Why the insistence on IG Rishta ?

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Posted: 15 years ago

#51

generally speaking

anytime a damaad an over-indulgent over-obliging person is always taken for granted and treated like persona non-grata

it is the same think as saying unwanted or unsolicited advice is never valued

this is what is happening with Krishna

and his ongoing behaviour of dropping his stance on every issue to the point where he acts like he has no desire for self respect from his wife or inlaws is obviously understood and responded to as implied by them

Krishna and people like him are to blame for their own mistreatment and devaluation

so no sympathy there

when he starts showing his affront consistently and firmly (without buckling for sex) at being treated worse than an adopted child then he will get his message across

somehow I don't see that happening

It's funny at how Krishna's humiliation at having himself and his family treated as untouchables and sewer scum is being reported in articles and even shown in the tracks as "an error of his way that needs to be rectified with feminine charms and wiles"

has his over indulgence and over obliging "bend over backwards and smile like a goof ball attitude while you punch me in the guts with your aloofness, taunts and condescension" attitude given others the impression that he is an ADOPTED CHILD of the Singhs ? Wouldn't ANY NORMAL LOVING child react in EXACTLY THIS MANNER when their family is humiliated and treated as dirt?

why is his displeaure at this treatment so shockign to some and considered the error of his ways?

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Dreamygal301

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo
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See DG this is what annoys me about Shayam. Okay he doesn't like the Thakurs and doesn't mind complying with IG as deep down probabaly thats what he wants. But after all his bhashan to his daughter about being a good man show has been brought of in the wrong way has he once told the IG I'm can understand why you don't want SS but what is wrong with Krsihna. He is my SIL and he has no 'CRIMINAL RECORD' so you would not be compromising with your ethics so i will invite him. He has had first hand exp of Krishna standing up for him once when shakti was pointed the gun at him and second after the courtroom drama when Krishna wiped the coal from his face. Besides that he knows his daughter loves him so why the acceptance is not there. He could have invited Krishna and left it on him to decide whether he wants to com or not.

I agree especially the blue. Guruji should have lef the choice with K but off course as they never did consider K as one of them, in fact look upon him as a sub-human, they insulted him along with this family!....All that education and it looks like not an iota of common sense at all...😲

The way I look at it, the Saxs are punishing K and his family, they can now throw him aside like unwanted rubbish because they have Aman now. Well we shall see who comes to their rescue when they need help because I doubt the IG and his family will.....I really want to see a scene where the IG finds out guruji was in jail for murder...Saxs will see then very quickly realise their error....'old is gold' indeed, ever more apt is 'better the devil you know'....😉😆😆

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Ideally Pratigya shud say NO to her Dad and not go for Arushis marraige . She shud say , where my husband doesnt go ...I dont go .

she will not say no I think and the reason given will be that this is becasue Krishna does not understand her predicament, does not care for her - I mean wasn't he the same husband who said marrying her was a mistake? of course he does not care for her na?

my hubby has a saying, people's good graces are ficlkle. your only as good as your last mistake. all previous successes and wins count for naught in front of the one mistake you made.

Krishna's statment was right, his anger over the latest humiliation valid yet his reaction and statements in this regard were seen as his mistake and this will be held against him inspite of all the situations where success for pratigya was a reuslt of his support and intervention or compromise

tjhat;s the way the cookie crumbles

Edited by stillhopeful - 15 years ago

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damon_biteme

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Posted: 15 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: an_jaani

Yes im hoping he is true to his words when he said 'there is limit to tolerance and mine has reached its limit' but what am i saying all that will be forgotten with a few chummis

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Dreamygal301

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: Binny1247
Kools di

I can't believe the professor had the audacity to stand in the Tachurs house insult them by stating the condition and then ask them to allow only prats to attend the wedding because they had no other option !!!! Was he serious did he really think they would quietly sit their and listen to him especially after bluntly stating Krishna their daughters husband their SIL was of no importance his presence was unnecessary but they needed only prats to fulfill the marriage. I don't care about the Tachurs but what about Krishna they did not think twice before insulting him once again, I wonder how he will react when he learns they overlooked Jai's actions because he was Aman's little brother !! Prats needs to go up to her parents and refuse to attend the wedding without her husband. !!!

