Connecting Hearts !! - Page 4

lovely post tanthya as usual 😊 i am loving this new prats very much

Originally posted by: starlight123

Tanthya, this has nothing to do with Kriya but what were your thoughts on Komal's confession?

For someone who asks some sensitive questions about themselves and exposing themselves as being vulnerable and the only response you get is silence. Doesn't that lead you to have low self esteem and lack of confidence.

Why is Adarsh so cruel to Komal? His response to her was just pathetic and his behaviour seems to be the same without making any headway with the relationship.

I think she is the only one who wants her marriage to work, at the same time she also ahs her eyes wide open and is aware of her faults and is trying at some level to overcome it.

I think it is bec of her low self esteem she asks this question, the need for a constant reassurance from Adarsh that he will not dump her...

I would not say Adarsh is deliberately Cruel, Star...remember he is not a guy in love ..and Komal is not the type of girl who would appeal to him... .He is one confused Man..he knows that this relationship cannot be junked, he has a respect for the institution called Marriage yet he is not able to accept her whole heartedly ..at best he is polite and courteous and when she asks such sensitive and intimate question's ..he is flummoxed..he cant give tongue to his inner most thoughts .. and his innate decency does allow him to state the truth...so he chooses the next best option...AVOIDANCE !!

Originally posted by: telstra

lovely post tanthya as usual 😊 i am loving this new prats very much

Thank You , Nazia..

A bit more of her natural voice..we could love her even more !!

Originally posted by: tanthya

I think she is the only one who wants her marriage to work, at the same time she also ahs her eyes wide open and is aware of her faults and is trying at some level to overcome it.

I think it is bec of her low self esteem she asks this question, the need for a constant reassurance from Adarsh that he will not dump her...

I would not say Adarsh is deliberately Cruel, Star...remember he is not a guy in love ..and Komal is not the type of girl who would appeal to him... .He is one confused Man..he knows that this relationship cannot be junked, he has a respect for the institution called Marriage yet he is not able to accept her whole heartedly ..at best he is polite and courteous and when she asks such sensitive and intimate question's ..he is flummoxed..he cant give tongue to his inner most thoughts .. and his innate decency does allow him to state the truth...so he chooses the next best option...AVOIDANCE !!

Tanths, in my books and in my experience such men need a lesson to be taught. I dont like that he is continuously leading on his wife when he clearly is not attracted or seems least interested in her. To me she is as good as a punching bag where he can take his frustration out and expects her to listen without much response.

For me he is a weak man who is unable to take his responsibility and is still living in the past that he was a sacrificial lamb for his sister. His sister seems to have moved forward, so he needs to do the same. If he is unable to do so then he should dissolve the marriage.

Originally posted by: Filza.T

aww beautiful Tanthya! lovely post ⭐️ you understand these two better than anyone else.

it was a small KriYa moment yesterday but it did convey a few things.. i like this P who is calm and soft with him.. and her way of explaining and making him understand.. she has improved when it comes to dealing with K.. not that she understands him fully, she still has a long way to go.. but a beginning has been made.. and am liking this 😳

though there wasn't anything substantial in yesterday's KriYa scene, i loved the way they communicate.. it is a baby step but will further strengthen their bond.. i always felt the aspect of understanding was lacking in KriYa but the way they talk things out now suggests the relationship is progressing..

at the moment K might not be convinced from his heart as he himself stated he just agreed with her to make her happy but at least the process has started.. obviously it takes time for people to change their ways and lifestyle which they have been following for years.. now he wants to do it for her am sure tomorrow situations will compel him to understand his responsibilities and he will wake up to the challenge.. from P i expect her to be on his side providing support.. she has shunned her lecture style of talking, i hope she goes on like this.. in this journey their will be arguments, confrontation between them coz they are individuals with different ideologies but in the end, judging from the way they talk about matters now instead of putting them under the carpet like before, i am hoping they will solve their issues in a mature way..

i have to say this CVs have done a great job as far as KriYa as a couple is concerned, this couple is real, their arguments, their talks everything, one can relate to it..

but yes the character of P is not.. she is too idealistic.. i cannot connect to her thoughts and beliefs.. she needs a reality check as far as her sense of right, wrong, truth, falsehood is concerned.. K talked all sense, his words were harsh but he told the truth.. she needs to understand that too..

i at the moment am satisfied with KriYa.. their relationship did became stagnant during Aman track and i was frustrated at that time the way K was just blindly following her but i do not see anything like that now.. he argues, states his POV too.. she is more understanding now..

Thank You Filza...

Ur's was even lovlier..

I would say.. they are progressing in their journey of self and mutual discovery, there is a growing depth in their relationship ...and I have no complaints about them and their journey...I also like the fact that they are not leaving the fight unfinished and dangling... I am also liking that she seeks him out nowadays, is looking upto him..

