Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo
Toltally agree she didn't want to solve her marital problems but wanted a situation created so that she cld walk out of da marriage holding her head high. As Ammaji pointed out to baba she wanted to walk out from this marriage. She didn't have the guts to do so despite the number of times he abused her when she provoked him.
During the Havan she made it look in front of her parents that she tried to make this marriage work despite him being the kidnapper but look what a brute he his. He slaps me publicly, humiliates me etc, etc, etc so i can't live with him. The card played quite well. She had her fathers brother and that annoying sister's support.
See she never takes up the responsiblity of her mistakes. She chose to marry him but on the SR she told him u left me no option. Her mom asked her why did she aggree with Baba to lie abt the preg she said i was forced to lie. How come the force acts selectively?
K-chalbo we have been discussing this for a while now haven't we? Prats has selective memory and hearing. She doesn't believe in falling in love until one gets to know someone. Maybe she hasn't read the newspapers or heard of anyone at the University where she was studying that people who know each other over a period of time also end up in miserable marriages and there are those of love at first sight that work well. She is rigid in her thinking, for that matter the whole family is, everything is boxed into, taur-tarika, usulo, reethi-riwaz and so on.
Where will this sudden love for him spring from when she has nothing but cold heartedness for him except on two occasions,....after the chaako stab and when he was choking on his food. So she needs a medical crisis to get in touch with her real feelings for Krishna?
I'd like to see Krishna engaged and taking another girl around town on his motorbike while PPP(prim and proper Prats) watches as he drives by.
There is only so much any man can and should tolerate. It is sad that when someone loves a person with so much passion and it was never about lust but more about an emotional connection to see it shred around him.
But I think he is only holding on to her now bec' of his pride in front of his family. Will he keep his Tacurse ka jaban and stand by her when the Angad story comes to light as he promised to do against the world or will his trust in her be broken. It takes a lot to break a man like Krishna.
Even after the hollimoon fiasco he couldn't stop himself from doing things for her and caring about her. Those feelings can' t be tossed aside if they are real. She could well play an guilt trip on him and ask him if he truly loved her he would stand by her bec' she is his patni. But I do want to see REMORSE AND REGRET on Prat's part no matter how ignorant they were about the truth.
Had the marriage mattered to her she would have told him why she was angry with him for the things he did and listed them. At least then he'd know what he was up against and worked it out between them. She wouldn't have insulted and hurt him time and again and trampled on his love for her and how his own family was ridiculing him for his love of her. Even he said so to her, he didn't want to the family to mock his love for her. She needs a taste of what she dshed out to Krishna before he ever treats her like a wife again.
Prats has been chipping away at his spirit day after day and it's about time he protected himself and walked away. So what if he lost in love, he can still learn to love another maybe in a more healthy way and away from this woman. As Komal said he could remarry but a woman will not be given the same respect in society when she leaves her husband.
Prats has an uphill task coming up and we'll see how her pratigyas measure up when the time comes. All the tears in the world from her will not be enough to make up for her behavior towards Krishna.
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