Originally posted by: dhakarn
well ...................i don't think pratigya slapped angad by thinking that krishna or sakthi won't be able to do anything....................it was just a natural and reflex reaction from her....i mean would anybody in this world just stand there silently and let him talk abt ur sister the way he talked.....any normal person would have totally gone mad and tried to cause him as much pain in that insant with whatever resourses r available like ur hand or leg or any other thing which u could lay hands on.....ur brain just can't think in apractical way in such situations........i think pratigya wasn't even thinking anything but to cause him max insult and pain and punishment for harassing her family and bad mouthing abt her sister...........and she is justified .....fully............i had read a story abt a nexlate women many years ago......she was captured by police and put in jail without a case being filed.......and the officers and constables tried to rape her.....u knw what she did?........when she knew she can't overpower them she just tore open her blouse and challenged them to touch her as if she was being possessed by a ghost or something........and that outburst put all those namards to thier places.......they didn't dare touch her.....so did she do such an act to make it easier for them or welcoming them to have her? no......... it was the last attempt to save her izzat of a self respecting women who could not even end her life herself as she didn't have any means to do so.........did such an act make her stupid.......? no instead it made her more braver than the whole mankind in the universe.........so raecting to circumstances instantly wouldn't make u stupid or in any way immature......it makes u more human.............just my thought.........
Dear dhadkarn
The case u told us about is very interesting but it happens only in very RARE cases . In 99 % of the cases , gundas will straightaway go ahead and rape the woman if she does that .
I agree with you that it was a natural reflex action . But what I am saying is.......the first time she slapped him in the train she didn't know he was a gunda ......now , she KNOWS . She knows what he is capable of . So shud she mess around with him this way , is it wise ? She will this time endanger not just herself but her family too . Filth will of course come from his mouth ....he is a sleazeball , what do u expect ? That he will talk like a gentleman ? That too when Pratigya just upset his whole plan ?Woh toh aise hi bolega na......uski aukaat hi vaisi hai . Lekin poore parivaar ko us thappad ne danger main daal diya.
Will he take geting slapped so lightly ? See I understand natural reflexes but sometimes we gotta control them , knowing that things don't work in OUR way all the time . The world we live in , it is a jungle . We cannot go around showing our temper and reflex actions to people coz we r hurt and angry when we are in no position to do so . What if he had pulled out a gun and taken Arushi by force with him right then ? After all she is a woman and her full sanskaari family is no match for those gundas they cud easily overpower them . Bas Yehi mera point tha.
Anupamaa
