Krishna wants her dad and mom to say sorry to Prat

I understand his love for her...But what I do not get is waht about his love for his mom and dad.

I agree with both of you........Yes SS has done all that Krish wanted keeping aside his wishes only for his son's happiness......Krish too loves his parents, but right now ...he is completely, totally head-to heel in love with Prats and just can't see the world....totally blinded by Prats...in spite of humiliating rejections from her side till 2 days ago....

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I agree . . I have been thinking about this for a long time and I don't approve of Krishnas behaviour with his parents a bit . .

I am not talking about SS and Amma as villains or individuals here .I am merely talking about them as parents. As Parents they both love Krishna a lot .

They kept aside their pride , their wishes ad accepted the girl he chose for their bahu . For his sake they went to that house only to be met with sour faces and disrespect .

Then the girl came , and inspite of spending lavishly for a grand wedding and honeymoon , they find that the girl is not giving an iota of happiness to their son . She has not even consummated the marraige with him .

SS did not tell her GO . She opted for it . Very arrogantly , losing her temper , uncaring about the fact that she was washing dirty linen in public , she declared she will leave the house .

SS is a crude Man .He too lost his temper and took her by the hand and took her to the door . Go , he said . Is he so wrong from a sasur's POV ?

After that Krishna gave his parents havoc . U guys did this U guys did that .Ur just a baap , for Pratigya I will fight the world , this and that .Ideally , ss shud have told him to get out and stay out . Still SS controls his temper while Amma watches on , stunned at the way son dances for his newly wedded wife who gives him nothing except hate . How will she like Pratigya as a mother in law ?

In Laws like their bahu mainly coz she is giving their offspring , son , happiness ....not just for butler duties.

Krishna backanswers his parents in front of Pratigya all the time. He does not give them a shred of respect , or value .Clearly he tells them I value my wife above u guys .Naturally they are gonna resent Pratigya , such statements of Krishna are tactless and will not endear Pratigya to them.

Whatever the reasons SS has phoned twice and made the move . Seeing this Krishna feels that he has brought SS down to his heels and gives them attiude saying But wait I gotta consult my wife first .

Instead of doing this why doesnt he set up his own nuclear family ? It is not good to be so arrogant with parents , they give us birth and life much before our spouses come in our life . If Krishna's goal is pleasing Pratigya , he should stay with her and accomplish his goal .Constantly making his parents bend in front of her is shameful . They desrve some respect , uneducated , crude though they may be ....the parental relation is entitled to respect .

If his wife is educated and too proud to adjust , fine , he shud move out .What he shud NOt do is gloat that his parents have now come down from their high horse in front of his wife .His wife NEVER got off her high horse and if he feels this is her victory , he is wrong .,All she succeeded was in sowing more hate in her in laws mind in the long run .

He is youngest and favorite so SS and Amma havee indulged his every whim . He does not even realise how much he takes them for granted or how much he disrespects them in his craze for his ladylove .

I disagree with this post...acting disrespectful and talking back to his parents is the way Krishna always operates. This is normal behaviour for him. He knew his father will eventually call and when he did Krishna is teasing him by saying that he has to check with Pratigya. He knows that will drive his father crazy....he is just pushing SS's buttons and enjoying it.

This is just normal for this family.

Originally posted by: lovanika

I understand his love for her...But what I do not get is waht about his love for his mom and dad.

It was all his fault with the pregnancy episode. HE asked her to lie and then he slapped her.

SS got angry when Pratigya said she will leave the house adn that is why he draged her out...

But now when his dad is asking him to come back Krishna is saying that he needs to ask Pratigya.

To me it is like direspecting your mom and dad. It seems Krishna wants them to bow down and say sorry to Pratigya even though it was not their fault....

