Originally posted by: Rahm
Of course he's going to be forceful yaar. This is what he grew up believing is right. He's seen his father and brother do it. To get out of this forcefulness, he needs a guiding hand. Prats needs to tell him how to act and teach him how a man is, not turn away from him or make faces. She needs to be direct and talk openly with him. It's the only way he'll realize what he does that is wrong.
Ok! I agree with u about HOW Krishna grew up! So, HOW did Pratigya grow up? Did she grow up providing guiding hand to the lost ones??? Just coz she is educated and civilized, does not really mean that she is experienced in guiding the uncivilized and the illeterate ones!!! ofcourse, Pratigya needs to tell him and thats what she is doing by asking him to start with being friends and telling him HOW friendship will make their relationship of husband and wife more strong! Other than a guiding hand, I think Krishna also needs two ears that are willing to listen and a mind thats willing to understand and a heart thats willing to accept his mistakes and the corrections as NOT some bhashans!!! Direct and open talk has NOT really worked with Krishna so far, has it? Infact, he realized Pratigya's feelings when she only used his language on him, ie. hum tumhare patni hone k natey tumse kuch maang rahe hai... Too bad, thats Krishna's style BUT not Pratigya's!!!
Omission is a lie to me. I don't think it's right to hide something and expect to start off a relationship. She wants them to be friends. Friends share their problems and they comfort one another. They don't turn away or don't answer when a friend asks them what's wrong. If she wants to truly be friends with him then she needs to open up the foundation which is with the truth.
Even I dont think hiding something is a good start to a relationship! For me, Pratigya NOT revealing the kidnapping incident is not a lie! Yes, she wants them to START being friends and friends who eventually start to trust each other, share their problems and comfort each other!!! The trust and sharing doesnt start from day one, does it? See, from the precap, she even shared her college memories about her friends with him, now, if she really didnt want to be friends with Krishna, she wont have done so, right? We all know WHY she couldnt share the Aarushi incident with Krishna, coz even though she WANTED to, her dad made her promise against it!!! Its not even like it was HER idea to not share with Krishna!!! Why do we have to ignore her intentions just coz she was mislead by her dad? I mean, we all can be sooo generous towards Krishna's actions bcoz he too is mislead by his dad and brother and friends and what not!!! So why cant the same be applied to Pratigya? Coz, she is educated and civilized?😕 Maybe its different for everyone...Coz, I remember I didnt trust my best friends on day one and they became my best friends after I started to trust them, eventually!
The fact is Krishna cannot figure out why his wife hates him. Why all of a sudden she's nice to him. Why she wants to be friends for now. Of course it's confusing and he will have doubts as to what is going on since nothing was clearly talked about.
C'mon! Just coz Krishna ignores Pratigya's explanations about all the WHY's, u dont have to do the same, do u? Pratigya explained it WHY she hated Krishna when he tried to force himself on her during the honeymoon! She told him WHY she wants to be friends, coz thats what will make their relationship as husband-wife stronger! BUT, he is back to square one and thinks that Pratigya loves him very much and is playing hide and seek with him!!!🥱 Now, if all that is too confusing for Krishna, whats Pratigya's fault there?😕 Seriously, how much CLEAR does it have to be for Krishna to understand, unless, he just does not WANT to understand, period? Can u plz give me an e.g. scenario? Coz, no matter how much we all want Krishna to know about the kidnapping incident, just like I cant be 100% sure that Krishna will act negatively to the revealation of the kidnapping incident, u cant be 100% sure that Krishna would act positively to it!!! COz, that dude is soo UNPREDICTABLE!!!😆
Prats is to blame just as much as Krishna is for what's going on right now. They both need to hatch things out and the only way to do this is from the beginning with honesty. Krishna needs to know what Angad did and Prats needs to know what Krishna didn't do or why he did the things he did do and that is the only way they can move past all the barriers between them.
Lolzzz... Right NOW, both of them are being very nice and understanding to each other and I think the credit goes to both of their efforts to understand each other and make their marriage work!!! Well, Pratigya knows what Krishna did NOT do and as for the things that he did do, ahemm, I think she has been told a zillion times by now, by Komal, Naina, Prof. Shyam - that he loves her a LOT but his ways of expressing it were wrong!!! So, I think from Pratigya's part, its All Clear about Krishna! However, just coz she is aware of the reasons, that does not really help her much when it comes to accepting some one who forced his love and rights on her!!!
Krishna... hmmm... I really dont see HOW Krishna knowing about Angad will help him understand Pratigya's POV! I mean, how can one be sure that he wont jump on her even when she reveals that incident? Thats wat the MAIN fear of the Saxenas is, isnt it? So far, from what we have seen of his character, did Krishna EVER show TRUST in Pratigya, whenever it mattered the MOST??? Infact, he suspected her character for TINY things as handshake or eating gol-gappas!!!
I know, esp. in serials, the male leads can get away with NOT trusting his beloved girl/wife and later claiming to love her and the betrayal is forgotten as soon as the misunderstandings are cleared up! However, I believe that if a person truly loved someone as Krishna claims to love Pratigya, he will trust her and give her a chance to speak!!!
Now, Pratigya was NOT the one who claimed that she loved Krishna, so it makes sense to me why she wont trust Krishna from day one of their friendship! And I think thats how a girl like Pratigya falls in love - she first starts to trust the person and then falls in love.... Krishna, however, claimed that he loves Pratigya BUT so far, I dont remember seeing him trusting in Pratigya, esp. when it matters the most!!! So, IF or WHENEVER, the kidnapping incident is revealed, I think its gonna be a test for Krishna's love for Pratigya and if he passes it, Pratigya will definitely fall for him but if he fails it, I wont really blame Pratigya for NOT loving Krishna!!! I dont really think it has got nything to do with Pratigya NOT revealing the truth sooner or later!!!
