i really don't understand pratigya! - Page 9

Originally posted by: limits

hi...limit!😲😃...nice to see you in my thread🤗.yaar yesterday i was very much upset about krishna's act .so i did not log in at all...

Hey Shumi! Just finished reading ur long reply to my equally or much longer comment!!!😆 And me decided to leave it at that coz I completely agree with wat u said about ur literacy style and mine are different and so, I understand why u would like to be the one to change where as I wont want to change myself for someone like Krishna!!!😉😊 yep...no worry we will continu here😃.in my previous post i was just trying to read from pratigya's side putting myself in her shoes , not to justify krishna's act(obviously he is a sinner😡), i want to think whether his act would have been avoided by pratigya?😕...any way leave it...

Now, back to this topic! 😆 I only watched the last part of yesterday's episode, but I read the written update. So, when Pratigya says - bcoz of ur one lie everyone of my family hates me now - Well, from wat I read in the update, Aarushi did blame Pratigya for ruining their brother's life who was in love with Pratigya's best friend and I think that was enough for her to assume that both her siblings hates her and remember,yep i got it.you caught the right point which i was struggling to find so far😊

she asked her mom during the celebration wats wrong and even after Naina refusing her, Pratigya was sure there was something wrong - So, why cant she think/assume all her family members hate her and were pretending to be nice just like Adarsh and Arushi were trying to act nice??? may be you are right...she might have assumed so😕

When she says, everyone one is misunderstanding - I think she meant about the fake pregnancy - coz everyone IS misunderstanding that she is pregnant and hating on her!!! umm...righto😊

Hope my comment wasnt tooo long for u to skip it!😛😆

Thanx for reading and I know u don't like reading or typing long comments, so, thanx again for reading and replying back to my other long comment!😃

come on ...don't say so😔...it is not the matter of liking or dis liking the post... i am too lazy to ready long comments🥱...and the worst thing is i cannot type long reply...let me tell you why? 😉...please don't laugh 😆...i type using only my right hand that too with my index finger alone😆 so it is very very difficult for me to make long post using my single finger....god! can you imagine a person typing with only one finger😆.i hope you understand me and kindly bear with me if i don't reply your long post...😃

Originally posted by: MERARAI

The way I see it Pratigya is no Mother Teresa. There is plenty of blame to go around in how Krishna and Pratigya are dealing with each other. She is portrayed as a weak woman who blames everyone else for her life. She has made poor choices along the way before she knew about Krishna.... hiding things and lying to her family to begin with. The way I see her, no self-respecting strong woman will marry a man who has humiliated her family. She embraces her sasural as her own but not her husband? She stands up for Kesar's truth about the baby with her sasural but won't stand up for her own right and out the lie? If she is a strong woman why isn't she fighting back with her sasural when they treat her poorly instead letting Krishna stepping in to save her day every time? Let's not forget her verbal tongue-lashing at Krishna when she can't handle the stress in that household, a choice she walked herself into with her own justifiable reasons.

Prats is fundamentally lacking in common sense. Her treatment of Krishna is the more subtle verbal and emotional kind that leaves no physical scars but deep emotional ones. Krishna said as much to the Sucksenas at the pooja. When he of his own volition stepped in to defend Arushi's honor and that of his sasural, he gets a verbal lashing from Arushi as her way of showing him gratitude. Pratigya in her own way pretended like it never even happened even after seeing the chaaku stab. This girl raised with good sanskar didn't have anything nice to say to thank him for standing in for her family, did she?😕 If she did, I didn't see it.😕

When Prats doesn't know how to problem solve she expects Krishna to step in and save her from the wrath of her sasural. If she thinks she can say and behave any way she pleases with Krishna and expects him not to react, that's ridiculous. Every person has a snapping point, even if he is a saint. And we all know that Krishna is no saint. 😲😊

from yesterday i was trying to read pratigya's side...character analysis differ from person to person 😊...your analysis is very much similar to my thought.i liked it👏😃. i agree krishna has committed a sin no matter whether it is a rape or just attempt to rape...to certain extent pratigya is also reason for his act .she is making her present life hell brooding over the past. she should know that ,she is not going gain any thing by brooding over her past.as a so called padi likhi girl she should know how to move on in her life.😃