And about them not having any options because they were the daughters parents was nonsense, when accepting the condition was in their hands, they willingly gave in to an unacceptable condition knowing the problems it would cause between the families and now they are simply paying the price of their bad decision. Not only Arushi but Aman as well both have been awfully quiet lately are these the same individuals who never thought twice before interfering in to others problems, and now they can't seem to say much when the issue is concerning the rest of their lives !!

Hi Binny,

not only insulting Krishna, the Saxes have been very short sighted. In giving into the IG's demand, it sets the course for the future...the IG will make more demands and they will have to listen. But where will this 'not inviting the thakurs' stop?...Pratigya and Arushi are sisters, there will be manty functions where both sisters will need to attend...does that mean Krishna never goes to any? As you said this is showing K is not important to them at all.....also there is a message here given by the Saxes, showing a girl's parent are in a weak position when it comes to marraiges, that they should give into demands from the grooms side - not the case at all.

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: an_jaani
i think it's the best thing that krishna wasn't invited.....this is a much needed wakeup call for krishna .....up till now this treatment of krishna was always shown but now saxsenas put it in words

sad thing is krishna had given more importance to sucksena than he did to his own family...

n deep down i feel that this new krishna would disappoint us big time.....he has become a wimp..🤢.....

Krishna WILL NEVER GET A WAKE UP CALL. he will buckle on monday. I am sure. the show is based on certain strategies.

one of the most important strategies is that Krishna can never be angry at Pratigya or deny her anything. It is part of the reformation strategy

his continued anger and affront is damaging for TRPs as only his adorable side is marketable so CVs will not show it.

he will succumb next week.

it may be because of a sad look or amma's taunts of wifey or the success of feminine charms

who knows??

Krishna has had MANY MANY WAKE UP CALLS where Pratigya and Saxenas are concerned. he has let all the opportunities for addressal, action or rectification go

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damon_biteme

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Posted: 15 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

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rightchoice

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Posted: 15 years ago

#58

Not inviting someone is one thing, but going and NOT inviting someone is some what questionable if Shayamji is in his right senses.

Ok, that is also somewhat understandable that he himself want to explain his MAJBHOORI, as he thinks.

But at the same level he extends the invitation to his daughter only...so the question pops to my mind....

1. Does the professor think that Pratigya is still not part of Thakurs? ...His action shows his mindset.

2. Does professor thinks that IG will allow only Pratigya KRISHNA SINGH THAKUR? doesn't he have to obey IG condition there?

3. Will he agree to similar condition if Thakur asks Komal to NOT attend the wedding, because per Shyamji's standard Komal is still KOMAL SINGH THAKUR...? - Well, Shyamji will be more happy to send back Komal I guess.

I think Pratigya will put it on Krishna to decide if she wants to go....(so that no one can blame her but also gets to attend the wedding...) and Krishna will HAPPILY DRIVE her to the wedding and wait OUTSIDE the mandap till the wedding ceremony is over.

In my opinion Krishna should never step inside Shyamji's house...ever...!!!

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

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pallai

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Posted: 15 years ago

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True... i usually feel thakurain is devilish but today i agree with what ever she told in precap.. because any sane/respected person will never go back to a place he is not invited..first of all with what guts did shamu go there when last time his face was blackened. and on the top of it he is saying u dnt come but send pratigya this is height of stupidness.

also he kept on saying "app Ka kaam" . if he feels that SS is not doing honorable work then on what courage does he leave his beloved daughter there? if he himself thinks SS is a criminal will any father leave their daughter there?? his family ( esp dadi ) keep on saying "mujhe pratigya ki fikar ho rahi hai" ..dunno wat those guys will do to her... what kind of family will leave their daughter in such danger and just keep on talking about it... does it make any sense?

if he really that progressive kind he wld have first of all never allowed his daughter to get married to krishna ( knowing their occupation ) and then after marriage when so much had happened who have taken his daughter back.. its not like they are so poor that they cannot feed prats.

rathe he kept on throwing SS work on his face.. the same work on which his daughter eats there everyday...