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Posted: 14 years ago

lol im no lawyer Mera, i dont have evidence!

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: adilmomin786

lol im no lawyer Mera, i dont have evidence!



Okay, explain why you think you are trapped and who trapped you in layman's terms. Bolbo!
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Posted: 14 years ago

You boht na chanceless....eldest n the youngest among in our gang..MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMm

Adil y not reading Mera's posts? n esp not taking quiz?
very baddd!!
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: HamiSky

You boht na chanceless....eldest n the youngest among in our gang..MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMm

Adil y not reading Mera's posts? n esp not taking quiz?
very baddd!!



You ask him Hami. Good for you. What gang? I thought it was just us three devis.😃

What can I do my background makes me ask questions.

He won't read posts, take quiz or answer questions so how am I trapping him. Simple question,na?😃 You calling me elder now😛😲? I am no where near Ganti Dadi's age, more Nainaji's age I think.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: MERARAI



You ask him Hami. Good for you. What gang? I thought it was just us three devis.😃

What can I do my background makes me ask questions.

He won't read posts, take quiz or answer questions so how am I trapping him. Simple question,na?😃 You calling me elder now😛😲? I am no where near Ganti Dadi's age, more Nainaji's age I think.

Tridevis that we 3
but tea time chat gang u dont wanna include Adil??? :-))))))))))
Naina's age? nooooooooooooo may be my bhabhi's age!!
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

@bold....if you are talking about how the marriage came about, his stubborness in bringing Pratigya to his home, then yes he has to accept that it was a result of his own action.
However, becoming the casualty in the 'war' between Thakur v Pratigya, wasn't self inflicted.....the tug and pull strained him first one way then the other.....He was clear sighted enough to realise that P would be all alone, and because of his own action he had a duty to her.....but he became the casualty/victim when the cycle continued again and again...... P isn't stupid and saw that he would support her....so she quietly did what she felt was right, without once considering anyone's POV or how difficult life is for her husband...because she wanted to teach them all a lesson, explicitly or implicitly, in her arrogance she didn't care......
...and I see this continuing to this day, even though love is now an added factor, her arrogance tempered but the conditioning remains.....Eg: her declining the invitation without talking to K or her taking Kesar to the doctor when she talked about money to K or even discussing it beforehand with him........ Her will to do her own way is strong, often going at full speed.....I would say beside not understanding his POV about keeping family matters within the family, she still has not understood what it really means to love, to consider another above one's own desires and wishes.....
I will briefly touch on the precap.....her words to him is the logical conclusion now...his actions suited to his character....but he is still the victim because the changes he has to undergo is thrust on him, he did not yet arrive at this at his own resolution (just like any other victims out there)....So to use War terms, He is paying for the deconstruction she did of his family.....Now he will have to reconstruct something for their future....



DG one line that struck me here is
understood what it really means to love. I wrote a post in reply to your previous post iand added my comments to Tanths comment about the way she interacts with Baba. Read it and let me know what u think. U say she is in love with him but why don't i get the feel. The fact that she continues to be haughty and arrogant with very little consideration as to what critical position she is putting her husband with all her actions. Does she treat him as her equal or someone beneath her. I always get this feeling or it could be just me
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Posted: 14 years ago

KC,

I dont think so..she loves him with all her heart..she is very much in love..no doubt on that.
But being jsut goody goody is not goin to do anything..n husband wife realtionship doesnt work that way..... in fact as Tanth pointed out she has kept her feeling withing strictures so that she doesnt hurt him or he doesnt feel low..
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: tanthya

Even I feel the same way ,Mera...silence will penetrate faster ..and from 2 days running he has said no bhashan....so he will not put up with it...silent and distant that is the most effective treatment



I agree with you people...silent treatment would be the most effective treatment!!...Baba will have to do something about it then!!...😛
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: MERARAI



That has been one of the biggest problem. Fault of the paarents not imparting discipline in him. He has been allowed to get away with anything. All they have done is pamper him and spoilt him. Yes all the Katra Naresh's is totally inhuman but he was given some limtations unlike Baba who was allowed to run riot. Luckly he has a good heart which stopped him from being a monster

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