Trina's thoughts: 21st Sept 2010

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am glad SS didn't bother going inside to the maika, he isn't good enough to step in there where decent people live. He just isnt. And Komal's actions show maybe she is cut from the same cloth as her father and brother, if she is so ready to defend their actions and feels so self-justified doing it. Attacking Kesar of all people's worth, sickens me. Komal who can't read or write, is defending her violent brother and mother. I guess, blood is thicker than water. I wonder how come she attacked her brother and mother for trying to kill Prats the other day, she even prayed for her, now she defends them for killing the unborn poti.
If SS is so powerful, why doesn't he bring back the life of his poti? He supposedly thinks he is God. Why didn't he bother warning his family what would happen if this occurred a second time? Looks as if the elections are as always, the most important thing, and the ever-sacred Thakur name.
As for Amma's being the first woman to be jailed in the family and how her bahu brought this about, why doesn't she ever think about her other firsts, the first MIL to try and electrocute her own DIL, the first one to burn her DIL's hand, the one who is sweet as sugar to her own daughter and pure poison to everyone else's. As for Krishna's being useless, how easy it is for her to say that when she herself couldn't defend her actions against her DIL. ANYONE who doesnt agree with Amma is labelled useless. What she did was a criminal act, she should be treated like a criminal. AS IF her DIL stopped being human when Prats told her to rest from kitchen duty, or when she was ailing and Amma wouldn't give a toss to bring her to the hospital. The child wasn't even related to Prats, it was Shakti's kid and he didn't care.
I know not everyone likes Aman and Arushi's pairing, but I think it's a nice change from the Niwas pairs. It's a nice milk and cookies pair and it's never going to be the main draw for most of us, but that's ok. Aman's sweetness has been growing on me day by day, as is his wardrobe. and I am looking forward to him clashing with the Niwas men. We have the cavemen who don't shave versus Clean-shaven Aman Mathur and I can't wait to see the showdown. Minus purple walls, that looked like a salon and not a law office.
Prats and Shyamji's convo was amazing, because this is what the heart of the show is about. Standing for the right even when it's not popular and there are no guarantees. Just because Prats lost the battle doesn't mean she will lose the war. The day she loses the war is when Krishna stops loving her, and that will never be.
It's clear as day what Amma is feeling now. The sheer spite of a husband who never defended her name, being reflected by the incredible, unparallelled love of her own son for his wife. Because what Amma and SS share isn't love, it's convenience. His love for power, and hers for her children. Amma will never forgive Prats for what happened in the jail, and it has less to do with the FIL. If Shakti cared at all for Kesar, if he even brought a single flower stem for her from the town, Amma would be beside herself with envy. That's the way she is. Adarsh is supposed to love her daughter, but her sons can't love their wives. Prats has committed the biggest crime, for which she is trying to make her pay with her life. That crime is loving her son.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Very well written Trins👏.
Just because Prats lost the battle doesn't mean she will lose the war. The day she loses the war is when Krishna stops loving her, and that will never be. - Prats is surely not going to loose the war and with K on her side, they will come out as ONE....doesnt matter how much T's try to create rift between kriya...it will come back and bite on their face as it will only bring Kriya closer...cant wait for tomorrow's episode...I want K to give his Amma a big and hard one for making P washing her dirty feet and then ask her to drink the water😡...lets see what tomorrow has in store for us..hope will get a nice Kriya scene to make up this horror track😍
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: trina_one

The day she loses the war is when Krishna stops loving her, and that will never be.

Hi Trins,
NIce post. Agree about SS and Thakurain....those two belong in the amazon jungle, hopefully never ever to resurface...if they can take KN with them, the bettter for everyone. I am very, very upset with Komal so inclined to send her there as well.😡
@Bold above - not clear. Are you talking about her fight for Truth and justice? if that is the case then as a strong and independent woman, Pratigya should fight her battles alone and win the War alone as well. Otherwise it negates the whole purpose of this show - as many kept saying the show is about a independent and strong women.😃
If you are talking about her fighting the battle for love and then winning the war i.e. Krishna, then I understand the the bold sentiment - the day she losed Krishna is the day she has lost the war.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: kriyaconsumesme

Very well written Trins👏.

