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I will never like to eat a plate where itt is needed to cook with onions and it is absent what I know onion give flavour to anyfood where it is needed and if it is omitted definitely the food will not taste the same.

No offense to anyone but it's quite simple.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I agree with taral totally .

Some Vaishnavs Or Jains etc MAY be eating etc , Thats NOT the question here at all . THIS particular family does NOT eat and follows this strictly . Hetal has grown up there . Mona was not given any special treatment , so why is Hetal expecting same ? It has to be understood that elders r very touchy about it and cannot sleep properly at night if they r staunch believers like Baa . Its a religious matter for them , they feel spiritually violated . At that age they cannot change and expecting them all to change under the excuse of progressive thought is being very aggressive and selfish . Hetal need not follow Baa's ways if marraige has broadened her mind and made her more progressive . Go to Chandigarh or Your new house , wherever it is , and do whatever u want there . If Baa comes there , tell her , in My house onion parathas will be cooked , I do not follow ur ways , I do what pleases my hubby . Fine . But if ur in their house , abide by their rules . So simple .

Hetal acted like she didn't know anything about the belief. In fact, she use to taunt Mona about it before she married Karan. Making faces at the smell of onion and garlic. Hetal has no respect for anyone. For her its my way or the high way. I agree, if baa goes to her house and threw a fit. I would side with Hetal because its her house and her rules...Well nevertheless, in my POV HETAL was wrong, not cooking with onions and garlic. I can't imagine life without them...lol...but if I ever went to someones home that followed such a belief, I would give all my due respect and not do anything to hurt their belief. I won't die if I don't eat it for a couple a days...😆...Hetal just needs a reality check...

Hetal acted like she didn't know anything about the belief. In fact, she use to taunt Mona about it before she married Karan. Making faces at the smell of onion and garlic. Hetal has no respect for anyone. For her its my way or the high way. I agree, if baa goes to her house and threw a fit. I would side with Hetal because its her house and her rules...Well nevertheless, in my POV HETAL was wrong, not cooking with onions and garlic. I can't imagine life without them...lol...but if I ever went to someones home that followed such a belief, I would give all my due respect and not do anything to hurt their belief. I won't die if I don't eat it for a couple a days...😆...Hetal just needs a reality check...

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Hetal acted like she didn't know anything about the belief. In fact, she use to taunt Mona about it before she married Karan. Making faces at the smell of onion and garlic. Hetal has no respect for anyone. For her its my way or the high way. I agree, if baa goes to her house and threw a fit. I would side with Hetal because its her house and her rules...Well nevertheless, in my POV HETAL was wrong, not cooking with onions and garlic. I can't imagine life without them...lol...but if I ever went to someones home that followed such a belief, I would give all my due respect and not do anything to hurt their belief. I won't die if I don't eat it for a couple a days...😆...Hetal just needs a reality check...

Absolutely agreed again ...very well said . She refuses to adjust ANYWHERE ...be it Bedis or Gandhis . Well they r both joint families , its NOT her own nuclear family with Karan . If she lives with them , u gotta abide by THEIR rules . In your house do what u want , but when u live with others , especially a large amount of ELDERS, u gotta respect them . Hetal is insensitively selfish and terribly aggressive and needs a solid reality check .

i totally disagree with u...and disagree with ppl who r saying u should follow their rules if u r in their house... here gandhi's eat vegeterian n everybody saying hetal should follow them..wat if gandhi's eats only NV and hetal/karan should eat NV if they r vegeterians? ppl can eat vegetrian though they r Non vegetrians ...wat abt ppl who r vegetrians ..can they force them to eat NV just becoz it is their house rule to cook NV daily n eat the same? bukwas...totally ridiculous n logic less.. wat d hell they r showing ...n I pity ppl who r just expressing their views for the sake of characters which they like or dislike... one should always respect others feelings... if they wants to eat something which others dont like they should allow them n hetal didnt ask them cook or eat wat she prepares...someone can adjust the place or any other thing..but for food no one can adjust ... If anybody comes to ask n me to eat which i dont like i vl never... And vl like never eat if they dont prepare it properly...I would prefer to stay hungry rather eating which i dont like and would glad to cook something which i like...

If it is for one day or two days can adjust ...like if i go to somebody's place and have lunch/dinner ..fine... If i am staying over thr can never ever able to do that..
if u r not troubling them making those ppl to eat which they dont like that is different... wat a big deal if they cook it on their own... my self a non vegeterian and my roomie is a vegeterian ..
believe me she dont even touch the dishwasher scrub if i use it for cleaning non vegeterian vessels...at the same i respects her feelings and keep the things away from her ...
we r in 21st century not living in 1900's ...all i say to ppl who r against this cooking funda is' ...GROW UP FRIENDS... May god bless and fill ur thoughts with some maturity

When living in a joint family especially more than one generation living together it is extremely important for everyone to come together...Just because house is owned by a particular person does not mean they completely rule...If they want to live that way than there wont be a joint family. Some give and take must happen. Or just be a nuclear family of your own..

Originally posted by: pesi11

i totally disagree with u...and disagree with ppl who r saying u should follow their rules if u r in their house... here gandhi's eat vegeterian n everybody saying hetal should follow them..wat if gandhi's eats only NV and hetal/karan should eat NV if they r vegeterians? ppl can eat vegetrian though they r Non vegetrians ...wat abt ppl who r vegetrians ..can they force them to eat NV just becoz it is their house rule to cook NV daily n eat the same? bukwas...totally ridiculous n logic less.. wat d hell they r showing ...n I pity ppl who r just expressing their views for the sake of characters which they like or dislike... one should always respect others feelings... if they wants to eat something which others dont like they should allow them n hetal didnt ask them cook or eat wat she prepares...someone can adjust the place or any other thing..but for food no one can adjust ... If anybody comes to ask n me to eat which i dont like i vl never... And vl like never eat if they dont prepare it properly...I would prefer to stay hungry rather eating which i dont like and would glad to cook something which i like...

If it is for one day or two days can adjust ...like if i go to somebody's place and have lunch/dinner ..fine... If i am staying over thr can never ever able to do that..
if u r not troubling them making those ppl to eat which they dont like that is different... wat a big deal if they cook it on their own... my self a non vegeterian and my roomie is a vegeterian ..
believe me she dont even touch the dishwasher scrub if i use it for cleaning non vegeterian vessels...at the same i respects her feelings and keep the things away from her ...
we r in 21st century not living in 1900's ...all i say to ppl who r against this cooking funda is' ...GROW UP FRIENDS... May god bless and fill ur thoughts with some maturity

You have brought up a great point. Some people forget about their beliefs and what is right or wrong when defending or going against characters. There is no rule to follow something when you are in somebody else's house. I was vegetarian for a few years and we were invited to my cousin's house. Everybody was eating meat but that does not mean that they should have expected me to eat meat also. I had planned that I would only eat plain rice and that is about it but they made arrangements for me and cooked separate rice, 3 kinds of vegetables for me because I was the guest and they did not want to force down their rules or likes or me.

I guess i am too choosy 4 all dis,but i dnt even like a spoon getting mix wid anther dish,but i dnt get dis when hetal went to mrket got onion made d dish,but nobody came to know,and idealy mona,ambaji shld b in kitchen mkng breakfast but bth werent dere,and wats wrng wid vimmy ,d way she caled her hme wen mona was cookng was stupid

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