Is it Pratigya's fault?!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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WARNING: This is a very looonnnnggg post, but I have created it as I feel there are many viewers who don't feel that Pratigya truly loves Krishna and they think her character is getting weaker. I disagree with this view and have stated my reasons below.
I don't blame Pratigya for the way things are now between her and Krishna. She had been stalked and harassed by Krishna therefore she married him to put a stop to her family from facing further humiliation. Yes she had later found out that it was Angad that kidnapped her and not Krishna but he has still done other things for her to hate him. He put a gun to her family members heads on several occasions, had people guarding her door to make sure no one leaves her house, broke off her engagement without even meeting her before hand. She had no idea who he was at that point! After marriage he has attempted marital rape on several occasions, he slapped her, tied her to her car seat like she was an animal etc. How can you give someone your heart when they treat you like this?
Therefore, it is perfectly understandable why she was terrified of him before marriage and post marriage also, So how can we expect her to reveal her feelings for him so easily now? She had always feared him deep inside, There were many times where she had tried to speak to Krishna, but he just grabbed her face! He even pushed her against the wall on their wedding night when she told him that he could never win her love!
However, Krishna has undeniably changed since being married to Pratigya. She is a strong character as she has always spoken up in the Thakur residence if she didn't agree with what they were proposing. Krishna had supported her through that. In her resistance to love him, she has unsubconsciously made him a better person. An example of this is that he manages his temper better, whereas before he had a very short fuse! His ideals of what a wife should be has also changed. Remember when he said that a woman should always bow down to her husband's feet? but he has done so much for her. If you check out the earlier episodes you can see the change.
In conclusion, I feel that both Pratigya and Krishna both have their faults in what the situation is right now. Krishna fell in LUB with Pratigya as soon as he seen her, but his tactics of how to win her over were wrong. He undoubtedly loves her more than we anticipated as viewers.
Pratigya on the other hand, got married to a stalker and complete stranger. Her aim was to seek revenge for her family's humiliation by never giving Krishna her heart. Though now after finding out that Krishna did not kidnap her, she has realised that she was punishing him for someone else's actions. This has also made her think about all the times when Krishna has always stood by her in front of his family. Pratigya realised her feelings for him when he had gone AWOL. Then when she had lost him, she realised the impact that Krishna has in her life and the continous LUB he shows her whether she chooses to accept it or not!. As they say "you never know what you've got until its gone!" and "absence makes the heart grow fonder".
So now they both need to work things out and Krishna needs to forgive Pratigya as she did not know he wasn't at fault and that it was her Dad that had stopped her from revealing the truth to him the instance she had found out. The only reason she revealed it in the court was because she knew it was the only way her Dad could be let free.
I know this is a really llooonnngggg post but I really LUB this show. I understand Pratigya's POV and I can never say that Krishna doesn't LUB her. Even if he is angry with her! Now lets just hope they make up and we can see a C of M very soon! 😉
KRIYA FOREVER!!!😳
PLEASE READ AND SHARE YOUR VIEWS! AND THANK YOU SOOO MUCH FOR READING! 😃

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Posted: 15 years ago
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awwwwwwwwww wat a gr8 post hazeera and simply lubbed reading it --ples dont say sorry--thx for writing ---the pleaaaasure is ours to read it --- i agree wid wat you said --but i personally feel prats shuld get up now and jus say one thing---that if at all angad had tried anything with her , she wouldnt have taken it lying down--she would have seen him behind the bar ! It goes wid her ways and proff had said earlier on being blackmailed, that had angad really harmed prats then she would not hve kept quite--she wuld hve raised her voice against him ! so going by her guts whch she has shown so many times by --------daring sajjan singh----defying amma-----challenging shakti----pushing krishna away ---- luking straight into gurumas eyes and disagreeing wid her----slapping the likes of angad not once but twice---chasing her whacko sis ( runs in their genes--also another gud marathon runner] and knocking sense back into her head----she shuld getup and make the most of the sattans absence------------ and stop rejoicing over uncle amans proposal { as though it has cum for her }
Edited by gees - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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a nice post 👏
it feels as if u have taken away the thoughts 4m my mind
and even i luv this show
i agree with you especially the first para
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Posted: 15 years ago
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u have pointed out krishnas major faults.....pratigyas fault is making wrong choices over n over again....

for me krishna's character would outweigh pratigya's character any day
i like krishna's character most because creatives gave him many shades....there is both good n bad in him....n he has been trying to be a better husband for pratigya
pratigya has faults too.....she is ignorant...self centered... selfish..... foolish.... dependant on others .....n who thinks she is always right.....n her sachai ki ladai is seriously flawed
for me pratigyas faults out weighs the good in her
i really really hope creatives now give this character attention....n make her a great character...
i have quit watching the show from the court scene....but i still read the updates
just my POV....no offence to anyone
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ Hazera_14

Nice post, very similar to the official synopsis of this show. Keep posting regularly. Loved it.
Edited by SAM2U - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thank you all for your wonderful replies!

