Originally posted by: tanthya
Krishna- Pratigya ..
It was my impression that this bond was quite strong and honest ..A error on my part..which I admit freely ..cos now I realize that this bond is tenuous ..both the partners are scared in rocking the boat and indulge in hiding things from one another ..Pratigya did it when She hid the Angad fiasco [ many members would say she did it at the behest of her father, but looking at it coldly, final call was her's] ..Krishna is doing it now by hiding his employment status ..Pratigya is doing it [again ] by not revealing the reason for the plain paper and envelope ..this despite the fact both this characters faced the resulting trauma when the truth blew up in their face..so why this secrecy ?? Is it bec both of them are scared ...scared of hurting their partners, scared of feeling rejected, scared of the negative reaction ..But aren't this characters supposed to be in love with all their flaws and warts exposed..so why this hesitancy to communicate ur thoughts .. will such an union [ where one is forced to hide things , thoughts and opinions] thrive for long ?? will such a marriage survive ....when the components of marriage are not measured by ground,real rules but are measured by idealistic, lofty thoughts ..How long since the boot begins to pinch and the affected partner begins to retaliate Such marriage can survive only when one Partner completely buries his own persona and willingly adopts and adapts to his/her partner's expectation's [ Krishna is doing it ]..but even then there will come a breaking point ...Will that breaking point come into Krisha-Pratigya's marriage ..I sincerely hope , It does.
very well written 👏 you've summed up everything...i think the major roadblock with pratigya n krishna is that none of them want to accept their partners as it is..with their strengths and weaknesses....pratigya loves krishna but her love cud not change him..it cud not change his ideology..yes she cud make him act against his parents but he did it just for pratigya, but frm inside his thinking never changed..he still thinks that therez nothing wrong with SS, his autocratic ways, illegal business etc. shakti trying to murder kesar etc. etc. bas pratigya doesn't like all this ! pratigya's love will triumph when she will be able to change krishna...but then in love u say that one should not try to change but accept the other person as it is, which pratigya is not ready to do ! i think pratiga is being very unreasonable with her demands regarding krishna's earnings....she'll have to accept the fact that she's married into thakur family and they're not gonna change their way of life for her ! Pratigya must let krishna help his father in business (whatever it is 😃 sorry but i dun have a clear idea what exactly it is..extortion? 😕).... i believe that realization must come from inside, no amount of lectures will make krishna understand pratigya's POV...
PS, i can't think of any job for krishna 😕 he's right tht he cannot work as a labourer now !
Edited by _charu_ - 14 years ago
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