Mona is to blame for Sweety's miscarraige

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Mila

@Millerrr88

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: tmadray
I think they should kick hetal out...and her parents should know about it... Mona should not be blame for anything...

Yesss!nbut not likey to happen 😭

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Shas3

@Shas3

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Mona definitely cannot be blamed for Hetal falling! Hetal did a complete 180 from ghandi house to bedi house.

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khamosshhh

@khamosshhh

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

I'm not saying dat Mona pushed Sweety...the heading maybe misleading, but my take is dat it wuld hv been better if Mona hadn't tried 2 play match-maker between d selfish nd petty Hetal nd d spineless Karan. As Anukalp nd also Ambaji says abt Mona dat parayi aag mein kudti hai. If seen frm another angle, thn Mona's character can be intertreted as interefering in other's personal matters, no matter how gud s intentions r.

BTW nobody in d show r blaming Mona. It's just my take.

Sumbody mentioned dat d Bedi family is weak, whereas d Gandhi family is strong. i totally disagree. Whn u stay in a joint family, der is bound 2 b differences nd differences of major proportion. This can lead 2 bitterness nd fights, but one has 2 conciously make an effort 2 overcome nd overlook such diffreences if dey r 2 stay together. The differences were obviously der evn b4 Hetal came, but every1 were living peacefully.It was Hetal who tried 2 highlight dem, instead of seeing d positive aspects, nd almost created a irreversible rift between Vimmy-Satnam nd Amrit-Gurnaam.

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reachanupama

@reachanupama

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: nigo123
It makes no sense for them to blame Mona. In fact they shouldnt even blame Sweety or Hetal because it was just a tragic accident. Hetal didnt intentionally push her. And sweety slipped and fell so it is not her fault either there her in laws shouldnt blame her.

As to Hetal making the bedi family members bitter towards eachother then i think their family base was weak from the beginning. I mean look at everything that happend in the Ghandi family, they are still very close and thick and Ambaji sensed when someone tried to break her family. How the bedi's already had the bitterness against eachother Hetal was just a catalyst. I mean Chaiji obviously feels somewhere that vimmy takes advantage of her and does nothing but talk so she told her that. Karan somewhere felt that Satnam used him and treated him bad.

In one sense Mona is lucky to have Ambaji because when she does something wrong she gets yelled at but when she does something right the whole family appreciates her. In bedi family apparently the new bahu has to be perfect while vimmy herself never came close to taking care of a family.

I disagree with you. Nobody expected Hetal to be a perfect bahu. Nobody ordered her to do anything. Nobody asked her to cook a full fledged Punjabi meal like Mona had been asked to . If Hetal could have just learnt to mind her own business, her tongue and her behaviors things could have been much better. Its not that every family is a perfect family. There is always something amiss somewhere. People do compromise and carry on. Having said that there was no need for Hetal to add fuel to the fire. She was the DIL of that house and the only 1 that too. Had she shown good attitude, they would have treated her like a queen. Her bad luck is all I can say.

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zeezee55

@zeezee55

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

By no stretch of your imagination can a person blame Mona for the circumstances that Sweety is in. Remember that Karan and Hetal did love each other and all Mona did was to bring the two together. As for carrying on with the relationship is totally in the hands of Karan and Hetal not Mona. Hetal is a great disappointment. She has proven to be uncooperative, jealous, vindictive and a liar, not to mention relationship wrecker. I don't like her character at all.

Having said that, I feel that it is wrong to blame Hetal 100 percent - she has to take some responsibility for the fall afterall she did struggle with Sweety - why did Hetal have to struggle to stop Sweety - forget the fall - forcefully holding her arms is tantamount to using force to stop Sweety from leaving - good intention but the way it was done is wrong.

But Sweety was also responsible - i think Sweety's behaviour is only a little better than Hetal. Sweety behaves like a spoilt brat - demanding this and that - like as if the world owes her everything just because she is pregnant. To leave the house over tea/sheera is ridiculous - the women are behaving like kids.

I did not see much but the episode i saw last - i thought Vimmy and Sweety were a little too much. They know Hetal is working all alone in the kitchen - vimmy calling out to Hetal for tea whilst Hetal is preparing the lunch is totally uncalled for - Knowing her sis-in-law was not there and knowing the domestic, Kalavati had gone to market to get some food item for the spoilt Sweety. Vimmy should have realised that Hetal was busy and come to the kitchen and made her own tea, even if she did not want to help Hetal in the cooking. Here i sympathise with Hetal. But Hetal is also wrong in getting worked up about it instead of trying to cope with the situation. At best, she could have told Vimmy, without whining (she does tend to whine), that she is finding it difficult to cope and whether she could help by preparing the tea herself. Or just quickly prepare the tea - all this is easily manageable if you know your way around the kitchen - I thought Hetal would be so trained in kitchen work by Ambaji who is a class act in this regard.

No i do not blame Hetal although she should be sorry - and she should apologise to Sweety (it is only courteous) and she should accept Sweety' anger and not get too worked up about it - it is understandable that Sweety would react negatively towards her - anyone would. But eventually, when the pain of loss reduces, Sweety will realise that Hetal was not to blame - it was sheer accident. besides as Vimmy said - it is god's wish - these are things one cannot answer - some women fall all over the place and nothing happens and then you get some women who just slip a little and the baby is lost!!

Poor Hetal. Poor Sweety.

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

How can Mona be blamed for Sweety losing baby?

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Riya

@princessonline

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+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#17

No logic will be able to make Mona the one to blame here. Mona didn't know Hetal was going to be Mrs. Jealous Queen when she got her married!

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pavelonmove

@pavelonmove

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

i know many of u wont agree but sweety's miscarriage was just an accident, hetal didn't push her down the stairs...i am not supporting hetal at all...she is a huge cribber and can never adjust, what she said about sweety just before the accident was outrageous, but u got to admit that she was trying to stop sweety from leaving, she didnt mean to harm her...she is partially responsible as it was because of all the mean things that she said that sweety decided to leave, but we can't overlook the fact that it was after all an accident!!!!

and blaming mona is just hilarious...nothing else!!!!

Edited by pavelonmove - 14 years ago

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v3gradev09

@v3gradev09

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#19

I feel Mona, was not responsible..as Karan is her brother who is shy and respectful; so she wanted to help him out a little bit.. it's Hetals behavior and immaturity; when she came into her new marriage house... is what caused all this incidents such as Sweety's Miscarriage.. as of there were also some person in the house which does not like hetal...

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