I know they are abd but Iam only talking about this particular situation.....now I think that Krishna might want ot name SS's house as Pratigya Nivas...

i disagree with this post this is not the first time krishna has disrespected his parents in fact he had done just this most of his life, he loves them but knows how to take advantage of their love for him in order to get what he wants. also respect this word does not seem to exist in his household, nor do they respect others or each other. and i don't see how it's wrong when he wants to ask his wife about her feelings on a certain situation since he realizes it has to do more with her then him, she was slapped and dragged out humiliated in front of everyone not him, i think he has started to respect his wife, and she will slowly show him how to respect elders around him as well. also he never said they had to say sorry all SS has to do is come and get them apologizing was not part of that deal, and prats would not and so far has not disrespected her in laws no matter how they have treated her, she will eventually teach krishna but that will take some time😉

I have to totally disagree with you. When did Krishna ask his parents to apologzie to parents? He just wants to make sure that Pratigya is ready to move back. As a husband it is duty to make sure that she is comfortable. Krishna froced her into this marraige. What is wrong with supporting your wife when your parents are illtreating her ? Just because it's the husband's parents is a girl to take all that abuse. Kirshna was right when he said "I will support her when she is right." Children are not our puppets. When they grow up they are going to have opinions that are different from ours and we have to respect that. For a woman rasied in a home like Pratigya's where her Dad never even yells at his mom, she has shown considerable respect to them. It is only the parents who have to be respected .In my opinion when our children grow-up we have to let them go and live ther own life. This does not mean that they dodn't love or respect us.

I have not see the most current SBS. But one thing that Krishna in his basic logical way y'day told SS very clearly was he needs to ask Prats if she is comfortable with going back. He gave it to SS straight. This is a fight between you and her and I'm caught in the middle. Krishna did make the effort to bring Prats back even tied her to his jeep lest she jump off on the road. He begged her to say sorry and get the silliness over with. His begged SS to just put it all behind him and let them get in. But SS was as pigheaded as Prats it not more however right he was to demand she apologize for saying to them she would leave her sasural so disrespectfully in front of her parents.

Often this is a dilemma for many men who are caught behind a hard place and a rock with his parents and his wife. As I mentioned in my post y'day Krishna is very secure in his relationship with his parents. He knows no matter what they will come around. He is still fighting to get his wife to accept him and blinded by that purpose and possessive of her he could still be angry his parents are giving HIS WIFE so much grief. He is still struggling to make things right for her and in the process he does and says things that expose their uncultured behavior to their faces, however wrong, in front of Prats which does cross limits. They are after all his parents and deserve respect as elders.

But as we know this marraige thing is still new and confusing to Baba on so many fronts. He doesn't understand that it is a game of cat and mouse at times between bahu and sasural esp. with this family that has lots of people with huge egos. He still has to figure out that he can't get involved in the relationship between his wife and his parents bec' it puts him in an awkward position to take sides which would displease both of them equally.

Prats for her part should get off her high and mighty horse and stop stooping so low as to demand her inlaws apologize to her. There is no need to strip their self-respect for her pride. She, among other things, has to learn to respect her inlaws as elders and dissipate this tension and stop putting Krishna in a fix in this situation. Be the bigger person and apolgoize for being so pig-headed for so long and say I appreciate you coming to bring us back and ask for their blessings.

SS has to learn that sometimes circumstances change and he is forced to bring his bahu for his own selfish purposes and Prats has to learn to get off the ziddi horse and be humble with her sasural. There is a limit to wanting to prove one's point without compromising another's self-respect. They both need to understand the relationship is such that they are both going to need the other at diff, points in their lives and such obstinate behavior puts Krishna in a difficult position to have to please both of them and keep the peace in the home at the same time which is not the easiest thing in a Tacurse home.

Krishna is a lil rude to his dad and his mom but I guess that's just the way he has been brought up. He loves his dad a lot and they have this whole buddy relationship .. I share the same with my dad so I can totally identify with it .. 😆 its damn cute the way they interact...

As far his mom is concerned I think he should show some concern towards her .. I know she's a meany but she loves him a lot ... he doesn't care a lot for her 🤔

I don't think he wants his dad to say sorry to Prats ... he just said that I'll ask Prats if she wants to come back.. I think that's sweet ... he's starting to respect his wife and her opinion .... yeh ladka ek baar sudhar jaye he'll make a good husband 😆