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Tanthya

I doubt prats needs Krishna to be violent in order to fear his reaction when they are alone, in fact she has already been insulted to the extremes by her in laws, she is in a state of shock, they have stripped her of her confidence, have instilled a sense of fear in side of her and she has completely broken down for the time being. I know this will not last because she is not the type to completely break down, she has the strength to face her problems but she will need some time before she can find her strength again in order to fight against this injustice done to her.

Prats is already scared, shocked,and has been hurt by her in laws actions though it was something she expected but I'm sure they went even past her own imagination. Now she is also expecting a negative reaction from Krishna and after what she and her father have just been through I personally don't feel Krishna breaking things out of anger is going to have much of an affect on her state of mind. I don;t mind though if he takes his anger out on different things as long as he never touches prats that is unacceptable. I don't think prats will be scared or shocked by Krishna's anger it is something she has expected especially after that incident where Krishna told the man to kill his wife. Prats will still be in a state of shock from her in laws behavior towards her not so much their words but their actions.

Krishna though will not be humiliating her in public his reaction will be tolerable for her because it will be in private as long as he does not abuse her of course, and I'm sure she is capable of understanding his pain, and will try to make him understand once he calms down because in anger Krishna hears nothing and listens to no one. So as much as prats making an effort is important Krishna must be willing to listen to her.


Tanthya I was referring to SS not fulfilling his promise of releasing her father once the elections were over, If guruma told him keeping the professor in jail was to their benefit do you really think he would object


You mistake me Binny...whe I said that Krishna need s to be violent...I did not mean it for Pratigya's sake...I meant it for Krishna's sake...his hurt and his betrayal has to come out ,only then will he listen to her or else he will just be intent on silencing her and refusing to listen to her...

I refuse to buy the theory that Pratigya is shocked ...she is hurt , yes but she was prepared for their reaction...she did not use the word "LADAI" lightly...she knew it will be a ladi and she was prepared for it ...what she was not prepared was for Krishna to still accept her as his wife...her reaction plainly shows this ...

As for Krishna listening, I ahve already said , he has to vent out his anger and yes even I had said..he must not touch Pratigya , that will make the confrontation all the more effective ...


Binny, do you think Komal will be quiet, she in many ways is like Krishna ...she will not allow her bauji to wash his hands off her FIL's case ...of that I am positive...😊

Originally posted by: tanthya

Sam,

She knew she is entering a war zone when she said to her father that this FIGHT IS HERS ALONE ... so she already knew that there will be fight and was ready for that ...she knew such an accusation would be hurled against her hence her calmness and quietness when it actually was happening .....


Did that guy instigate his household members to apply coal ? did that guy throw her out ? did that
justify his family's behavior ? Did that support his family's behavior .? NO !!

That guy held her from falling !! That guy took her in , That guy announced to te shocked family that she was his wife ...and any decisions will be taken by them , no butting in thank you ...
A reaction completely unexpected judging from Pratigya's and her papa's expression !!

A human being is always growing up... pleasure,pain,experience will shape and change our perceptions... to expect Pratigya or for that matter anybody to be same ..is unrealistic...

But if she rises from this humiliation I will give her the biggest meddle of honor.

Thanxx for finally accepting that she does MEDDLE.....😊

Thanks for reminding that I lack to write correct English or correct spellings


Please read the sentence with the word "medal of honor instead of meddle of honor"

tanth..............

Wozzie! Just saw the show in it's entirety. I guess most of you have already parsed the bits we saw. As always Baba stole the show. His pain, anger and strength all in less than a minute. Wah! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 That scene grabbed you by the heart.

If anyone ever questioned Krishna's love for Prats and labeled it as lust, animal instinct, there was the answer in the worst scenario again standing by her against his family. Baba spoke the truth "hamesha tumri saath denge" and he did.

I didn't see anyone discuss this so I am raising the possiblity now.

