Krishna's chaalu sasuraal - Page 2

Originally posted by: MERARAI

I didn't have any pudding today but ate chocolates instead.😉 Baba was at his innocent best. I was also extremely disappointed with the Creators for showing us a watered down, literarily and figuratively speaking, the AHA! moment when Prats found out that Krishna was innocent of kidnapping her for which she had treated him with so much hatred and contempt all these months. I was hoping we would see more reaction from her of guilt, sadness, anxiety, joy and satisfaction that her husband was a good man after all. Instead we had five seconds Me too ..........disappointed . Very inadequate reaction.

White or black lie it has a way of coming back to bite in the rear when one least expects it. It becomes an issue of trust. If Prats even tells a white lie and Krishna finds out that she lied even if it's a trivial matter then will he trust her when she tells him the truth about something serious if he knows that she is capable of lying and it doesn't bother her to do that. What will happen is she will succeed in making Angad go away without money or Arushi tomorrow and like a rattlesnake whose tail has been stepped on he will decide to hit her where it hurts the most ..........via Krishna.

I raised this question in a thread yesterday "the shoe is on the other foot now". She made a big issue of not wanting to lie and how Krishna forced her to lie about the fake pregnancy. Komal was right to point out why didn't she confess the truth earlier when she had so many occasions to do so before the havan. So what is she going to do now after knowing the truth? Avoiding the issue or hiding it is still a form of lying esp. if the info. can make or break a relationship. Either she comes clean with the truth and explain why she treated him with so much contempt since the wedding or if she chooses to keep it to herself and she tells Krishna she wants to start afresh. Only problem with hiding the back story is that the truth always has a way of coming back when one least expects it and forces the persons to face the consequences in a situation at an inappropriate time. It never pays to put off what can be done to clear the misunderstandings now for another day bec' who knows how circumstances can change and how they may contribute to the current problem or situation that needs resolution.This was the perfect time ........their alone time at the Adda . No sasural people to hover , snoop , tell tales , no maayka people to influence .She cud have a complete heart talk with him there and he wud understand . What he WONT understand is this mysterious rainy night , on retrospect , where ALL of them lied so hand in glove .

But we know she's not going to tell him the truth. If she did then the CVs will not be able to split this couple now to move the story line along for months to come.Yes . They need openings for future tracks .But Then she shud not get all righteous and say How dare he suspect a woman of lying about her izzat etc . If she dares does this , I honestly hope Komal blasts her .

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

you know guys

the reason she stays behind to confront Angad and she does not tell Krishna is because SHE DOES NOT BELIEVE that krishna is innocent. even after receiving testimonials from her most trusted family members and knowing him so closely over the past few days.

In the Bible, we have the disciple of Jesus who is called Thomas and he doubts that Jesus is God and among them after crucifixaton (even though he is one of his most trusted and loved friends). This disciple is called Doubting Thomas by Jesus in the Bible because Jesus has to show him the holes made by the nails in his wrists before he believes Jesus.

When we are unwilling to accept certain blatant truths our parents always caution us to not be a Doubting Thomas. I feel so much like using that word in regards to todays revelation and epi.

Her only reason for staying back is not to teach Angad any lesson because honestly she is powerless in this regard. He does not need real proof to destroy her in the society she lives in. Perception of defilement will suffice in doing the trick specially considering that perception and not truth rules in the public and political arena (speaking from daily career experience here).

She is staying back to challenge him to show the "pratigya" tattoo on his hand. that is why she is staying. if he shows it then she MIGHT CONSIDER giving krishna the benefit of the doubt. If not, then its back to Mission Hate Krishna For Eternity.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Of course he deserves to know the truth ..............he has been treated like dirt and vermin since the first night of marraige .Or does Pratigya think that only educated people have the right to know the truth ? His Suhaag raat , his enthusiasm on honeymoon , his first rose ..she has trampled his emotions ruthlessly due to these two incidents and now when she knows she feels the poor uneducated boor doesn't need any explanation or respect , instead its enough if he is handled by manipulation ?

