Cvs! Kriya needs to seperate.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Cvs! It does not make sense about there relationship. It cannot go on like this. There is no love afterall. Krishna proved it by saying that he regrets marrying her. Nobody is happy. Let them seperate and give them compatible partners with whom they will have a chance to be happy.
They fight ,and then they make and they fight again. In real marraiges are not like this. Although it is fictional you are giving false information . In marraiges people talk about there problems and definitely after a big fight couples try to gigure out what went wrong and try to solve it. That is when a marraige is a healthy marraige.
Kriya marraige is a dysfunctional marraige where on partner gets angry really easily and the other stays quiet and ignores the situation. How is it going to work. Avoiding the situation makes it harder. In marraige sex,playing love games is all natural,but to a certain point. They need to talk .
I have seen and deal with lot of couples and through my personal experience in real life a couple like kriya has no hope for a sucessful marraige. The reason is she is a feminist who believes in justice and rights and Krishna is a person who goes with his mind and basically has no positive stance at anything. Prats might be disregarding his behavior and abuse for now because she is blindly in love with him .But when the cloud moves she will see the real Krshna and walk out . She will not tolerate the misbehave from either him or his family.
And knowing Krishna's history until he finds the truth in himself he will never shange.
This marraige in my pov would not survive in real world. And although it is a fiction ,you have a obligation to show what happens in real life. So it would be good if you seperated them and let them be happy with other people compatible and worthy of them.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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i agree with you on some parts but not all... not all dysfunctional marriage end in disaster. my sister has the biggest dysfunctional marriage. She and her husband fight like cat and dog. yet, in the end they remain together. Where did you get the idea fighting, make up, fighting, make up, doesnt happen in real life??? Yes, it does.

I agree on the note where you say that pratigya should walk out after the cloud moves over but, you also need to understand that she is in love with him. and he is in love with her, thus no matter what they WILL remain together. Because of 2 things that bind them together. Marriage and Love.

I disagree with you, when you say there is no love in the marriage. especially from krishna's side. I know what its like to have no love in a relationship. And what PK have is love, but it's been judged and humiliated so many times that Krishna has become fed up with the taunts on his manhood and everything.

No man will stand up against the world for a girl if he didnt love her. No man. If there was no love, Krishna would have never respected or treated pratigya as another individual rather than the other women in the household. believe me, there is no man.


Krishna. A man, who grew up in an environment where women were just objects who cook, provide pleasure and are punching bags, treats his wife as an individual who has feelings. Sure, he has his violent moments and insensitive moments. But look at the love and comfort he provides Pratigya with. In my opinion if that it isnt love then i guess my definition is wrong.

Love doesnt necessarily mean that it has to be peaceful. If your in love that doesnt mean that you lose your anger, or emotions.

But i agree with you when you say they should separate. But not yet, because Pratigya needs to understand Krishna a bit more, and Krishna needs to clear his illusion of a happy family. and see the true colours of his mother, father, and brother. (even the servant lol)


i hope i make sense lol...


no hard feelings,

aleeha
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: deadly-kiss

i agree with you on some parts but not all... not all dysfunctional marriage end in disaster. my sister has the biggest dysfunctional marriage. She and her husband fight like cat and dog. yet, in the end they remain together. Where did you get the idea fighting, make up, fighting, make up, doesnt happen in real life??? Yes, it does. I got this idea because I have personally talked with women on the verge of divorce and who went throgh divorce itself. Maybe it does in some situations when couple talk it out . But in this case this couple do not talk.


I agree on the note where you say that pratigya should walk out after the cloud moves over but, you also need to understand that she is in love with him. and he is in love with her, thus no matter what they WILL remain together. Because of 2 things that bind them together. Marriage and Love.
You think he loves her. Did you see today's epi? A person in love would let his mother verbelly abuse her all the time. Sit and accept the fact she called her a with (dayin ). Emotionally abusing her by asking the maid to fix the buttons in front of her. All this out of love. Wow some love.
I have seen many love marraiges crumble down when reality checks in .
I disagree with you, when you say there is no love in the marriage. especially from krishna's side. I know what its like to have no love in a relationship. And what PK have is love, but it's been judged and humiliated so many times that Krishna has become fed up with the taunts on his manhood and everything.
That is the reason why he said he regretted marrying her in front of the whole family .That is indeed love.
No man will stand up against the world for a girl if he didnt love her. No man. If there was no love, Krishna would have never respected or treated pratigya as another individual rather than the other women in the household. believe me, there is no man.
Krishna might have treated her nicely sometimes and the times he has protected her he di it because he knows he was the one responsible for her misery.

Krishna. A man, who grew up in an environment where women were just objects who cook, provide pleasure and are punching bags, treats his wife as an individual who has feelings. Sure, he has his violent moments and insensitive moments. But look at the love and comfort he provides Pratigya with. In my opinion if that it isnt love then i guess my definition is wrong.
Love doesnt necessarily mean that it has to be peaceful. If your in love that doesnt mean that you lose your anger, or emotions.

But i agree with you when you say they should separate. But not yet, because Pratigya needs to understand Krishna a bit more, and Krishna needs to clear his illusion of a happy family. and see the true colours of his mother, father, and brother. (even the servant lol)


i hope i make sense lol...


no hard feelings,

aleeha

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Posted: 14 years ago
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so true..it's so sad seeing them like that, i dont' even feel like watching the episodes 😭
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Posted: 14 years ago
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the real Krishna is yet to be revealed and that Krishna is much much better than what we are seeing today... i think than it would be actually more difficult for P to leave him when she sees that real Krishna..

(she cant even leave him now because she loves him.. this one reason is enough )

by real Krishna i mean what he naturally is and he is essentially a good person, he is nice at heart.. she will be the one who will bring out his true self.. K is a diamond, needs some polishing which she will do..


this is the only relationship on television that makes sense to me.. because it is real.. fights and than patch up do happen in real life.. all of this is a part of life..

and i dont think separation and finding different partners for themselves will make them happy.. not possible now.. they are irrevocably in love with each other, can never ever be happy with someone else..

marriage is not a joke nor is love a game.. marriage is a very sacred relationship.. and love, such a beautiful experience..

its not easy to break such strong bonds.. their life will be hell if they are permanently separated and made to find someone else..

Kriya have a long way to go.. and a very bright future..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Filza.T

the real Krishna is yet to be revealed and that Krishna is much much better than what we are seeing today... i think than it would be actually more difficult for P to leave him when she sees that real Krishna..


(she cant even leave him now because she loves him.. this one reason is enough )

by real Krishna i mean what he naturally is and he is essentially a good person, he is nice at heart.. she will be the one who will bring out his true self.. K is a diamond, needs some polishing which she will do..


this is the only relationship on television that makes sense to me.. because it is real.. fights and than patch up do happen in real life.. all of this is a part of life..

and i dont think separation and finding different partners for themselves will make them happy.. not possible now.. they are irrevocably in love with each other, can never ever be happy with someone else..

marriage is not a joke nor is love a game.. marriage is a very sacred relationship.. and love, such a beautiful experience..

its not easy to break such strong bonds.. their life will be hell if they are permanently separated and made to find someone else..

Kriya have a long way to go.. and a very bright future..



I agree... =D i dont think the TM got my point lol...

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