Just because Prats lost the battle doesn't mean she will lose the war. The day she loses the war is when Krishna stops loving her, and that will never be. - Prats is surely not going to loose the war and with K on her side, they will come out as ONE....doesnt matter how much T's try to create rift between kriya...it will come back and bite on their face as it will only bring Kriya closer...cant wait for tomorrow's episode...I want K to give his Amma a big and hard one for making P washing her dirty feet and then ask her to drink the water😡...lets see what tomorrow has in store for us..hope will get a nice Kriya scene to make up this horror track😍

Thank you kcm!
I want a nice kriya scene too. It would make my week. 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Hi Trins,
NIce post. Agree about SS and Thakurain....those two belong in the amazon jungle, hopefully never ever to resurface...if they can take KN with them, the bettter for everyone. I am very, very upset with Komal so inclined to send her there as well.😡
@Bold above - not clear. Are you talking about her fight for Truth and justice? if that is the case then as a strong and independent woman, Pratigya should fight her battles alone and win the War alone as well. Otherwise it negates the whole purpose of this show - as many kept saying the show is about a independent and strong women.😃
If you are talking about her fighting the battle for love and then winning the war i.e. Krishna, then I understand the the bold sentiment - the day she losed Krishna is the day she has lost the war.

I am referring to her battle for love primarily. In the case of fighting for truth and justice, noone fights alone, not even Pratigya. Even strong and independent women lean on someone, be it Shyamji and his teachings, Aman Mathur and his legal clout, or the silent strength of Ghanti Dadi. Even her battle for truth and justice, has become in part also Krishna's battle. Do you see how Krishna has changed dramatically from the sexist man who once demanded his wife sleep with him and prove her love to the evolved person he is now? How when Arushi opposed Shakti's advances and fought him off with her shoe, was it just her battle? It was hers, Pratigya's, and also Krishna's. Arushi saved herself from a fate worse than death, becoming one of Shakti Thakur's conquests and losing her reputation to him. Pratigya's battle becomes easier when the truth surfaces about her FIL and MIL's plans against her, then there is nowhere to hide for them.
Pratigya has one trump card here--Krishna's love for her. Even when he didn't think she loved him, he chose to defend her over his family. Even when his brother tried to hit her, he stopped him. He even told his family point blank that anyone who opposed his wife did so at the risk of losing him. So Prats has won his heart on her terms. Not by cooking his meals and washing his clothes, anyone can do that. By showing him there is more to love than control. There is the beauty of truth.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: trina_one

I am referring to her battle for love primarily. In the case of fighting for truth and justice, noone fights alone, not even Pratigya. Even strong and independent women lean on someone, be it Shyamji and his teachings, Aman Mathur and his legal clout, or the silent strength of Ghanti Dadi. Even her battle for truth and justice, has become in part also Krishna's battle. Do you see how Krishna has changed dramatically from the sexist man who once demanded his wife sleep with him and prove her love to the evolved person he is now? How when Arushi opposed Shakti's advances and fought him off with her shoe, was it just her battle? It was hers, Pratigya's, and also Krishna's. Arushi saved herself from a fate worse than death, becoming one of Shakti Thakur's conquests and losing her reputation to him. Pratigya's battle becomes easier when the truth surfaces about her FIL and MIL's plans against her, then there is nowhere to hide for them.
Pratigya has one trump card here--Krishna's love for her. Even when he didn't think she loved him, he chose to defend her over his family. Even when his brother tried to hit her, he stopped him. He even told his family point blank that anyone who opposed his wife did so at the risk of losing him. So Prats has won his heart on her terms. Not by cooking his meals and washing his clothes, anyone can do that. By showing him there is more to love than control. There is the beauty of truth.

