Take 3 - My Views !! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Dyehard

Hami!
Though I like to joke about it, don't get influenced by my name!😛 I may be dyehard, but I only see a romance if it is there to be seen! 😃 For instance (don't know if you watch sarural genda phool?) I would hardly say that Suhaana is in love with Ishaan, or if she will ever be capable of more than a comfortable loving marriage. But when a story has been laid with so much intensity, we just have to acknowledge it.
No comfortable and convention-bound love for Kriya! please! they are both about breaking barriers however subtlety the show it from Pratigya's side.
As for as the pregnancy fiasco, do you remember how delighted the parents and dadi were? how much they congratulated her, and how dissapointed they were on finding out tht Kriya does not even have such a relationship? Did that impress Pratigya with a need to consummate her marraige? did she even think of doing so, just because her parents really wnated it? No! she was not in the least convinced. She was embarrased for having her private life so much thought about by everybody and even discussed. She was not in a position to either deny or accept anything and she was feeling very silly about it. Half the reason she kept quite is becasue she did not wnat the whole world to know the exact relationship between her and Krishna. It is another matter that she went and blurted the whole thing out of frustration, later at that pooja.

Another thing, did you notice her expression when she came to know that Krishna is back? There was relief, happiness but also excitement and a little bit of fear. This imminent consummation has been on Prtaigya's mind all this while, perhaps even more than Krishna's!
She knows very well that Krishna is not going to be a tame sort of lover, and also he has always been ready to spring on her at the slighest encouragement. She ha salways wondered how she will handle him. At first it was anger and fear, when shecame to know about his innocence in the kidnapping she realised that it was only a matter before it happens, but she is a little scared and wants time. Now she is fully prepared and she knows that if Krishna comes back o his own, nothing is left to keep them apart. But though this thought fascinates her she is also slightly afraid of his "Aanch" or probably even of her own passions? 😳
As for guilt, I don't think she thinks on those lines at all. She may be a properly brought up girl, she may be a bit of an innocent, but she is certainly not lacking in guts nor is she in the least bit repressed.

Originally posted by: SaacheeSyna

Great post tanthya....loved reading your take on Shyam's words to pratigya!!....finally pratigya getting his dad's approval!!.....I wonder sometimes...it's a nice coincidence that Pratigya's father and her husband has the same name meaning!!😉...must have had a good reason for them to do that...

Anyways waiting for rest of your take on the epi!! 😃

Originally posted by: Dyehard

No, Tanths, I don't think Pratigya is anybody's girl. Yes, she will dutifully listen to everything everybody has to say, appear to value their advice, perhaps even consider it, but boy, is she possessed of a ADHBHUT
obstinacy!
I don't think anybody's opinion of Krishna is important to her as her own assessment. She is far beyond her father's dull exhortations to value Krishna as a husband. He is not preaching to the choir, he is preaching to the pulpit! 😉 She was hearing her father out but she is far too private to reveal the true state of her feelings for him. Her only idea is to say enough to leave him feeling reassured. Her's has always been a lone journey and she takes no ones opinion about where to make a pit-stop.
As for all the characters having their say, that is the way these guys (CVs) like to play it out. Even in Krishna's case evreybody in the thakur household has his or her say -right from amma to dadi. But Krishna makes up his own mind. His wife is the same. It just makes for interesting drama when characters appear to be pulled in hundred directions. But these two are heat-seeking missiles. Never to be deterred from their course! 😆
She did not borrow counsel about getting married, or how to conduct her affairs, and she is certainly NOT going to wait for anybody's cue or moral permission to change her mind or take her marriage to another level.
All her parents urgings did not change her mind earlier (both asked her to accept Krishna before, but she took her time.) But once her mind is made up I doubt even Krishna can hold out! 😉😳

Originally posted by: HamiSky

Exactly Tanthya...

wihout those reassuring words from her father...she wud ahve always felt a little prick in her heart!!...more so coz she went against her family to give her acceptance to this marraige...

thats a normal feeling of most women...i believe!!

Originally posted by: tanthya

Pooja,

I don't think it is a coincidence that both are named after the same God... For Pratigya, her father has been the sun, and she would do anything for his happiness, she has a need for his appreciation..she considers him as everything... but after marriage, i think Shyam will be replaced by Krishna ..he will become the center of her universe ..probably the CV's are hinting at this by giving them similar names..

Originally posted by: Dyehard

Hami!
Though I like to joke about it, don't get influenced by my name!😛 I may be dyehard, but I only see a romance if it is there to be seen! 😃 For instance (don't know if you watch sarural genda phool?) I would hardly say that Suhaana is in love with Ishaan, or if she will ever be capable of more than a comfortable loving marriage. But when a story has been laid with so much intensity, we just have to acknowledge it.
No comfortable and convention-bound love for Kriya! please! they are both about breaking barriers however subtlety the show it from Pratigya's side.
As for as the pregnancy fiasco, do you remember how delighted the parents and dadi were? how much they congratulated her, and how dissapointed they were on finding out tht Kriya does not even have such a relationship? Did that impress Pratigya with a need to consummate her marraige? did she even think of doing so, just because her parents really wnated it? No! she was not in the least convinced. She was embarrased for having her private life so much thought about by everybody and even discussed. She was not in a position to either deny or accept anything and she was feeling very silly about it. Half the reason she kept quite is becasue she did not wnat the whole world to know the exact relationship between her and Krishna. It is another matter that she went and blurted the whole thing out of frustration, later at that pooja.

Another thing, did you notice her expression when she came to know that Krishna is back? There was relief, happiness but also excitement and a little bit of fear. This imminent consummation has been on Prtaigya's mind all this while, perhaps even more than Krishna's!
She knows very well that Krishna is not going to be a tame sort of lover, and also he has always been ready to spring on her at the slighest encouragement. She ha salways wondered how she will handle him. At first it was anger and fear, when shecame to know about his innocence in the kidnapping she realised that it was only a matter before it happens, but she is a little scared and wants time. Now she is fully prepared and she knows that if Krishna comes back o his own, nothing is left to keep them apart. But though this thought fascinates her she is also slightly afraid of his "Aanch" or probably even of her own passions? 😳
As for guilt, I don't think she thinks on those lines at all. She may be a properly brought up girl, she may be a bit of an innocent, but she is certainly not lacking in guts nor is she in the least bit repressed.

Originally posted by: SaacheeSyna

I sincerely hope that's what the cvs are hinting at.....because up until now nothing of that sort has happened...infact Pratigya's life revolves around everyone except krishna😆...it's high time that it finds its anchorage😳😳

Originally posted by: tanthya

But Pooja,

Up until now..Pratigya ws not in love with Krishna...and when she began to develop feelings, Papa's vachan acted as a block ...but now... there is nothing to stop her unless Krishna himself does something to incite her hatred ... her love is sputtering and is slowly building into a gigantic radiant blaze ...All we have to have is bit of Patience...😊


Love ur blushing !!😃