And what about Komal ? She is PART of the family ! She has more right to be there than Pratigya today by conventional standards ! They have conveniently left her at the Singh mansion [ now its ok for them to use Sajjan Singhs haven for her to languish as it suits them just fine] and are plotting like no ones business over here for jhooti izzat .

I wish Komal had heard her sasur telling Pratigya that Tumhara dosh yahi hai ki tum Sajjan Singh ki bahu ho . And I wish heartily that she had given him such a blasting by speaking loyally of her dad that the Prof wud totter to the university , not walk for days together .

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

See how they reacted to his honest queries

Prof and Naina LIED

Adarsh was angry

Arushi was quiet [ what else can the shameless do after her deed ]

Pratigya blatantly manipulated him .

A disgusting lot .

Originally posted by: mia03

They will alway treat krishna like this and it is all about education. The little that they have, has clog their brains up. no compassion for the uneducated, how dare an uneducated cross their path, but one thing they do not know is that their daughter, sister and granddaughter, is very much in love with an uneducated boy.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

This is the very jhooti izzat that raises their ugly heads in each of their snooty minds. On the other side SS and his family as Krishna put it "jhooti shaan se mar rahe hain". So both families need to get off their high horses and step on to solid ground, walk up to the nearest mirror in the house and take a good honest look at themselves.

Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

Hope, i doubt that she doesn't believe what her trusted family told her as she quite confidently did say i'll deal with him 2morrow. i can imagine where u r coming from becasue in y'days episode she was quick to link that Krishna was harassing her family with regards to the kidnapping. If that is the reason that she is waiting to confront Angad to calrify that it was him who kidnaped her and not Baba then I sincerely think Baba is happy without her and he deserves a wife who trusts him

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" color="#ff3300">What a horribly chaalu sasural poor Krishna has ! Today my heart went out to him . The way they stood there lying through their sanskaari teeth ...........so effortlessly [ as if they have been used to lying for the whole of their sanskaari life] was simply disgusting . Where the hell do the sanskaars go when they LIE so blatantly ? I thought immense rectitude and the blazing truth was their sanskaari motto .......Pratigya cud NOT lie in front of the holy fire , right ?How did she Lie so effortlessly today ? Ah ! The holy fire was not present ! I forgot !

</div>So her lying stands r selective. For maayka people she has no problems lying ..its Krishna's bedroom secrets that she cud not keep within her . Ah !

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What was heart wrenching was Krishna's innocence . In that whole chaalu lot , he alone was the one who was talking the truth . Bluntly , as he had nothing to fear or hide , and whatever is in his heart is also on his lips . He straightaway asked

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1] Does Arushi have a love affair ? Why did she sneak out this way ? A very valid question . All Saxenas chup chaap as if smacked on the face .

2] What r u guys hiding ? So true . They r hiding , and hiding things relevant to you Krishna. And boy they are hiding a lot .

3] Is this your Patnidharma ? Very true again . Will any conservative man welcome his wife back after she returns with a sneaky look on her face , drenched at midnight without any plausible explanation ? Wud Nitin have accepted Pratigya back so easily as a wife ? Or wud Jagmohan's wife throw her out ?

4] Am I not family ? Why do u guys dont speak in front of me ?

But you know what was most disgusting ? The way Pratigya used him . The way she used his love for such a petty purpose , by lying to him . Such a chaalu way of using a pati .

Krishna who is as innocent as a male can be , flew on the highest cloud and said ok , telling her he wud come back for her the next day .Truly Pratigya needs a punishment for making a mockery of marraige and now inspite of knowing his innocence , using it this way .

Btw Madam is handling things ONCE MORE all by herself .........the slap in the train , the stalking , the satyanaash that ensued was not ENOUGH for her . And her goofy family is allowing her .

Such a hoo haa they did about lying .....now it is perfectly ok for them to lie to their bahu Komal and jamaai Krishna.

The name of the show should be BHOLA KISANWA AUR USKA CHAALU SASURAAL .

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