seem overly offended by the discussions. So lets agree to disagree and forget about the whole issue of getting personal.

Originally posted by: rayadallie

Please SHERMA does not seem to be interested in fighting and does not seem overly offended by the discussions. So lets agree to disagree and forget about the whole issue of getting personal.

sorry to disagree here,i know i pmed u about it,but just want to clear to sum people i was offended,and who wont be?when sum get one personally attacks u like this,and it was very sweet of luv4games to defend me,u rock

Originally posted by: sherma

sorry to disagree here,i know i pmed u about it,but just want to clear to sum people i was offended,and who wont be?when sum get one personally attacks u like this,and it was very sweet of luv4games to defend me,u rock

Sherma I dont want you to misunderstand what I said. What I said is in bold for clarity

@rayadallie:i am not at all misunderstnding u,and i received ur pm,i got what u meant.thanks so much.now forget all this-every1...a request:.just continue the topic without getting nasty and passing personal comments,or else the topic will get closed.

Originally posted by: Luv4games

Originally posted by: sherma

@rayadallie:i am not at all misunderstnding u,and i received ur pm,i got what u meant.thanks so much.now forget all this-every1...a request:.just continue the topic without getting nasty and passing personal comments,or else the topic will get closed.

Originally posted by: April2007

You are totally wrong in saying that I defend Bedi's I have even started the thread saying Mona is wrong and Mona getting Hetal and Karan married will back fire..I have also said that Mona is totally unrealistic character, there can be nobody like Mona in real life..

I don't particularly care about Bedi's, you are totally wrong..I don't even post all time..or are on the forum..how dare you can say that I don't tolerate..If I was so powerful, you wouldn't be hurling extreme abuse at me..

You are throwing stones at me while and abusing me and insulting almost everybody on the forum while pretending to be a very good person..I am disgusted at the level of abuse you have hurled and continue to hurl at me..

Just to clarify...i am not throwing extreme abuse on anybody...i am just stating facts and basing my opinion based on all the posts...You can defend mona if you want, bedi's or aditya or ghandi's or say stuff against them and not like them..it is all your opinion and i respect it and i would never tell you to change your opinion for anybody or ever judge you based on that...My whole point was that bashing and insulting forum members based on who they like or dislike is wrong and disrespectful and should not be allowed because this is a public forum and everybody is entitled to their opinion and who they like or dislike unless nobody gets hurt by it...however, you took my point the wrong way and felt that i was abusing you...i would never abuse anyone based on a tv show for their opinions but clearly even sherma stated that she was offended by your insults and i am sorry you can call it abuse but i cant tolerate or stay quite when forum members are being bashed based on their opinions...on side note just a word of advise when we pass judgment on others and insult them it is good to be prepared for it ourselves too because it is a two way street...just for example...you insulted sherma...and i stood up for her and told you that you were wrong...you called me on that...i replied back to you and the cycle will keep going on that is why it is better to just keep our opinions to the show and not members...And as respect for sherma...this will be my last post regarding this issue because she created this thread to discuss a whole different topic...Peace

Originally posted by: muktha_cute

for ur kind inf
acd 2 law father doesnt have any so called ri8s on infant
nor fathers family does
only a mother have all ri8s on called
father can just visit 1@week for few hrs if the mother feels her husband isnt a right person 2 take care of her baby
and all knws how is baby father who can sell/gift his babies 2 their sisters
so by this karan or his family doesnt have any ri8 on kid
ifhetal wants she can get jailed karan 4 gifting his baby and sweety-parmeet 4 snatching hetals baby
if hetal wishes then only d so called husband and his family can atleast have 1glimpse of hetals baby
so neither karan/bedis have any ri8 on hetal baby
they must beg hetal 4 atleast let them stay near d baby

and neither i asked u 2 reply 2 my post
nor imintrested in clearing up anything
coz im nt intrested in knowing/clearing abt any isues wid strangers