Originally posted by: MERARAI
DG I liked your post. I do agree the through out the marriage Prats had the upper hand. She had made decision single handedly never made too much effort to involve her partner into her grand plans. And as you say he is an outcast in his own family.
The unfortunate thing is he has a wife who seems to be his world just doesn't agree with his family ways of running their house. It is disturbing the existing order of the house. All this is having a detrimental effect on Krishna. It is making him insecure. All this has already is cost him his family's support and if they continue to live there it will put a strain on their marraige. Although it will actually test prats love for Baba but I have feeling it will Baba's loss in the end as i have always felt he has a stronger need for her than she has for him
KC...did u mean this post?..... I agree with you word for word!😊
Krishna is the one who is losing out because of Pratigya's actions. He is on the verge of losing his family, because of her refusal to even see their POV on anything, he is on shaky grounds regarding his future security, he feels isolated and so on. I think P loves him, provided he does listen to her and does what she wants, becuase she knows he doesn't like all the fighting and arguments in the home....just to get some peace he will do it.....I felt really bad when he drank that water and she stood mute....when u love someone, you would have struck that thali of his hands b4 his lips could even touch the rim...
At the moment his feelings are stronger than hers. It is because he has totally accepted P - with all her warts and peculiarities and quirks. He has respect for her and for their love, he will bow down in front of it. But she hasn't fully accepted him as he is nor has respect for their love as fully as he has. She may not know it but she wants him to change, going towards maybe what her ideal vision of a her husband should be.
I hope I am proven wrong about P's love and devotion, I would love to see her as mad about him as he is for her.😊
Let's make a chain. Dreamy I agree with your post word for word. Esp. the underlined part.
Let me add that when she accused Krishna of loving her to prove it to himself there was some projecting there. I am yet to see her stand up for his self respect other than saying you go through so much bec' of me..........it's all about her in her mind. He dared to love her and he has to pay for it in a way.
She has had opportunities to stand up for him but she hasn't to this day.
She has to pick up a few clues and right her ways as much as he has to learn to do things differently.
Mera, dear....lets do the chain and dance in it.
I agree especially the underline. When SS pushed Krishna towards the door the other day and it ended there...I saw P move a bit and I honestly thought that tomorrow we will see her either holding K's arm, as a form of support, or she will say something to SS.....I even put it down in one of the post, hoping she will do or say something.....
The thing is she speaks for practically everyone, butts into everything and yet she never ever speaks up for her husband, when his family rips him apart in front of her. That is the time she should say something. Does she not understand, how it tears him apart to know his wife is witnessing him being treated like a dog?.
He speaks up, even when not included...recall any scenes at with her family when he is around...the other day after they came back from the hospital he spoke to Aman like a proper SIL of that house.....yet P has never spoken to her in-laws like DIL, even the days after her marriage....This is because K has accepted her and her family as his maybe even more dearer to him than his own.
I am more interested in seeing whether she will stand up for him in front of her family. the day she does that, I will believe she is really in love...that will be the true test. In her eyes her family is the best, they are always right and everyone must come upto their measure....so if she defends K that means she thinks he is their equal...
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