Prof. asked Prats to withhold the truth from Krishna bec' he was afraid of how he would handle the news. Today the Prof. got his answer in that one sentence "Ye humra beebi hai". It would be interesting to see how the Sax family deals with this news. What should really be shown to the viewers is that educated people sometimes make ridiculous choices too. By hiding secrets from her husband and publicly outing it both families have been publicly ridiculed. They are bound to react in their own ways. But the Prof. showing remorse and coming clean with Krishna about his part in all this is a must. Nothing wrong in admitted one's mistakes. Shows strength of character.

Katra Naresh should be outted for bringing a kotewali home. Let's SS throw him out of the house with kaala rang on his face for doing beizzati in his own sleazy way. Ganti Dadi, a word to the wise, she's got to stop sitting there like she is dumb and speak out . How much worse does it have to get before she feel you can speak up. She could have stopped Amma with her vile actions and given SS a piece of his mind too.

This is one big lesson Prats hopefully learned. Educated or not one has to look at the big picture and do the right thing. She was given ample opportunities to come clean by Krishna when they could have easily resolved this in private. Instead of choosing the public forum to stand up for her rights and protecting her family she must learn to deal with things when they must and not let them get out of hand. Had she said this to Krishna right after the wedding when he asked her what he had done wrong or even recently she would have dealt it between themselves. Angad wouldn't have had anything to hold over their heads. Instead now her family got drawn into it and their lives have turned upside down.

Can Prats now, really say that Krishna's love for her is selfish and delusional. If she does, then she is the one who is selfish and delusional.

Trying ot say too many things at once, but you get my drift. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, will say more later. Got to go now.😃

Originally posted by: SAM2U

Thanks for reminding that I lack to write correct English or correct spellings


Please read the sentence with the word "medal of honor instead of meddle of honor"

Not at all, Young Chap ......in the midst of a tense life ...one shud savour light reliefs too...😃

You mistake me Binny...whe I said that Krishna need s to be violent...I did not mean it for Pratigya's sake...I meant it for Krishna's sake...his hurt and his betrayal has to come out ,only then will he listen to her or else he will just be intent on silencing her and refusing to listen to her...

I refuse to buy the theory that Pratigya is shocked ...she is hurt , yes but she was prepared for their reaction...she did not use the word "LADAI" lightly...she knew it will be a ladi and she was prepared for it ...what she was not prepared was for Krishna to still accept her as his wife...her reaction plainly shows this ...

As for Krishna listening, I ahve already said , he has to vent out his anger and yes even I had said..he must not touch Pratigya , that will make the confrontation all the more effective ...


Binny, do you think Komal will be quiet, she in many ways is like Krishna ...she will not allow her bauji to wash his hands off her FIL's case ...of that I am positive...😊

Tanthya you misunderstood my point I know Krishna first must get his frustration and anger out and only then will he be able to calm down and question her about this situation, or if he refuses at least prats can try and make him understand without the fear of being abused. My point was that even though he will be extremely aggressive towards her she will not be shocked by his behavior nor too scared because she is already scared and in pain due to her in laws actions. Krishna's actions will not have as much on an impact on her she has been expecting this for a while now.

I never said she was shocked by their reaction I meant blackening her face was beyond her imagination being humiliated to that extant has been the cause of her shock otherwise she is already aware of their narrow mindedness and knows nothing else can be expected from them or truly from anyone else in that situation.

Yes she was also shocked by him still accepting her as his wife, anyone would be after all he is just as narrow minded unfortunately she will awaken from this misconception once they are alone. I;m not saying he will leave her but his anger will show her that he has many questions he needs answers to before he can decide how to takes things forward, this in understandable though.

Komal yes she is just as unpredictable as Krishna but she is easily manipulated by SS just like Krishna as well don't you think? Though I;m sure she would try to help but would she go against her father I doubt it

Originally posted by: MERARAI

tanth..............

Wozzie! Just saw the show in it's entirety. I guess most of you have already parsed the bits we saw. As always Baba stole the show. His pain, anger and strength all in less than a minute. Wah! 👏 That scene grabbed you by the heart.

If anyone ever questioned Krishna's love for Prats and labeled it as lust, animal instinct, there was the answer in the worst scenario again standing by her against his family. Baba spoke the truth "hamesha tumri saath denge" and he did.

I didn't see anyone discuss this so I am raising the possiblity now.