Originally posted by: -athena-

I knowwww😲....Damn...Pratigya asked for the 'rape'....damn, all the girls who get raped ask for it with their attitudes....Basically men are no saints...If a woman shows anger at them, and vents frustration for their lies, what can the poor men do- they have only one weapon against women and how can we blame them for using it...Especially men like Krishna who has a heart of gold and who claims to be in lub with his wife....How can he NOT 'rape' her and show his immense love for her.....😲

Originally posted by: MERARAI

What is this fixation with rape? Does every discussion have to dead end into this subject? There is more to these contradictory characters than just this subject for discussion in every thread.😕 My post was not intended to rehash the same discussion here, some statements are more generic.😊

Originally posted by: MERARAI

You are welcome to your POV. I said "Prats lacks common sense" and the rest of the paragraph is self-explanatory. I don't know what the issue is at the moment, but please don't misquote my post to make your point. You don't have to agree with my POV, it's just my opinion. There are plenty others who are on the same bandwagon with you, so enjoy the ride with them.

OM SHANTHI OM!

Originally posted by: MERARAI

I, personally, am not spoiling for a fight when posting on this forum. So please watch it and refrain from crossing the line with your statements (underlined) and move on. It's obvious to me you don't understand my writing. As I have suggested to many others, give it a pass and please move on to the ones that are more your cup of tea.

Originally posted by: snehadhanda

Pratigya always humilates krishna even when he behaves nicely to her! 😡😡😡😡😡😡then why she is living with him????? she shuld tell her in-laws dat she hates krishna and she is not prgannt!n she will never ever love him!!!!! why she is behaving like a good bahu! even when she can see that that her mother in law is rude to her!she shud try to be a good wife ! n if she can't do dis den she shud leave krishna's house!!!!😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

yep...if she can't be a good wife there is no use of being a good bahu...better get away from krishna's life to your mika...sit with arushi and brood over your past till you go to grave...

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Excellent point! If Prats behaved this way I'd accept that Prats is a strong woman who stands up for her rights and a role model for other women as well. Right now we have rarely seen her stand up for herself much at all. Her convos. with Krishna are more confrontational which doesn't resolve much but adds to the disharmony between them.

Originally posted by: shumi.

she is the weakest women...who don't know how to handle her husband for her own betterment...she dug her own grave

Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

Thank u for pointing out this?
I have been asking the same question since the pregnancy lie track has begun
Okay I get that she was stalked by baba, for revenge she married him. She kept on hating him and has constantly humiliated him despite his constant efforts without him knowing the real reasons?
As result of the hatred he reacted the way he knows the best (BTW I am not saying it is correct).
He has physically abused and attempted rape.
Now my question is :

WHAT THE HELL IS SHE STILL DOING IN THAT HOUSE? WHAT IS WAITING FOR BEFORE SHE LEAVES THAT MAN?

1) Is she still living there because she continues to seek revenge? Has she not realised that everytimne she shouts and humiliates him she justs aggrevates him and the whole abuse process starts again? Well girl wld u be still thinking of seeking revenge if your life was at stake? For all u know Shaktia and Amma mite be planning that😆😆

2) Is she staying there because she is scared of the society (not so strong then) and is worried that family wld be upset that she has come back to them. Well girl her parents despite the fact they are Sucksenas wld be happy that she safe rather than married.

3) Does she believe that she is very strong and brave and wants to prove it everybody? Well bravery and strength will show results in your favour only if used with that grey matter within your skull else it results into a disaster. We have the whole history to prove it.

4) Does she have a very strong drive to do social service and wants to fight for women then the suggestion join a NGO which fight for such causes.

5) Does she love her in laws and wants to win the ideal Bahu award at SPA awards😆😆? Well honey such things have no value in life if you are traumatised and your self respect is wounded?

6) The last one and the least possible one Ican think of is SHE ACTUALLY LOVES APNA BABA AND IS NOT AWARE OF IT😆.I will leave it for ppl who think Prats hasn't done anything wrong defend this line😆


WHAT WILL TAKE TO PUT SOME SENSES IN THAT SKULL OF HERS THAT SHE IS NOT SAFE THERE?


IF AN OPPRESSER IS AT FAULT THEN SO IS THE OPPRESSED