Trins,
I think u misunderstood. I am not the one saying she should fight alone. When ever she does something and people ask why didn't she consult Krishna, the answer is given that she is strong and independent, why should she consult K?......so that means she should fight her own battle and win it alone, for those very reasons?. I've read so many posts about it, that she fights alone, it is her battle and does not need anyone and certainly not her husband. So I am always amazed when I then read that Krishna needs to support her otherwise she will lose.

Can't have it both way - strong and independent, can fight her own battle but then needs her husband to win?🤔
Love is a powerful factor, it can change or influence humans in so many ways, from the smallest to something big. I have always said from day one that this is a love story between two diverse people and their families so to me the love factor is important. So is mutual respect and consideration. Those thinks bring a couple closer and forges bonds that last and never breaks when tested.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: trina_one

I am referring to her battle for love primarily. In the case of fighting for truth and justice, noone fights alone, not even Pratigya. Even strong and independent women lean on someone, be it Shyamji and his teachings, Aman Mathur and his legal clout, or the silent strength of Ghanti Dadi. Even her battle for truth and justice, has become in part also Krishna's battle. Do you see how Krishna has changed dramatically from the sexist man who once demanded his wife sleep with him and prove her love to the evolved person he is now? How when Arushi opposed Shakti's advances and fought him off with her shoe, was it just her battle? It was hers, Pratigya's, and also Krishna's. Arushi saved herself from a fate worse than death, becoming one of Shakti Thakur's conquests and losing her reputation to him. Pratigya's battle becomes easier when the truth surfaces about her FIL and MIL's plans against her, then there is nowhere to hide for them.
Pratigya has one trump card here--Krishna's love for her. Even when he didn't think she loved him, he chose to defend her over his family. Even when his brother tried to hit her, he stopped him. He even told his family point blank that anyone who opposed his wife did so at the risk of losing him. So Prats has won his heart on her terms. Not by cooking his meals and washing his clothes, anyone can do that. By showing him there is more to love than control. There is the beauty of truth.

Wow trins...very well said👏...agree with everything u said...😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I know what you're saying, she should not need her husband to win. But they should have equal say in their marriage. And he should always support her in front of them even if he disagrees with her secretly. Because if he doesn't do this, what is the point of them being together, they will go after the Princess no holds barred. It's not like Adarsh and his wife, she opposes them but they arent going to ruin her life because of it. They tolerate her because they have class and respect.
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Originally posted by: trina_one

I know what you're saying, she should not need her husband to win. But they should have equal say in their marriage. And he should always support her in front of them even if he disagrees with her secretly. Because if he doesn't do this, what is the point of them being together, they will go after the Princess no holds barred. It's not like Adarsh and his wife, she opposes them but they arent going to ruin her life because of it. They tolerate her because they have class and respect.

Agree Trins. Marriage is all about equal say and mutual respect and consideration. These come easily and naturally if your truly love your partner.
What u said above, the same applies to Pratigya. She should always support him in front of her parents, even if she disagrees with him...That I am waiting to see yet.😊
Krishna has always supported her, in front of his parents, even when she 'hated' him.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

Agree Trins. Marriage is all about equal say and mutual respect and consideration. These come easily and naturally if your truly love your partner.
What u said above, the same applies to Pratigya. She should always support him in front of her parents, even if she disagrees with him...That I am waiting to see yet.😊
Krishna has always supported her, in front of his parents, even when she 'hated' him.

I absolutely agree Binny. Prats needs to support her husband in front of her parents, and I will definitely be waiting for that day with baited breath. I have seen Komal support her husband's family on occasion, but sometimes she goes the other way when it comes to her own family. Krishna has set an incredible example of trust and respect for hiw own wife, he supported her no matter what in front of all and sundry. Even when she broke his heart by not telling him the truth, he didn't let up in front of them and he apologized to his FIL for their behavior. I am wishing for the same loyalty and trust of Pratigya. but see how she told Arushi not to tell their own relatives what Shakti tried, it wasn't out of loyalty to him but to her husband because he stood up for them. So she isn't completely a chamchi of her parents.

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