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Posted: 14 years ago

#281

Originally posted by: adilmomin786
Yes cant wait !! I need another vacation !! 😊

quite natural...all the crazy studying,sadistic Profs, Aggravating Chinese GM...and the loving attention's from the law must have taken its toll....

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damon_biteme

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Posted: 14 years ago

#282

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301
@Sathya

She is putting him first at the cost of her own views..I am not saying she is wrong and let me hasten to say that Krishna is not putting any undue pressure..he coaxes her and she relents .. or she just stops herself from saying things which will hurt him ...such bottling up is not good . Tanths this fact has always bothered him. After the friendship track till friday everytime they had an argument she either says okay lets forget it or just keeps quiet and it literally bothers me. It seems she just give up which is totally against her character. From my POV her justification to herself cld only be: there is no point arguing with him he will not listen and then she does to do exactly opposite of what Baba is expecting. She didn't give up because she is not scared of him or afraid of hurting him as she has done that million times in the past. We tend to give up on discussing with anyone when we don't care they think and are not ready to listen to their POV. We usually gear the convo to a safer zone something u don't strongly feel about he was gradually this will lead to resentment and alienation...and bickering's and temper tantrums...and fights ..

I liked the precap y'day for this very reason..Pratigya did not stop herself..she stated what was in her mind....she let him know what she was thinking...this will help the relationship...now that Krishna is aware of her inner feelings....he will try to change the perception she has about him..

The reason I asked the Q was because to my way of looking at things, I see Krishna as the one who has kept quiet and let her do as she pleased.......I am not talking about the precap or the last few weeks or that he should be working and etc, everyone is talking about it but I want to talk about something else....... I am actually talking about their marriage and what I saw.....We know how the marriage came about......she was full of anger and hatred...did not mesh with his family or try...attitude was defiant from day one...

...... From day one/two.. he told her ' you just take care of yourself, no need to do anything or take care of anyone..execept me if you want'.......He also told her do not interefer in other's private matters, which she never listened to. This was an important rule of the Thakur Niwas.......She went against the head of the household, I never once saw her trying to see her in-laws POV in the early days......a new bride in a new h/h will try to learn how that house is run, get the lay of the land.....

Krishna kept quiet, and supported her......even when it went against his own natural inclination.... In fact he did that deliberately, we know to hopefully earn her love and show her he is the one for her......This was against his own wish and desire of how his wife should be, his own dreams repressed..........she put her own family over his...........during the court case lead on, we saw how he was tormented by his family but he still kept quiet....towards the end his own temper was fraying.......

Today she loves him so has kept quiet on few things and yet when it matters, she still does as she pleases...think back to the FIR incident...(I am not talking about the right or wrong of it)......he paid the price, drinking the feet-washed water...... we saw his temper broken........when he told her the other day something like 'why didn't u ask me at least once'...when she told him about the grooms family coming to see A..........that is the endemic result of her previous actions ( after their marriage) that is coming to the fore now.....

The more I think about their history, after their marriage, I think she actually enervated him for a long while..........what we saw in the precap may be the first step towards his rejuvenation aided by her now.....because of her actions ,which has lead to Krishna being an outcast in his own home, this is the only route now....my personal hope is they remain where they are, for various reasons😉.

In fact, I would say Krishna is the victim, the casulty between the Thakurs v Pratigya war....

DG I liked your post. I do agree the through out the marriage Prats had the upper hand. She had made decision single handedly never made too much effort to involve her partner into her grand plans. And as you say he is an outcast in his own family.
The unfortunate thing is he has a wife who seems to be his world just doesn't agree with his family ways of running their house. It is disturbing the existing order of the house. All this is having a detrimental effect on Krishna. It is making him insecure. All this has already is cost him his family's support and if they continue to live there it will put a strain on their marraige. Although it will actually test prats love for Baba but I have feeling it will Baba's loss in the end as i have always felt he has a stronger need for her than she has for him

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Adil

@adilmomin786

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Posted: 14 years ago

#283

Bye Tanthya! See you Monday morning! =)

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MERARAI

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Posted: 14 years ago

#284

Originally posted by: tanthya

quite natural...all the crazy studying,sadistic Profs, Aggravating Chinese GM...and the loving attention's from the law must have taken its toll....

He just pretends they are annoying but he likes it. He is in class using his laptop like he is on vacation on a beach somewhere anyways.

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Adil

@adilmomin786

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Posted: 14 years ago

#285

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Mera, I study a lot! in class i dont, but out of class, i do.

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MERARAI

@MERARAI

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Posted: 14 years ago

#286

Originally posted by: adilmomin786
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Mera, I study a lot! in class i dont, but out of class, i do.

Then why the C s and not Bs or As? It's not how much you study but what you retain na?

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Adil

@adilmomin786

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Posted: 14 years ago

#287

Oh lol, that was a quiz...exams i make As and Bs, and by the end of semester I get out of the class with As! some assignments i get lazy on. im no machine! MerA! lol

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damon_biteme

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Posted: 14 years ago

#288

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Prats acts like a lady with a bee in her bonnet more often than not. She wanted to get Takurain off Kesar's back and a germ of an idea came and she ran with it.

She told Krishna she is concerned about Papa and his capacity to handle upcoming bills. So who else has the money to pay the bills. It's a faux pas on POPs part with that . Also we never knew Prats knew a doctor Swathi. Is she the one who Prats has seen over the years and is she about to come into the picture in case Arushi is violated by KN or Prats is preggies. That's the last thing she needs in her life right now. She has a helpless jetani she wants to stand up and fight. She has an unemployed husband who is pretending life is riding on his bauji's coattails. So a baby now will only complicate matters. Is Prats using protection to avoid pregnancy or is she so sure it won't happen unless she decides it does.😲

Prats being preggie doesn't depend on Baba's ability to strike 😉but on the cvs. When they feel the drama is loosing its TRP's bang Baba hits bullseye and then even if Prats was using some kind of protection accidents happen. Why do I see SS dancing and lifting his dhoti ' Aaye Amma hum Dada bananey wale hain😉

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MERARAI

@MERARAI

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Posted: 14 years ago

#289

Originally posted by: adilmomin786
Oh lol, that was a quiz...exams i make As and Bs, and by the end of semester I get out of the class with As! some assignments i get lazy on. im no machine! MerA! lol

Good keep up the grades. Did you get to see the emotional atyachar thread by carisma2? It's hilarious, check it out. She has done a few ones before but the one today was a twist of this week's episode.

I am curious about Gaurav Mathur. Angry young dude who has a cynical way about him and has tensionya with his bauji who gives him the silent treatment. Another dysfuncitonal family.

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MERARAI

@MERARAI

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Posted: 14 years ago

#290

Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

Prats being preggie doesn't depend on Baba's ability to strike 😉but on the cvs. When they feel the drama is loosing its TRP's bang Baba hits bullseye and then even if Prats was using some kind of protection accidents happen. Why do I see SS dancing and lifting his dhoti ' Aaye Amma hum Dada bananey wale hain😉

KC

I have been wondering if they put their plans to kill Prats into play and find out she is preggies and in an attempt to kill the plan new bahu selected for KN will be casualty and Amma or Piasiya could be hurt.

Baba isn't so much interested in making his bauji dada, he wants to make Adarsh mama for beating him at becoming Papa which is another farce. Komal saying she forgot she is preggies was so lame. PC Mathur was on to her I think. After all he has the mind of an investigator being PC and all that.

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