What is wrong with Krishna Singh? Will he recover? - Page 4

Mushi! Thanks you sweetthing! 🤗🤗🤗 What a lovely set of bouquets!
Why does P need to leave? He has started to feel as if he has taken on more than he can chew. He is thinking that he has complicated a simply life because of her. He thinks that his problems have been caused by her nature and strong values.
But the question is this - If you take P out of the equation, if he does not have to consider her, then is he happy with his family? Does he approve of their ways? If they are alright with him is he willing to turn his face again from their evil ways and just be happy himself? So for him is it about right and wrong or only about P and his family?
If it is only about P then he can never fully change. if he changes only for her, he will for ever blame her and put the full responsibility of his life on her. i feel no human being should be responsible for anothers morality. To each his own. She can help him if he asks for her help, but she cannot, SHOULD NOT drag him against his will.

Underlined. I am so impressed by your thought process. This is exactly what I mean. he has been supporting her all this time against his family for the only reason and it is for her safety and protecting. He does not necessarily bebieve in her values or principles. he needs to figure it out himself on his own without anyone 's influence. And on the hand Prats needs to be independent and working. She is not his babysitter.

Exactly Anu. If krishna cannot be her equal, or does not want to be, then their is no real marriage in the first place to protect. She is not, should not, be his baby-sitter.
Now after today's episode, Krishna exposed his deeeep sense of inadequacy. He is so mortified and hurt that he has nothing to offer pratigya but be-izzatti and mortification of being associated with his family. But he can feel sorry for himself only for so long. If he wants to be a husband she respects and admires - he has only one option - to become that husband! It is an old cliche that respect ahs to be earned and not demanded. He can't any longer push her around, blame her for his sense of inadequacy. At some point he HAS to understand that hers is a very very very unhappy situation too, and she is trying to deal with it with the best grace she can muster.

Originally posted by: Dyehard

Mushi! Thanks you sweetthing! 🤗🤗🤗 What a lovely set of bouquets!
Why does P need to leave? He has started to feel as if he has taken on more than he can chew. He is thinking that he has complicated a simply life because of her. He thinks that his problems have been caused by her nature and strong values.
But the question is this - If you take P out of the equation, if he does not have to consider her, then is he happy with his family? Does he approve of their ways? If they are alright with him is he willing to turn his face again from their evil ways and just be happy himself? So for him is it about right and wrong or only about P and his family?
If it is only about P then he can never fully change. if he changes only for her, he will for ever blame her and put the full responsibility of his life on her. i feel no human being should be responsible for anothers morality. To each his own. She can help him if he asks for her help, but she cannot, SHOULD NOT drag him against his will.

Underlined. I am so impressed by your thought process. This is exactly what I mean. he has been supporting her all this time against his family for the only reason and it is for her safety and protecting. He does not necessarily bebieve in her values or principles. he needs to figure it out himself on his own without anyone 's influence. And on the hand Prats needs to be independent and working. She is not his babysitter.

Exactly Anu. If krishna cannot be her equal, or does not want to be, then their is no real marriage in the first place to protect. She is not, should not, be his baby-sitter.
Now after today's episode, Krishna exposed his deeeep sense of inadequacy. He is so mortified and hurt that he has nothing to offer pratigya but be-izzatti and mortification of being associated with his family. But he can feel sorry for himself only for so long. If he wants to be a husband she respects and admires - he has only one option - to become that husband! It is an old cliche that respect ahs to be earned and not demanded. He can't any longer push her around, blame her for his sense of inadequacy. At some point he HAS to understand that hers is a very very very unhappy situation too, and she is trying to deal with it with the best grace she can muster.
I am so disappointed the way he treated her today . He pushed her down agressively. I have opened another thread regarding by views. He completely has no control over his anger. That is a sign of a weak person. You are right he has nothing to offer her and so he tries to overpower the situation with his anger and outburst. After all this can you imagine Prats will still stay in the very house with him .Violence never stops. I so want her to move out and start working.

To Dyeharad and Anusarkar

Originally posted by: suk4

To Dyeharad and Anusarkar

You guys are awesome, the way u can analyze these characters, hats off to you!

I am also a huge Krishna and Pratigya fan and i've been waiting for this sort of track to come up so they can clear the air between them, and stop sweeping all the dirt under the carpet.

Hopefully things will pan out as u have imagined and we'll get to see a more honest relationship between the 2 of them.

I love the cute Kriya scenes but we all know that a 'chumi' here and a 'pappi' there doesn't make a marriage work. The longer we keep emotions bottled up the more the resentment builds up inside us until it eventually boils over. so i'm glad this situation has arisen so that we can hopefully see kriya resolve their differences and move forward with a positive approach.

They both need to grow up and face the realities in life, marriage isn't a bed of roses, they will have to open their eyes to the hypocrisy shown by their families and make a decision as to how they will tackle their problems together.

Violence is never the answer as K will find out, we know P won't stand for it. Once a man starts intimidating his wife like that he will never stop. I've seen it in my own family where someone close to me was constantly beaten by her husband, then he'd cry and apologise, say it would never happen again, etc until she was forced to leave him. He's now on wife number 3 and still at it. We saw K push P but hopefully it won't get any worse than that, cos what does it solve?

Yes he's angry and upset but it's out of P's hands, he should confront her dad and tackle the issue. P will also have to learn to see things from his perspective and support him when he's right.

We'll have to wait and see what happens but it better be good!

Once again thanks for you posts.

K

Suk,
thank you for a very well wriiten post, I am very sorry that I did nor respond in time, because I particularly wanted to, but it slipped my mind.

I have highlighted all the points that i find particularly important to make at this point.
Up to this point K has been living in a delusional world where he has somehow convinced himself that his bauji is a very large-hearted person with a gruff exterior.That he is a man of great honour and pride. He has begun to question his beliefs by does not have the courage to really face them head-on. Prat has never tried to make him face the truth fully. I think she can't bring herself to be so cruel and also suspects (correctly) that he will never hear the truth from her lips.
Till Krishna can himself see the truth about his family, their true values, and his upbringing he will always try to make P the scapegoat for his frustrations every now and then. I only hope that he does not resort to anymore violence and he keeps a firm check on his unreasonableness from now on. As you rightly pointed out, he ought to know that the invitation is not a matter for P to decide, she is as powerless as him (and more to be pitied than him!) in that matter. So how can he expect her to make things right as if she was a magician? His childish churlishness is quite annoying.
However like you I hope that we are seeing the worst of Krishna Thakur's behaviour and that it is always darkest before dawn!😃

Sometimes I wonder if the actors themselves have such an indepth grasp of their own characters?

Originally posted by: lovestea

Fantastic post! Illuminating look into the workings of krishna

Sometimes I wonder if the actors themselves have such an indepth grasp of their own characters?

The analysis on this forum always rocks! 👏⭐️

I agree that some knows the gist of the story so well, understand each and every character so well, Their posts reflect merit regardless of liking or disliking a character and Dyehard 🤗 is one such person on this forum. Her posts are not only enlightening but insightful and trust-able to read. I never felt lack of common sense in her posts, that is so glaringly missing in so many other posts by some, basically marred by senseless bias including mines ! 😃

Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC

I agree that some knows the gist of the story so well, understand each and every character so well, Their posts reflect merit regardless of liking or disliking a character and Dyehard 🤗 is one such person on this forum. Her posts are not only enlightening but insightful and trust-able to read. I never felt lack of common sense in her posts, that is so glaringly missing in so many other posts by some, basically marred by senseless bias including mines ! 😃