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Posted: 14 years ago
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First of all, big time kudos to you Dye for another superbly written post! You are brilliant at putting in the time and dedication to pen the thoughts of so many of us with so much eloquance - dil khus kardiya beta - jiyo!👏👍🏼🤗
What do they say about no pain no gain? I think that is exactly what our pyaara dulaara Baba has been enduring for some time now, a sort of prolonged nagging pain which appears to be coming to a peak.
However I think Baba will disappoint before he rectifies his erroneous ways and finally makes those very difficult choices he knows full well he must address. It's like he has to lose what it is he holds precious before he will be able to understand what he ought to have done to safeguard and protect what he holds most dear which of course is ultimately Pratigya.
Like you I'm a definite Krishna fan and cant stand to see him beaten back and tired by the daily soap opera his life has become - yaar, anyone in his situation would be fed up. But going against your entire family, turning your back on your loved ones, dumping them for the one you love will no longer be so easy for Krishna because as you rightly identified this isinot the same cock-sure "assured of his family love" Krishna - this Krishna knows his family hate Pratigya and if he chooses her to their detriment ultimately he will to face that same hate.
Even if he does forsake his family for his love, Pratigya should be prepared to have that thrown in her face - but she should persevere because her rough cut diamond of a husband will, with her love, patience and understanding, become the Kohinoor we all want him to be.
I digress where you never do - well done again Dye!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: HardyBoy

Why make excuses for her , where she is following rules ofThakur women , she doesnt take pallu on head like them , goes to maayka whenever she pleases , files police complaints etc all this she does , only in doing job why she becomes a Thakur woman sorry I dont see logic
She is much more educated than Krishna why not do job and become the man in the family mebbe that will make him less morally sust dontchya think so

I think youre jumping ahead.
There is no incentive for either Krishna or Partigya to work at present. The fact that Pratigya is educated here is a red herring - going out to work would be yet another conflict in her marital life - for what achievement?
I dont thisnk by working somehow she is abouit to "shame" Krishna into thinking he ought to be doing the same - the subtlety would be lost on him entirely and he would simply be offended as would his family and they in turn would lambast her. Result? more bloody trouble for no reason - its not like she has a mortgage to pay!
But put Kriya outside of the Thankur Niwas inthier own place then yes - she can and should work
Curing Krishna of hi moral sussty will take Pratigya's love patience and understanding - these qualities can work wonders on anyone.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Madmadgirl

First of all, big time kudos to you Dye for another superbly written post! You are brilliant at putting in the time and dedication to pen the thoughts of so many of us with so much eloquance - dil khus kardiya beta - jiyo!👏👍🏼🤗

What do they say about no pain no gain? I think that is exactly what our pyaara dulaara Baba has been enduring for some time now, a sort of prolonged nagging pain which appears to be coming to a peak.
However I think Baba will disappoint before he rectifies his erroneous ways and finally makes those very difficult choices he knows full well he must address. It's like he has to lose what it is he holds precious before he will be able to understand what he ought to have done to safeguard and protect what he holds most dear which of course is ultimately Pratigya.
Like you I'm a definite Krishna fan and cant stand to see him beaten back and tired by the daily soap opera his life has become - yaar, anyone in his situation would be fed up. But going against your entire family, turning your back on your loved ones, dumping them for the one you love will no longer be so easy for Krishna because as you rightly identified this isinot the same cock-sure "assured of his family love" Krishna - this Krishna knows his family hate Pratigya and if he chooses her to their detriment ultimately he will to face that same hate.
Even if he does forsake his family for his love, Pratigya should be prepared to have that thrown in her face - but she should persevere because her rough cut diamond of a husband will, with her love, patience and understanding, become the Kohinoor we all want him to be.
I digress where you never do - well done again Dye!




MMG, you are too kind! many thanks!

