Originally posted by: pricey28
friends, you've misunderstood me. once again, i absolutely believe angad 1000000% DESERVED THAT SLAP!!!!!!! 😡 in fact, he deserved much, MUCH WORSEEEEEEE 😡😡😡 but this is why i said she shouldn't have slapped him:
1. the slapping thing didn't benefit the saxenas in any ways whatsoever. what prati SAID today was more than enough, and that is what was sufficient to stop angad from blackmailing them for money, about prati's honor, any further. the slapping didn't do anything to help them.
2. but it did WORSEN things. now, DEFINITELY be assured that angad will NOT back down, and his target for arushi has even strengthened further, MUCH, MUCH FURTHER. i am positive now that he will see marrying-arushi as the perfect "badla" to prati's slap, something which he did NOT feel earlier.
so, does this mean i am saying staying quiet to these thugs, not raising your voice, not standing up for yourself, is the only answer...??? ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!!! once again, i 10000000% support what prati SAID today. and that is what proved beneficial for her family in order to stop angad from his extortion. but what did the slap do, did it help them in any way...??? NO. sometimes, we have to draw a line between standing up for ourselves and letting our anger/self-respect get in the way. what prati SAID today was "standing up for herself and her family"; the slapping was a matter of her "anger/self-respect getting in the way" when she heard angad utter those nasty things about arushi. now, once again, i believe angad 1000000% deserved that slap, but the thing now is, its only made matters worse. and i think the fact that last time she'd slapped him, caused her whole life to get ruined, is proof-enough of the inevitable: that indeed this latest slap will cost heavily on prati and her family!!!
just wait and watch what angad tries to do now... 😒
NOWAY Pricey! I dont think I or Shruthi misunderstood u, really!😊 Every thing I said to u was after keeping in mind that u believe Angad deserved the slap!
Coming to ur point no. 1, I dont think nyone, esp. a girl like Pratigya - snaps OR slaps BCOZ it would be beneficial or worthless for her and her family!!! And I think she slapped Angad AFTER he started sprouting nonsense and if I remember correctly, that was AFTER Pratigya was done with speaking her mind!!! So, I would say, Pratigya's calm confrontation dint really have NY KIND of effect on Angad, other than him realizing his mistake in letting Pratigya go untouched and so he got the gaul to threaten Pratigya that he is gonna touch Aarushi and etc... And, I really dont think - AT THAT moment, NYONE who cares about their sibling COULD do NY LESS than slapping and relieving their anger! Now, just coz Adarsh and the rest of the Frozen wax models DID NOT MOVE, doesnt mean Pratigya have to do the SAME!!! She wont be the main lead otherwise!😉😆
Ur point no. 2, YES, Angad will definitely seek revenge BUT WHAT makes u soo SURE that Angad WOULD've backed down IF Pratigya hadnt slapped him? Esp. after knowing Angad's character - He dared to go after Aarushi EVEN after being almost killed by Krishna and EVEN after Pratigya daring him to harm her family, he threatens her on her face that he would touch Aarushi!!!
I think IF Pratigya hadnt slapped Angad, it wont have made much difference in Angad's future plans with Aarushi, it would only have made Pratigya very much like the rest of Frozen Wax Model of her family! And I really prefer the current Pratigya to a Frozen Wax Model of her!😛
Ofcourse there are gonna be consequences BUT that WILL NOT be as a RESULT of Pratigya slapping Angad! Coz, this WHOLE cycle of revenge and consequence was started by Angad to begin with!!!
Just coz one fears the worse situation, does that mean one have to tolerate the wrongs? I mean, thats wat Prof. Shyam was doing soo far - he was fearing the unknown consequences of going against Angad and pushed his daughter into taking the risk and leaving the house in the middle of the night! I think MOST of us viewers DISAPPROVED of Prof. Shyam's actions which was based on the future consequences!
Just coz Pratigya saying or slapping Angad doesnt resolve the matter, does it mean, she has no right to express her anger/feelings? Come on! IF Angad can express his feelings and that too RIGHT IN the Saxena house and AGAINST the Saxenas, WHY should Pratigya STOP slapping him, just coz the consequence might be worse? Yes, Aarushi might be in danger WITHOUT Pratigya, coz UNLIKE Pratigya, I dont feel that the other Saxenas are capable of protecting their family!!! And EVEN IF Pratigya had just LET Angad continue with his nonsense about touching Aarushi, without slapping him - I really cant see HOW u expected Angad to back away AFTER he challenges Pratigya that he wont make ny more mistakes and will touch Aarushi!
Yes, the slap was a matter of her anger and also her family's BUT it was not about her own self-respect! It was about her sister's self-respect! And I would love to have a sister like Pratigya and will be soo PROUD of her!!!⭐️



Lolzzz... I guess I got carried away with my professorayi!😆 Pricey, I hope u wont feel offended or being misunderstood! I think its just different POVs of seeing the same serial! And I sort of get the feeling that u r saying everything coz u are worried about how much more sufferings Pratigya will have to go through or how long we might have to wait to see KriYa together, after Angad loses his temper! BUT lets not forget that Pratigya was not in the situation to predict Angad's future plans!😉
Edited by limits - 15 years ago