Gees- I like your view that Pratigya should have said to Krishna that if Angad did do anything untoward then she wouldn't have taken it lying it down! Good point! 👍🏼

an-jaani- I agree that Pratigya also has flaws but I didn't know where to start 🤔or how to put it in words, so thanks for that! Hopefully she will now transform and we will see other sides to her character 😉 as we have already seen Krishna go through many changes, so I guess it is now Pratigya's turn to change, as well as at the same time convincing Krishna that she loves him. I can't wait for the C of M! I LUB KRISHNA!!! 😍

Phoenix1 and SAM2U- Ha! Ha! Yes it is like a synopsis of the show! I guess i'm just trying to gather my thoughts about the show, as I understand the POV's of both Pratigya and Krishna and I really feel we have reached a turning point in the show.👏

I have to admit Pratigya has surprised me as I never thought that she would actually end up falling in LUB with him😲, as she has always been cold towards him no matter how loving Krishna was towards her.😔 Yes both of them have faults but they now need to work through them and come up with a resolution that works for both.😉 I just hope that their love blossoms, and they become a strong force that no one will be able to mess with! 🤬Not the Thakurs because of their hate of Pratigya or Sucksenas because of obvious favouritism that they will be showing to that Aman Mathur !😡

KRIYA 4EVA!!!!!!!

Edited by Hazera_14 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Great post!

I believe no one is at fault in any given situation but it's the circumstances that you are in that make a certain person look as though they are in fault. Whether it their gestures, body language or whatever you make think.

Everyone has a different perspective to life.. One would say that a coins side is heads and the other would say it's tails. Neither are wrong, right? It's from the angle you see it through.

Same way, KriYa have been brought up in a complete different way. I wouldn't say one way is right or wrong, but that's how I would define the upbringing of the people in the community etc.

Whatever reason KriYa had in getting married to each other was, is, has and will change over time. The one thing common being.. Love!

Love is what keeps a family bonding. Thakur family have a different understanding of bonding... Insulting each other, whether this is true or not I'm not sure but this is my interpretation, which is why Krishna loves his family but then clashes with them too. Amma and Sajjan Singh love him more than Shakti.. Why? Being the younger son, and being in love with a girl! Does Sajjan Singh love Amma? Does Shakti love Kesar? Does Krishna love Pratigya? We all know the answer to those 3 questions!

In some places, Krishnas taught Pratigya something in the same way Pratigya has taught Krishna something. Everyone has a different way of expressing love or generally anything. Pratigya being hesitant is completely understandable.. She hasn't seen her family behave like the Thakurs so for to not comprehend is justifiable! But with time everything will settle! We'll see a new bonding between KriYa!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gees

awwwwwwwwww wat a gr8 post hazeera and simply lubbed reading it --ples dont say sorry--thx for writing ---the pleaaaasure is ours to read it --- i agree wid wat you said --but i personally feel prats shuld get up now and jus say one thing---that if at all angad had tried anything with her , she wouldnt have taken it lying down--she would have seen him behind the bar ! It goes wid her ways and proff had said earlier on being blackmailed, that had angad really harmed prats then she would not hve kept quite--she wuld hve raised her voice against him ! so going by her guts whch she has shown so many times by --------daring sajjan singh----defying amma-----challenging shakti----pushing krishna away ---- luking straight into gurumas eyes and disagreeing wid her----slapping the likes of angad not once but twice---chasing her whacko sis ( runs in their genes--also another gud marathon runner] and knocking sense back into her head----she shuld getup and make the most of the sattans absence------------ and stop rejoicing over uncle amans proposal { as though it has cum for her }



Gees

Aap bhool gayi hai ka? Prats only makes declarations in public, she needs an audience of at least 4 or more or else kaam nahi chalega.😉

On a serious note, as I stated in my comments on the thread for Wed episode it took his loss for a few minutes to wake her up to his value in her life. Hate is the other side of love there is just a breath that separates the two. Hate is a resistance to love of something that is noticed on the surface. I once read that you can only hate the ones you really love. There is something deeper there that evokes a response of hatred so readily.

I want to see the day Prats comes to know from Krishna or T/C about the dupatta incident and Krishna defending her from Angad. There are still little details she doesn' t know that started a long time ago.

Something in Krishna drew her to him early on. She told Rolli Nitin fit the bill of the perfect groom but she never felt drawn to him. Yet during her engagement to Nitin, she couldn't take her eyes off Krishna the very first time they saw each other. Krishna knew deep down they had connected. Krishna said it best to Prats on the night before they went to the terrace that you educated people worry about planting the seeds before and after and worry if there may be problems with it as well. So aptly put. As Guruma said to Prof. at the wedding, people who are educated about life can teach valuable lessons. Krishna is doing just that to Prats, things she never knew of. She admitted to Krishna on Fri episode, she now knew what a husband and wife relationship means. I was so relieved to hear her say that. That is a good place to start rebuilding her marriage.😃

Edited by MERARAI - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well saw d warning and was confused that it's not mera or tanthya's post.................. 🤣 🤣

now will read it and come bk wid my thoughts............... 😆 😆 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nisha2010

well saw d warning and was confused that it's not mera or tanthya's post.................. 🤣 🤣

now will read it and come bk wid my thoughts............... 😆 😆 😆



nisha, I rarely warn about my long posts now. It's a note at the beginning of the post these days.😉 Everyone is used to it. They are used to my chapter book by now.😛😆😆😆😆😆

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