@ Bold - I differ slightly in my take. I don't think it is as simply as forsaking a few people. Frankly, the people are just symbols in this particular case. What Krishna needs to reject is a system, an ideology, a way of life, and I think it is because of this that he is balking at the task. Also this rejection, imo has got to come not because he wants P but because he has not choice left morally.
I would always love to see love between Kriya, but as a K fan, I'd like to see him grow under his own steam. I don't want to see him dragged along each stage of moral groW*H by Pratigya. It may speak well for P's strenght and love, but I feel that will take away from his character.
Yes, maybe I expect too much, but I REALLY love Krishna, what to do?😊


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: serialmaniac

BRILLIANT OBSERVATION 👏



Thank you! 😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Madmadgirl

I think youre jumping ahead.
There is no incentive for either Krishna or Partigya to work at present. The fact that Pratigya is educated here is a red herring - going out to work would be yet another conflict in her marital life - for what achievement?
I dont thisnk by working somehow she is abouit to "shame" Krishna into thinking he ought to be doing the same - the subtlety would be lost on him entirely and he would simply be offended as would his family and they in turn would lambast her. Result? more bloody trouble for no reason - its not like she has a mortgage to pay!
But put Kriya outside of the Thankur Niwas inthier own place then yes - she can and should work
Curing Krishna of hi moral sussty will take Pratigya's love patience and understanding - these qualities can work wonders on anyone.



Well said, MMG. I agree entirely!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Dye.........🤗
im back after sometime........😆
loved ur post........👏👏👏
but the only thing i find surprising was why do pratz has to leave krish?
is it really imp that a person realises the imp of someone in his life only after losing him/her?/ if thats the case then he learnt that lesson way before when partz went to her maike aster that fake-pregnancy track.....
i think krish needs a confrontation with the man in him....he has to tune in his heart n mind n his soul in one frequency........that he will surely do n pratz will be the one giving him the helping hand this time........😊
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for taking out time to write so good.........😛
for u ....

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mushirox

Dye.........🤗

im back after sometime........😆
loved ur post........👏👏👏
but the only thing i find surprising was why do pratz has to leave krish?
is it really imp that a person realises the imp of someone in his life only after losing him/her?/ if thats the case then he learnt that lesson way before when partz went to her maike aster that fake-pregnancy track.....
i think krish needs a confrontation with the man in him....he has to tune in his heart n mind n his soul in one frequency........that he will surely do n pratz will be the one giving him the helping hand this time........😊
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for taking out time to write so good.........😛
for u ....



Mushi! Thanks you sweetthing! 🤗🤗🤗 What a lovely set of bouquets!
Why does P need to leave? He has started to feel as if he has taken on more than he can chew. He is thinking that he has complicated a simply life because of her. He thinks that his problems have been caused by her nature and strong values.
But the question is this - If you take P out of the equation, if he does not have to consider her, then is he happy with his family? Does he approve of their ways? If they are alright with him is he willing to turn his face again from their evil ways and just be happy himself? So for him is it about right and wrong or only about P and his family?
If it is only about P then he can never fully change. if he changes only for her, he will for ever blame her and put the full responsibility of his life on her. i feel no human being should be responsible for anothers morality. To each his own. She can help him if he asks for her help, but she cannot, SHOULD NOT drag him against his will.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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well-said dye.........👏
he will see the real man in him soon...........i believe so.......😆 n u also do i know that.......😛 so coming tracks will be interesting........i really wanna see krish making efforts for himself this time......😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mushirox

well-said dye.........👏

he will see the real man in him soon...........i believe so.......😆 n u also do i know that.......😛 so coming tracks will be interesting........i really wanna see krish making efforts for himself this time......😃



Thanks Mushi!😃 And Aameen Aameen Aameen! I hope your words come true!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dyehard



Mushi! Thanks you sweetthing! 🤗🤗🤗 What a lovely set of bouquets!
Why does P need to leave? He has started to feel as if he has taken on more than he can chew. He is thinking that he has complicated a simply life because of her. He thinks that his problems have been caused by her nature and strong values.
But the question is this - If you take P out of the equation, if he does not have to consider her, then is he happy with his family? Does he approve of their ways? If they are alright with him is he willing to turn his face again from their evil ways and just be happy himself? So for him is it about right and wrong or only about P and his family?
If it is only about P then he can never fully change. if he changes only for her, he will for ever blame her and put the full responsibility of his life on her. i feel no human being should be responsible for anothers morality. To each his own. She can help him if he asks for her help, but she cannot, SHOULD NOT drag him against his will.


Underlined. I am so impressed by your thought process. This is exactly what I mean. he has been supporting her all this time against his family for the only reason and it is for her safety and protecting. He does not necessarily bebieve in her values or principles. he needs to figure it out himself on his own without anyone 's influence. And on the hand Prats needs to be independent and working. She is not his babysitter.

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