I am 100% sahmathi with you..The urge to find the job is bec he wants to please Pratigya , but with Ss turning increasingly determined to bring him under control..I am sure Krishna will be left with no option but to have a serious go .


Krishna did not blindly follow Pratigya even during Aman track..the fact he takes out a GUn overriding Pratigya's opposition, the fact that he plans on chappal garland even after Pratigya expresses displeasure is proof enough that he still possessed and possesses a free will..The only missing thing is the lack of overt force /aggression behind his decision or proclamations...which again suggests that Krishna is maturing..he has not lost aggression ..but it is subtle and not overt..

Originally posted by: starlight123

Tanths, in my books and in my experience such men need a lesson to be taught. I dont like that he is continuously leading on his wife when he clearly is not attracted or seems least interested in her. To me she is as good as a punching bag where he can take his frustration out and expects her to listen without much response.

For me he is a weak man who is unable to take his responsibility and is still living in the past that he was a sacrificial lamb for his sister. His sister seems to have moved forward, so he needs to do the same. If he is unable to do so then he should dissolve the marriage.

What he needs is a jolt ..a huge jolt..JM gave him a big jolt and he got up from Tum Tum... Now if Komal is shown to be moving away from him or if someone comes in Komal's horizon..he will stir into action..He is that type who will not let go of his possession and move heaven and earth to regain his possession .


Star , except for Nainaji and Pratigya ..All are of weak Moral fibre ..they have high principles and believe in living up to it ..but The same principles will go for a toss when any calamity strikes ..Adarsh esp has always been shown to be weak...he is a guy who walks on the border and has the ability to use any crisis as the justification for his crime.

hi tanthya , beautiful post as usual,,,,👏

awwwwwwww!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by: tanthya

Thank You Filza...

Ur's was even lovlier..

I would say.. they are progressing in their journey of self and mutual discovery, there is a growing depth in their relationship ...and I have no complaints about them and their journey...I also like the fact that they are not leaving the fight unfinished and dangling... I am also liking that she seeks him out nowadays, is looking upto him..

exactly!! 👏 👏 👏

I am 100% sahmathi with you..The urge to find the job is bec he wants to please Pratigya , but with Ss turning increasingly determined to bring him under control..I am sure Krishna will be left with no option but to have a serious go .


Krishna did not blindly follow Pratigya even during Aman track..the fact he takes out a GUn overriding Pratigya's opposition, the fact that he plans on chappal garland even after Pratigya expresses displeasure is proof enough that he still possessed and possesses a free will..The only missing thing is the lack of overt force /aggression behind his decision or proclamations...which again suggests that Krishna is maturing..he has not lost aggression ..but it is subtle and not overt..

Originally posted by: kriyaconsumesme

Nice post Tanthya!!

I liked yesterday's Kriya scene...I think they are progressing in their relationship...i liked the fact that Pratigya didnt forget to tell Krishna that she is happy with the fact that he went out and did some work only because Prats asked him to...that she appreciated his efforts

She said "Aaj bhi log sachai ki pooja karte hai aur BURAI ko jalaya jata hai" she said BURAI not JUTH (as you have described in your post with a remark...I hope you dont mind me correcting it😊) and I personally dont think she expects Krishna to find a job like Adarsh and Prof...I think what she means by "sahi tarika" is something that does not invlove hurting other people or doing dundagiri

yesterday when Krishna said people are scared of dabaangai and if jook jao toh kamar tod di jati hai...well it might be true but that doesnt mean dabangai is the right way and also that doeant mean Prats was asking him to "jook jao in front of the world"....she meant the path in between...I dont think Prats is wrong this time...In fact I like this new Prats..the way she handles Krishna..

Yes..I liked it too..

Even before that , I liked the scene where Krishna realizes that Pratigya is behind him..half turns and controls himself and ignores her ....A beautifully done scene....and yes..Pratigya starting with approval is good ..But I did not like the fact that she brings other's into comparison....if we are to be honest..we will and can never find any honest and innocent business Men in today's world..they constantly bend rules or try to jump over it to achieve their goals... have a platoon of home grown goondas and SS and Shakthi are doing just that ...Had she made the comparison regards how they treat their women ..Then it could be understood ..but not this !!

I do not mind..Shreya ...I am not infallible..dear..Thanxx for giving the correct syntax....

Pratigya is not wrong in stating that don't choose the wrong path...but it would be better if she elucidates what is the right path ..and if u mean the sort of job where people don't get hurt...Then I would say ..People get hurt by prof's too ....remember the students who fail the exam's ..or the the loan applicant whose loan application is rejected ..This are trivial excuses..I know that..but what I am trying to say is..there is no such job where people dont get hurt..we are working amidst a society , our action will have effect whether we intend so or not...

Personally, I think Pratigya wants him to do a job which will earn him respect..but she is not specifying just what sort of job can an uneducated Man do that will get him respect..I am interested in knowing that...