Prof. asked Prats to withhold the truth from Krishna bec' he was afraid of how he would handle the news. Today the Prof. got his answer in that one sentence "Ye humra beebi hai". It would be interesting to see how the Sax family deals with this news. What should really be shown to the viewers is that educated people sometimes make ridiculous choices too. By hiding secrets from her husband and publicly outing it both families have been publicly ridiculed. They are bound to react in their own ways. But the Prof. showing remorse and coming clean with Krishna about his part in all this is a must. Nothing wrong in admitted one's mistakes. Shows strength of character.

Katra Naresh should be outted for bringing a kotewali home. Let's SS throw him out of the house with kaala rang on his face for doing beizzati in his own sleazy way. Ganti Dadi, a word to the wise, she's got to stop sitting there like she is dumb and speak out . How much worse does it have to get before she feel you can speak up. She could have stopped Amma with her vile actions and given SS a piece of his mind too.

This is one big lesson Prats hopefully learned. Educated or not one has to look at the big picture and do the right thing. She was given ample opportunities to come clean by Krishna when they could have easily resolved this in private. Instead of choosing the public forum to stand up for her rights and protecting her family she must learn to deal with things when they must and not let them get out of hand. Had she said this to Krishna right after the wedding when he asked her what he had done wrong or even recently she would have dealt it between themselves. Angad wouldn't have had anything to hold over their heads. Instead now her family got drawn into it and their lives have turned upside down.

Can Prats now, really say that Krishna's love for her is selfish and delusional. If she does, then she is the one who is selfish and delusional.

Trying ot say too many things at once, but you get my drift. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, will say more later. Got to go now.😃

@ Mera. I have read all your posts and fully understand your POV as the same things were repeated so many times. But tell me After blackening her face and her fathers face they have killed her and her soul, doesn't that require that we discuss the effect on her life and mind set , doesn't that require any consideration.

Now even if krishna wants to vent out further anger on her, wont effect her a bit. She is damaged so much that she can't be the same Pratigya who he fell in love with. She is alive physically but shattered inside. She does not need to explain to any one now beacuse this doesn't matter any more. She got the guilty verdict and punishment before she could fight her case.

He can have her now in this state, but have lost the Pratigya he once loved. " FOR EVER"

Originally posted by: SAM2U

Thanks for reminding that I lack to write correct English or correct spellings


Please read the sentence with the word "medal of honor instead of meddle of honor"

Sam,


Get the Medal of Honor ready .... u will need it pretty soon .....😊

Originally posted by: SAM2U

So the general consensus here is that violence against women should not be condoned, If one is subject to such brutality and humiliation and the act of blackening ones face which could be attributed to something like "crime against humanity" is justified because a girl and his father that caused SS to lose his election hence this treatment.

How low people can get is mindbogglingly. If the mind set was to punish her and her father were elections or even questioning her honor then No matter what, Partigya should declined to stay in that house

How conveniently Krishna arrived just in time to stop them form leaving, but when the damage was already done. And his entry before they left was to ensure that he still have to give his piece of mind to Partigya. So further torture and humiliation awaits her.

Now whatever Krishna does, verbally or physically to Pratigya wont matter to her, because she is already shattered, humiliated, heart broken, her sole is butchered by the ones who should have protected her.

She has now paid the price of marring a goon for revenge and blackening of her face and her fathers face is enough price for coming back to that house to save that mistake i.e. her marriage which is not worth saving any more,.

These humiliations will never stop by her in-laws or even her husband as the baseless allegations and mistrust on her honor is going to continue on daily basis, it will be too difficult to bear in even attempting to save her marriage.

Sam ,


Violence against woman should not be condoned but merely saying woman shud not be abused will not stop the abusers...it still is persisting even in the so called first world , developed world...in other words , education, liberation, rise of feminism ,financial independence of women has not stopped the abuse of women ...and it will continue how much ever we froth .....

what happened yest was a "crime Against Dignity" and not crime against humanity.....


Sam , This is what happens in the rural areas ....and is still happening ... and I must say...Pearl has given a cosmetic and a diluted version of reality ....for the tru realiry is much more horrendous ....


How inconveniently Pratigya and saxena arrived early for them to be humiliated and all set to be thrown out ...how inconveniently she tripped and fell into Krishna's arms ...


she is humiliated but still steadfast in her commitment or she would have not resisted Shakthi ..how do u expect her to be protected by the family , the very family which holds her responsible for their loss of respect and prestige in the society .....

A marriage will be subject to many trials and tribulations ..it is ur commitment and determination that will decide whether that marriage succeeds or not !!

Originally posted by: SAM2U

But tell me After blackening her face and her fathers face( this is not at all necessary...i don't understand why the curatives showed it...it looks as if saxena went there to moo kaala karne...lol) they have killed her and her soul,( good point😃...but our madamji killed unpad gawaar krishna and his soul long before that too repeatedly...great achivement by her.....so one time if they kill her it doesn't matter ...it is her kiya karam...i can only say bhagwaan kay darbaar mai thay hai anthayr nahi...i hope you under stand the meaning of this saying....)and doesn't that require that we discuss the effect on her life and mind set , doesn't that require any consideration.

Now even if krishna wants to vent out further anger on her, wont effect her a bit.( when krishna'a words ,actions,request ,promises etc effect or affect her... to effect today?😲... She is damaged so much that she can't be the same Pratigya who he fell in love with. She is alive physically but shattered inside. this happend to krishna long before...i think you forgot the days he was wandering on the strees....She does not need to explain to any one now beacuse this doesn't matter any more. She got the guilty verdict and punishment before she could fight her case...

He can have her now in this state, but have lost the Pratigya he once loved. " FOR EVER" good for him...😃...atleast he can live with shanthi...if not happy

sorry Mister Samji ...i actually i don't want to answer this post ...but can not resist my self...lol

Originally posted by: Binny1247

You mistake me Binny...whe I said that Krishna need s to be violent...I did not mean it for Pratigya's sake...I meant it for Krishna's sake...his hurt and his betrayal has to come out ,only then will he listen to her or else he will just be intent on silencing her and refusing to listen to her...

I refuse to buy the theory that Pratigya is shocked ...she is hurt , yes but she was prepared for their reaction...she did not use the word "LADAI" lightly...she knew it will be a ladi and she was prepared for it ...what she was not prepared was for Krishna to still accept her as his wife...her reaction plainly shows this ...

As for Krishna listening, I ahve already said , he has to vent out his anger and yes even I had said..he must not touch Pratigya , that will make the confrontation all the more effective ...


Binny, do you think Komal will be quiet, she in many ways is like Krishna ...she will not allow her bauji to wash his hands off her FIL's case ...of that I am positive...😊

Tanthya you misunderstood my point I know Krishna first must get his frustration and anger out and only then will he be able to calm down and question her about this situation, or if he refuses at least prats can try and make him understand without the fear of being abused. My point was that even though he will be extremely aggressive towards her she will not be shocked by his behavior nor too scared because she is already scared and in pain due to her in laws actions. Krishna's actions will not have as much on an impact on her she has been expecting this for a while now.

I never said she was shocked by their reaction I meant blackening her face was beyond her imagination being humiliated to that extant has been the cause of her shock otherwise she is already aware of their narrow mindedness and knows nothing else can be expected from them or truly from anyone else in that situation.

Yes she was also shocked by him still accepting her as his wife, anyone would be after all he is just as narrow minded unfortunately she will awaken from this misconception once they are alone. I;m not saying he will leave her but his anger will show her that he has many questions he needs answers to before he can decide how to takes things forward, this in understandable though.

Komal yes she is just as unpredictable as Krishna but she is easily manipulated by SS just like Krishna as well don't you think? Though I;m sure she would try to help but would she go against her father I doubt it


Binny,

u have posed the q and u have given the answers urself regarding Kriya..so let me concentrate on Komal ...

Komal in many ways is not a naive like krishna...she is quite clever , she will not be so easy to fool like Krishna...she picks and chooses her moment to deliver her punches ..and they are killer punches too ...if push comes to shove...she will push her father and continue to nag until FIL gets released...😊